Help! I'm so indecisive!

I keep changing my mind!

For both a boys and a girls name, I want something traditional and classy. I have several favourites for both boys and girls, but keep switching between them! I’m just a bit anxious that when I do have kids, I’ll give them a name and then further down the line, I’ll regret it.

My current favourites for boys:

[name_m]Elijah[/name_m]
[name_m]Matthew[/name_m]
[name_m]Reuben[/name_m]
[name_m]Josiah[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m]
(My first son will have the middle name of [name_m]Gregory[/name_m] for family reasons).

Girls:

[name_f]Francesca[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_f]Jemimah[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Fleur[/name_f]
[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Evie[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Theodora[/name_f]

[name_f]TIA[/name_f] :smiley:

I think that from your lists, [name_f]Fleur[/name_f] and [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] are the best fit for what yo are looking for. [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] is good too, but very very popular.
Other names that might work for you: [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_m]Jack[/name_m], [name_u]Keegan[/name_u], [name_f]Caroline[/name_f], [name_f]Georgia[/name_f], [name_u]Kennedy[/name_u], [name_f]Mallory[/name_f], [name_f]Coralie[/name_f]
Good [name_m]Luck[/name_m]!

My favorites are [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] & [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] or [name_m]Josiah[/name_m] & [name_f]Jemimah[/name_f].

Out of your girls names, I think [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] and [name_f]Matilda[/name_f] are wonderfully traditional & classy without being overly popular or trendy. [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] is beautiful as well, but it is so popular, would it make you regretful if she is one of many? [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] & [name_f]Matilda[/name_f] are beautiful, timeless & very recognizable but not overly popular or trendy. I don’t see how someone could regret [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] in particular!! That being said, the only name on your list I do not like at all is [name_f]Jemimah[/name_f] - I could see that causing some name regret. My least favorites are [name_f]Theodora[/name_f], [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] and [name_f]Freya[/name_f].

For boys, I like [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_m]Gregory[/name_m]. [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] is on trend but also has a lot of history. The nn [name_m]Eli[/name_m] is very cute and gives another great name option. I also like that [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] is a little more daring but [name_m]Gregory[/name_m] is very traditional.

Good luck!

[name_m]Elijah[/name_m] or [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] for a boy, though [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_m]Gregory[/name_m] sounds better.
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f], [name_f]Matilda[/name_f], [name_f]Theodora[/name_f] or [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] for a girl. I love [name_f]Freya[/name_f] but it has not the same vibe.
I love [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] with [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f], or maybe [name_f]Matilda[/name_f]. [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] with [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f].

I like [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_m]Gregory[/name_m]. I’m useless with boys names though I don’t really know what else to suggest!

Your favourite girls names are quite similar to mine. [name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_f]Clara[/name_f], or [name_f]Annalise[/name_f]? I feel that these both have that traditional class that you’re looking for. They’re both familiar names, but still unexpected choices.