I have two kids ([name_u]Bradley[/name_u] and [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]) and am pregnant with our third. I’d like a name that goes with my first two. Our last name is one that starts with vander-, so we’re looking for something that sounds good with that as well.
I like [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] best for the set–they’ll all have the -ey ending which is nice. I like [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] and [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] too. They all fit with your style well!
From your list I like [name_m]Ethan[/name_m], [name_m]Grant[/name_m], [name_u]Max[/name_u] (not a fan of [name_m]Maxwell[/name_m]), and [name_u]Camden[/name_u].
If you want to keep the -ly sound going with your third you could consider [name_u]Bentley[/name_u], it’s similar to your favourite [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] but might be a suitable compromise for your husband.
I do like the sound of a one syllable name with the ither two though, and [name_m]Cole[/name_m] is my favourite from your list. Best wishes for your search!
I think [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] goes best with sibs [name_u]Bradley[/name_u] and [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]. I also like [name_m]Grant[/name_m] and [name_m]Vincent[/name_m] and think they go well with your sibset.