Help name baby!

[name_m]Hi[/name_m]! I don’t know the gender yet, but I have a strong suspicion that she is a girl! The names I like are maybe quirky. I just like what I like! lol… [name_f]My[/name_f] first born’s name is [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] [name_m]Ray[/name_m]. I don’t want another W name, and I want to avoid the “ee” ending sound. I like “uh” endings, and tend to favor nature/space themed names. Below is my favorites list, but I would love other suggestion and/or first/middle pairings! Last initial is D- want to avoid name sets that initials spell DED or SAD. Middle name will likely be some variation of [name_f]Anne[/name_f], if not [name_f]Anne[/name_f] itself (e.g. [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f], [name_f]Joanna[/name_f], [name_f]Anna[/name_f], [name_f]Annie[/name_f], etc). Okay so here are the names I love and the things I am nervous about. I’m a high anxiety individual I’m sorry!!!

[name_f]Delilah[/name_f] - Worry about the Bible connotation, specially related to the Friends quote “named after a biblical whore”. We aren’t religious. I like that this name is floral and sweet. Lots of nickname possibilities which I love!

[name_f]Zelda[/name_f] - Worry about the video game connotation. We aren’t big gamers, never played LoZ. [name_m]Just[/name_m] like the vintage feel of the name. I like that it seems futuristic and strong.

[name_f]Nova[/name_f] - [name_f]Love[/name_f] this name other than the fact that a Teen Mom (MTV) star named her baby that. I worry that it sounds like a dog name… but I love the space relation to supernovas. Hubby likes this one a lot.

[name_f]Stella[/name_f] - [name_f]Love[/name_f] this one too, but similar to [name_f]Nova[/name_f] I worry that it might be kind of a dog name… [name_f]My[/name_f] dogs name is [name_f]Luna[/name_f] so… idk.

[name_f]Summer[/name_f] - [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite season (I’m a teacher). [name_f]My[/name_f] hesitation is the character on [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m]. I have two birds named [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m]. I don’t want my daughter to just be named after another tv show character… also don’t want people to think I’m some super fan… I’m not.

[name_f]June[/name_f] - [name_f]My[/name_f] grandma’s name. I think it’s cute. [name_f]Baby[/name_f] isn’t due in [name_f]June[/name_f] though… And it’s a little plain maybe? Especially with [name_f]Anne[/name_f].

[name_f]Violet[/name_f] - This has been a top for years for me. It’s just kind of popular where I’m at.

Names that we can’t use: [name_f]Luna[/name_f], [name_f]Raven[/name_f], [name_f]Rose[/name_f], [name_f]India[/name_f], [name_f]Kiki[/name_f], [name_f]Vivian[/name_f], [name_f]Lucia[/name_f], [name_f]Emberly[/name_f], [name_f]Cassidy[/name_f], [name_f]Leona[/name_f],

Gimme all your thoughts and/or opinions!

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I love all your options!! Especially [name_f]Summer[/name_f], [name_f]June[/name_f], [name_f]Stella[/name_f] & [name_f]Violet[/name_f].

None of them strike me as dog/pet names and I wouldn’t worry about the associations (or at least, none of them occurred to me!) [name_f]My[/name_f] only association is the Plain White T’s song for [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] but that’s pretty cool to have a song :slight_smile:

Some ideas building off your list:

-You could do [name_f]Estelle[/name_f] as a formal name with nn [name_f]Stella[/name_f]
-If [name_f]June[/name_f] feels plain, you could try [name_f]Juno[/name_f] or [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] with nn [name_f]June[/name_f]
-For a less popular [name_f]Violet[/name_f] alternative- [name_f]Viola[/name_f] has a similar vibe + the ‘uh’ sound ending
-For [name_f]Zelda[/name_f]: [name_f]Ramona[/name_f] comes to mind as another name with strength and vintage feel (plus RAD initials would be sweet)

