Need help choosing between head and heart. Sorry for the long post.
Im not really after opinions on the names themselves. But how do you know which to choose when you could regret not using either one?
Pregnant with last baby. Dont know gender yet. But we finally decided on [name_f]Arwen[/name_f] [name_f]Elvia[/name_f] (g) and both me and my partner love it. We initially had [name_f]Arwen[/name_f] [name_f]Belle[/name_f], which was our top for ages. But circumstances meant we could no longer use [name_f]Belle[/name_f] without upsetting close family members.
But I’ve also been crushing on [name_u]Fox[/name_u] on and off for ages. And today Ellowyn [name_u]Fox[/name_u] popped into my head and there was an instant emotional pull. It had that ‘feeling’. You know the one I mean?
However I also have that feeling with [name_f]Arwen[/name_f]. And now I dont know. I love both, for different reasons. [name_f]Arwen[/name_f] was a name we wanted for my first daughter and decided against it… I dont want to regret not using it again. And I dont know why Ellowyn [name_u]Fox[/name_u] has such a strong emotional reaction in me but its there in my gut and I cant ignore it.
I know I will likely know when I see them. But Im still worried I will have name regret since this is our last.