Help me pick one (or two) of these!

I’ve been revamping my list a wee bit, and I have set about a top 12 or so ([name_f]Isabelle[/name_f], [name_f]Arianne[/name_f], [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Emmeline[/name_f], [name_f]Catherine[/name_f], [name_f]Eva[/name_f], [name_f]Eleni[/name_f], [name_f]Tess[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Lillian[/name_f], and [name_u]Winter[/name_u]), and in order to have an even list for both genders, I have room for one more name (two, if I decide to add [name_u]Rory[/name_u] to my boys’ list). Which of these would you add? Thoughts on them in general, and with my other favorites?

[name_f]Eilidh[/name_f] (family name)
[name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Claire[/name_f] (or MAYBE [name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Sophie[/name_f]…)
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f] (another family name…)

Thanks, ladies!

I like [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] with your list and [name_f]Grace[/name_f] secondly! They just seem to fit the other names :slight_smile:

Such a difficult decision… [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite would have to be [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f], but I think you should put [name_f]Eilidh[/name_f] in the available spot! It doesn’t seem to fit in with the others stylistically, but family names are special. ([name_f]Grace[/name_f] is special too, just more common and would seem like filler.)

I think you have a great list! [name_f]My[/name_f] favorites are [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f], [name_f]Catherine[/name_f], and [name_f]Penelope[/name_f]!

@oiseau - I think I might fit [name_f]Eilidh[/name_f] in as a middle somewhere else, even if I don’t use it up front. I feel like it might be overly complicated as a FN? I already have another variant of her MN ([name_f]Eleni[/name_f]) on my list as a FN, and am considering another variant as a mn ([name_f]Helene[/name_f]). So it’s not like she’s unrepresented–I just really, really love [name_f]Eilidh[/name_f]. I love [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f], but it never seems perfect for my list? I think I like it more than [name_f]Julia[/name_f], but I don’t know.

I’ve really been loving these Od- names lately, too ([name_f]Odette[/name_f]! [name_f]Odessa[/name_f]! [name_f]Odilia[/name_f]!) but I’m not sure I love them enough up front? I’m considering [name_u]Winter[/name_u] [name_f]Odette[/name_f], maybe, but how unexpected and charming would it be to meet a little [name_f]Odette[/name_f]?!

I tried to respond earlier but NB hates my computer sometimes. Oh, well.

Your name list is great, but I feel like it goes in a few directions. You’ve got vintage classics like [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Emmeline[/name_f], [name_f]Catherine[/name_f], [name_f]Tess[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], and [name_f]Lillian[/name_f]; [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f], [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], and [name_f]Eva[/name_f] certainly also fit in that category, but they’re more of the “modern set” in that they’ve been more popular as of late and therefore feel new again (but then again, [name_f]Catherine[/name_f] has been in use for forever, and [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], and [name_f]Lil[/name_f]-everything have been everywhere in the last five or so years, certain to continue, so maybe this is a silly distinction); then you’ve got [name_f]Arianne[/name_f] and [name_f]Eleni[/name_f], which feel different and more “exotic” (I hate using that word here!); and then you have [name_u]Winter[/name_u], your only word name and one that feels vaguely unisex and out of place with the rest. So, I’m just slightly perplexed when trying to pick names to add in.

[name_f]Eilidh[/name_f] doesn’t really “fit” in any of the above categories, not even the [name_f]Arianne[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleni[/name_f] one, although that’s the best spot. I like [name_f]Eilidh[/name_f], love the sound, love that it’s a family name, but next to all of these names, I’m not sure it’s the best bet. Middle possibility?

[name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Claire[/name_f] is just not for me. You’ve got [name_f]Anne[/name_f] in [name_f]Arianne[/name_f], a bit, and I’ve never been a fan of hyphenated names, much less a hyphenated combination of two one-syllable names. It just lacks melody and charisma to me. [name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Sophie[/name_f] is better, but I’m not sold.