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[name_m]Wesley[/name_m] is very cute!
Thoughts:
[name_f]Delilah[/name_f] - think of the song, not the biblical meaning but not religious so
[name_f]Zelda[/name_f] - think of the video game, I wouldn’t use it personally
[name_f]Nova[/name_f] - kinda matches the cat too much for my liking
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] - like it more than [name_f]Nova[/name_f] but also cat connection
[name_f]Summer[/name_f] - it’s good
[name_f]June[/name_f] - love the name and I have suggestions for you. [name_f]Juno[/name_f] is a Greek goddess and also a moon. [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] is also a nature name and gives you the nickname [name_f]June[/name_f] or [name_f]Junie[/name_f].
[name_f]Violet[/name_f] - cute, vintage, plant. I love it, but if you want more unique I would suggest [name_f]Evolet[/name_f], [name_f]Yvette[/name_f], and [name_f]Olive[/name_f]

Other ideas for you:
[name_f]Iona[/name_f]
[name_f]Briar[/name_f]
[name_f]Elowen[/name_f]
[name_f]Zinnia[/name_f]
[name_f]Astra[/name_f]
[name_f]Estella[/name_f]

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From your list I like [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] & [name_f]Nova[/name_f] the best.

Some other ideas… sorry for any repeats:

[name_f]Astoria[/name_f]
[name_f]Farrah[/name_f]
[name_f]Acacia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilac[/name_f]
[name_f]Cosima[/name_f]
[name_f]Blythe[/name_f]
[name_f]Alyssa[/name_f]
[name_m]Garnet[/name_m]
Elita
[name_f]Keziah[/name_f]
[name_f]Malita[/name_f]
[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]
[name_f]Calypso[/name_f]
[name_f]Topaz[/name_f]
[name_f]Xanthe[/name_f]
[name_f]Zia[/name_f]
[name_f]Aspen[/name_f]
[name_f]Olena[/name_f]
[name_f]Pippa[/name_f]
[name_f]Tallulah[/name_f]
[name_f]Inaya[/name_f]
[name_f]Jenna[/name_f]
[name_f]Bellatrix[/name_f]
[name_f]Calla[/name_f]
[name_f]Aurora[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowen[/name_m]
[name_f]Mila[/name_f]
[name_f]Zaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Novella[/name_f]
[name_f]Lara[/name_f]
[name_f]Elowen[/name_f]
[name_f]Meadow[/name_f]
[name_f]Asha[/name_f]
[name_f]Vesper[/name_f]
[name_f]Zita[/name_f]
[name_f]Astra[/name_f]
[name_f]Blossom[/name_f]
[name_f]Gaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Amber[/name_f]
Elmsleigh
[name_f]Wren[/name_f]
[name_f]Opal[/name_f]
[name_f]Callista[/name_f]
[name_f]Junia[/name_f]
[name_f]Heather[/name_f]
[name_f]Charis[/name_f]
[name_f]Ember[/name_f]
[name_f]Maya[/name_f]
[name_f]Fauna[/name_f]
[name_f]Lavender[/name_f]
[name_f]Ascella[/name_f]
[name_f]Fleur[/name_f]
[name_f]Delta[/name_f]
[name_f]Willow[/name_f]
[name_f]Primrose[/name_f]
[name_f]Maple[/name_f]
[name_f]Cadence[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemini[/name_f]
[name_f]Prairie[/name_f]
[name_f]Athena[/name_f]

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[name_f]Lovely[/name_f] options so far!

[name_f]Delilah[/name_f] → bright, cheerful and pretty - and well used these days so it doesn’t feel exclusively tied to the Biblical character. [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] [name_f]Joanne[/name_f] or [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] [name_f]Rosanne[/name_f] would be lovely!!

[name_f]Zelda[/name_f] → sharp and cool and vintage - I would think of the game but not exclusively. [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f] and [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] would be nice

[name_f]Nova[/name_f] → fresh, zippy and starry - I like it! It’s familiar enough that I don’t think it sounds exclusively ‘dog’. [name_f]Nova[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f], [name_f]Nova[/name_f] [name_f]Anneliese[/name_f] and [name_f]Nova[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f] would be nice

[name_f]Stella[/name_f] → bright, warm and lovely, grounded but starry. Similar to [name_f]Nova[/name_f], it’s familiar and well used enough that it doesn’t feel dog like. I’ve met more human Stellas than animals :slight_smile: With dog [name_f]Luna[/name_f], it might be a bit matchy? [name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] would be nice