[name_f]Penelope[/name_f] most definitely fits with your vintage classic set. I sort of feel like [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] is booming to the extreme nowadays, and I like her and her versatility, but I’ve always personally preferred [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f], so it’s hard for me to love [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] too. If that makes any sense. I do think she bridges the gap between your classics and your [name_f]Arianne[/name_f]/[name_f]Eleni[/name_f] category, although [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] and [name_f]Eleni[/name_f] are way too close in sound for me to every consider them as sisters.

[name_f]Hazel[/name_f] is charming and sweet, prim and a bit proper, but she fits with the vintage classic set. She doesn’t really bridge the gap to the other names as well as [name_f]Penelope[/name_f], but she’s wordy like [name_u]Winter[/name_u], and I like those two together. I’m iffy on this.

[name_f]Julia[/name_f] is one girl name that I think is universally a winner. I personally prefer [name_f]Juliet[/name_f], but [name_f]Julia[/name_f] is pretty, classic, feminine, and elegant. I don’t know that she’s enough to bridge the gap, though. [name_f]Julissa[/name_f]? [name_f]Julietta[/name_f]?

[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f] is not a name I’ve ever cared for, because I can’t get past my weird middle-aged association, but I love [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f], and I think [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] definitely works in your set in a way some of these others maybe don’t as much. And I realize your list isn’t really a set, but it’s easier for me to think of it that way. [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] is zippy in a way [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f] is not, and I like a bit of zip.

[name_f]Grace[/name_f] is lovely and demure and overall pleasing, and she’s been on and off my own list, and she’s a family name for you, so I’m biased in her favor. That said, she doesn’t pack a punch like some of these other names, so I’m a bit torn.

I want to say [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] would be my pick, but she isn’t even on the list! I want her to be, though. I guess I’d say [name_f]Penelope[/name_f], or [name_f]Hazel[/name_f]? Yep, those are my best picks off the list. Good luck, dear!

[name_f]Eilidh[/name_f]- I think this would be better as a middle since it doesn’t have an intuitive/phonetic pronunciation (at least in USA)
[name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Claire[/name_f] (or [name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Sophie[/name_f])- I’m not really a big fan of hyphenated names, but I like [name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Claire[/name_f] and [name_f]Anne[/name_f]-[name_f]Sophie[/name_f]. I think I would prefer [name_f]Anna[/name_f]-[name_f]Claire[/name_f] or [name_f]Anna[/name_f]-[name_f]Sophie[/name_f] (or [name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Sophie[/name_f]/[name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Claire[/name_f] without the hyphen). Fits well with your other names
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]- I like [name_f]Penelope[/name_f]. I think it has a nice sound, and I love all the nn options for it, but I’m not sure it fits with your list. (If you used a nn it would fit better, [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] seems so bold and spicy, while [name_u]Penny[/name_u] or [name_f]Nellie[/name_f] or [name_f]Poppy[/name_f] would be sweet and fit with the style of your list).
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]- I think this one goes really well with your other names. It isn’t my favorite name, but it is growing on me. It has a nice sound.
[name_f]Julia[/name_f]- I think this one fits well on your list, but I know so many [name_m]Julias[/name_m] that it isn’t special anymore. I know at least 4 in my grade.
[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]- [name_u]Love[/name_u] this one. [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite from these you listed. I love the sound, it is sophisticated and sweet and fits perfectly with your list, and I love the nn [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f].
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]- I like it, and it would fit well, but I know so many that it isn’t exciting anymore.
I really like [name_f]Odilia[/name_f]/[name_f]Odelia[/name_f] too, but I keep it as a middle name for the same reason. I know a girl named [name_f]Odette[/name_f], but she spells it Odiet (which is not as appealing). I much prefer [name_f]Odilia[/name_f]/[name_f]Odelia[/name_f] or [name_f]Odessa[/name_f].

I like in order

[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f]