[name_f]Summer[/name_f] → warm, sunny, sweet and lovely, but solid too. The only thing I know of [name_m]Ricky[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m] is the name, so I wouldn’t associate [name_f]Summer[/name_f] with that - plus, I think the fact [name_f]Summer[/name_f] is a season and a word in common usage, it’s more likely to be associated with that, than a TV show? [name_f]Summer[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f] and [name_f]Summer[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] would be nice - or [name_f]Summer[/name_f] [name_f]Rosanne[/name_f] and [name_f]Summer[/name_f] [name_f]Luanne[/name_f]

[name_f]June[/name_f] → sweet and unexpected these days, I like it. I would probably use a variant maybe, like [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] or [name_f]Juno[/name_f] - or [name_f]Juliana[/name_f] ‘June’? [name_f]Julianne[/name_f] / [name_f]Julianna[/name_f] as a middle? [name_f]June[/name_f] [name_f]Anneliese[/name_f]? [name_f]June[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f]? [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f]?

[name_f]Violet[/name_f] → sharp, sleek and vintage, but it is popular. [name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] and [name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Anya[/name_f] would be lovely!

If I were to suggest a few:

[name_f]Susanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Jocelyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Nola[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_f]Estelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Tallulah[/name_f]
[name_f]Elara[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_f]Amara[/name_f]
[name_f]Celine[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f]

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[name_m]Just[/name_m] as an FYI, the teen mom star named her baby [name_f]Novalee[/name_f], if that makes a difference. I love love [name_f]Delilah[/name_f]! I would probably skip on [name_f]Summer[/name_f] for the [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m] reference unfortunately. [name_f]June[/name_f] is lovely though.

Maybe:
[name_f]Fern[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f]
[name_f]November[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilia[/name_f]
[name_f]Brynn[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Margo[/name_f]
[name_f]Liana[/name_f]
[name_f]Reina[/name_f]
[name_f]Indigo[/name_f]
[name_f]Luma[/name_f]
[name_f]Amethyst[/name_f]
[name_f]Calla[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]

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I love your first child’s name!

Comments on some of the names on your list:

Delilah–I agree that it’s beautiful, and also that it’s problematic. For many people, religious or not, the [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] of the Bible is the first association their minds will make. The song “Hey There, Delilah” has helped dilute that image, but giving your child a name that you KNOW has negative associations is a risk. I wonder if you’d just like [name_f]Lilah[/name_f]? I think it’s even more beautiful than [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] and has no negative associations that I’m aware of.

Zelda–I agree that the video game association is a major one, but there’s also the romance/intrigue of [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] [name_m]Fitzgerald[/name_m]. I agree also that it has vintage appeal and history of use, but a futuristic sound. I think this is a winner in terms of what you say you’re looking for.

Nova–It has a timely sound and the space association you like. I don’t think the Teen Mom thing is a big deal.

Stella–This might be my favorite from your list. It’s stunning. I admittedly don’t hang out with a lot of dogs, but I know two little girls named [name_f]Stella[/name_f], so I don’t think it’s “just” a dog name. The “star” meaning sounds perfect for you.

Summer–I don’t know “Rick & Morty”, but yes, if you already have pets named after those characters, this could start to look like a fandom thing. Also, she’s not being born in the summer and this doesn’t have the space meaning you love. I’m not sure this is “the one”. Maybe a future kiddo? Maybe a middle?

June–Grandma’s name would be a great honor middle, for this baby if you decide not to do [name_f]Anne[/name_f], or for a future child. Doesn’t sound like it’s the first name you’d truly love for this child.

Violet–A wonderful, gorgeous name, and if it’s been your favorite for this long, I’d encourage you to use it despite local popularity.

Now, a fun list of suggestions:

[name_f]Alyssa[/name_f]
[name_f]Celeste[/name_f]
[name_f]Danica[/name_f]
[name_m]Hayden[/name_m]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Iona[/name_f]
[name_f]Jasmine[/name_f]
[name_f]Layla[/name_f]
[name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]
[name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Nelda[/name_f]
[name_f]Olivia[/name_f]
[name_f]Samara[/name_f]
[name_f]Samantha[/name_f]
[name_f]Savannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlet[/name_f]
[name_f]Selina[/name_f]
[name_f]Taliyah[/name_f]
[name_f]Vera[/name_f]

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With Wesley, how about:

Delilah Anne / Nancy
Junia Anne/ Marianne (as a nod to June)
Violet Nancy / Annabel
Zelda Anouk / Annie
Summer Anne (and I love the suggestion of Summer Luanne)

Other ideas (not in order, all connected to stars/outdoor and Anne and/or June)

Seren Lisanne / Luanne
Aster/Asta Annabeth
Hazel Annie
Astrid Anne
Lovella June “Wolfie”
Annora June

I don’t love Nova with Wesley. Wesley gives a more old school, outdoorsy feel. I do like Stella but can see your reservations. Maybe Estella would be better?

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You have so many gems on your list already :white_heart:

[name_f]My[/name_f] favourites are [name_f]Delilah[/name_f], [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Stella[/name_f] and [name_f]June[/name_f]. A couple of users have also suggested [name_f]Viola[/name_f] and [name_f]Junia[/name_f] which I also love.

A few suggestions …

[name_f]Della[/name_f], [name_f]Dalila[/name_f] & [name_f]Dahlia[/name_f] (since you’re a bit worried of using Delilah)
[name_f]Noela[/name_f], [name_f]Noella[/name_f], [name_f]Noelle[/name_f] (as an anagram to [name_f]Leona[/name_f] which you can’t use)
[name_f]Novella[/name_f] (can be shortened to Nova)
[name_f]Everly[/name_f] (instead of Emberly)
[name_f]Cassia[/name_f] (would be a lovely replacement of Cassidy)
[name_f]Saskia[/name_f]
[name_f]Maeva[/name_f]
[name_m]Aven[/name_m]

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I don’t think any of your negatives are that bad, any of those names would work. I really like [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] or [name_f]June[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f]. [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] would be really cute as well.

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[name_m]Wesley[/name_m] and [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] is the perfect sibset.

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[name_f]Juno[/name_f] [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f]. I love sassy illiteration.

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[name_f]Zelda[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f] would be fantastic! I’m not a big gamer either so while the thought does cross my mind, my main association is just kind of a dramatic/quirky roaring 20’s or old Hollywood feel. I could be totally wrong, but I feel like the game is getting less popular because I don’t hear much about it anymore and therefore isn’t one her peers would likely be playing much so while some parents might assume you’re gamers, I don’t think the connection would be a big deal with her peers.

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Ok right?! Thank you for this validation. [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] is really my fav but after my mom’s reaction “…like the game? :face_with_raised_eyebrow:” I was like idk!!!

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Great insight! Thanks for confirming my fears about “Summer”. It just doesn’t sit right with me to have [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m] as my birds… then summer as our daughter lol!

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Oh! That does make me feel better. [name_f]My[/name_f] mom mentioned it to me and I was like !!!:roll_eyes: We used to watch Teen Mom together when I was in highschool.

Okay guys. Wow you’re amazing!!! Thanks so much for the ideas. [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] is looking like a top choice right now!

Also still like [name_f]Nova[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f].

For my babies I always like to narrow it down to a short list (3-ish names). Then once we meet the baby we make our choice. [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] [name_m]Ray[/name_m] was almost [name_m]Miles[/name_m] [name_m]Russell[/name_m]. Once I find out the baby’s gender I might be posting again (if it’s a boy :sob:). It’s a girl it’s a girl it’s a girl!!! :crossed_fingers: 🩷:ribbon::sparkling_heart: This is my last baby and I really just want one of each, that’s why I want a girl so bad.

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[name_f]My[/name_f] thoughts on the names -

  1. If the connotations of [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] bother you, I don’t think the Bible reference is going to go away, so maybe don’t use that one. If you like the nicknames… some of them work well one their own and seem to fit into your style, have you considered [name_f]Della[/name_f] or Lila/Lilah?

  2. The “Legend of Zelda” association comes up every time someone suggests the name [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] here. I am also not a big [name_m]Legend[/name_m] of [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] fan (nothing against it, just haven’t played them), but I would still use the name [name_f]Zelda[/name_f], I really like it and (from what I can tell) there is nothing wrong with the character and people who know about her would think this is a positive association.

  3. The Teen Mom star will be forgotten about, and [name_f]Nova[/name_f] is a top 100 name now anyway, totally normal. As for the dog name… people name their dogs names they like, and some people like to use human names. As long as you’re not naming the baby “Fido” or “Rover” or something else that is basically ONLY in use for dogs, I’d say you’re fine. Same goes for [name_f]Stella[/name_f]. (I know more human Stellas than dog Stellas, and I’ve never met a [name_f]Nova[/name_f] of either species.)

  4. [name_f]Summer[/name_f] - if your birds really are named [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m], I’d avoid any more [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m] character names if you’re not doing it on purpose.

  5. [name_f]June[/name_f] - I like it! The honor both for [name_f]June[/name_f] (and maybe the summer season as well, to use in place of Summer?) would be nice. And you mentioned that you were open to using other middle names besides [name_f]Anne[/name_f], you mentioned [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f] as a possibility and [name_f]June[/name_f] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f] sounds cool, not plain.

  6. [name_f]Violet[/name_f] - I wouldn’t let the popularity be a dealbreaker, unless either someone she’ll see a lot (cousin, friend’s kid, etc) is also named [name_f]Violet[/name_f] or it’s SO common that there will be three in every classroom she’ll ever be in. Otherwise it’s fine.

Your taste in names is gorgeous (so many of my own favorites on this list! :star_struck: ) so I’m sure whatever you pick will be good. Good luck!

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Stella
Summer
June
Violet
:tulip::two_hearts:🪻. :sunny:. :cherry_blossom:

Congratulations on baby!

[name_f]Delilah[/name_f] - I’m not a fan of the Biblical character, she doesn’t have a ton of benefits for me. I appreciate the lyrical sound of [name_f]Delilah[/name_f], and I even grew up with one being in my church, but it never sat right with me. Maybe [name_f]Adelia[/name_f], [name_f]Lila[/name_f], Elila, [name_f]Elula[/name_f], [name_f]Delia[/name_f], as alternatives?

[name_f]Zelda[/name_f] - I’ve never really connected with it because my only real association is the game, I like [name_f]Zelie[/name_f] or [name_f]Zella[/name_f] more myself. But she is a strong name and is fun to say!

[name_f]Nova[/name_f] - I absolutely love astronomy but [name_f]Nova[/name_f] has never done anything for me. If you like astronomy, do [name_f]Cosima[/name_f], [name_f]Andromeda[/name_f], [name_f]Io[/name_f], [name_f]Cassiopeia[/name_f], [name_f]Galatea[/name_f], [name_f]Lyra[/name_f], [name_f]Esther[/name_f], [name_f]Aurora[/name_f], [name_m]Cielo[/name_m], [name_f]Calypso[/name_f], [name_f]Adhara[/name_f], [name_f]Elara[/name_f], [name_f]Celeste[/name_f], [name_f]Alula[/name_f] appeal? They all have space associations, too. [name_f]Galatea[/name_f] I’m not 100% sure of, but she always reminds me of galaxies haha.

[name_f]Stella[/name_f] - I want to love her because I love stargazing, but I just end up thinking about this older lady I knew with the name, she was a bit abrasive and annoying (although she had good intentions lol), and so I never fully connected to her. I like [name_f]Esther[/name_f] better for that reason. If you like the sound of [name_f]Stella[/name_f], I’m wondering if an unusual -ella name would appeal, like [name_f]Zella[/name_f], [name_f]Della[/name_f], [name_f]Lovella[/name_f], [name_f]Luella[/name_f], etc.?

[name_f]Summer[/name_f] - sweet name, I’m not really familiar with [name_m]Rick[/name_m] and [name_m]Morty[/name_m], but [name_f]Summer[/name_f] is so well loved that I don’t really see it being a problem?

[name_f]June[/name_f] - love the significance of [name_f]June[/name_f] for you! Maybe you could use a variant of it? Like [name_f]Juniper[/name_f], [name_f]Junia[/name_f], [name_f]Juno[/name_f]? I think [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] [name_f]Anne[/name_f] would be super sweet and [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] and [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] are cute together.

[name_f]Violet[/name_f] - yes, I’ve been a fan of [name_f]Violet[/name_f] for ages, too; I only know of one younger [name_f]Violet[/name_f], but just seeing how high it’s climbed is a little off-putting. I would love to meet a [name_f]Violet[/name_f], though, and [name_f]Violet[/name_f] and [name_f]Anne[/name_f] were made for each other (although, it’s also [name_f]Jennifer[/name_f] Garner’s daughter’s name, so idk if that would be a dealbreaker for you).

[name_f]My[/name_f] favorites are [name_f]June[/name_f] (or Juniper/Junia!), [name_f]Violet[/name_f], and ironically, [name_f]Delilah[/name_f].

Good luck!

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