Help name our son!

I’m 30 weeks pregnant with a boy and we can’t find anything we both love. We have a 2 year old girl named [name_u]Romy[/name_u] which feels perfect for her.

Our criteria for new baby:

  • Not too popular in Australia
  • Middle name is [name_u]James[/name_u]
  • Prefer 2 syllables
  • Not starting with an R

Our list:

I love the name [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] but my husband is not convinced, his current favourite is [name_m]Jonathan[/name_m] nickname Jono which I don’t love.

Others we are considering are [name_m]Harvey[/name_m] and [name_u]Spencer[/name_u]. We both like [name_m]Harvey[/name_m] but its currently shot up in popularity and is currently #39 in our state.

Friends recently had a [name_u]Spencer[/name_u] but we only see them about once a year and don’t have any mutual friends so I think we could still use it but I don’t like it as much as [name_m]Jasper[/name_m]!

Which of these names should we go with if any? would love suggestions for other names meeting our criteria!

Most popular names in my State 2016:

I think [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] is fantastic. He could go by JJ too :slight_smile:

[name_m]Louis[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]?

[name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] is adorable! I love the alliteration and the potential nn of JJ as a pp mentioned

Some suggestions…
[name_m]Casper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] - doesn’t quite have the same brilliance as [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Bastian[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Josiah[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Niall[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Prosper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Dexter[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Sawyer[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Alistair[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Nico[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u] or [name_m]Nicholas[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Tristan[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Madden[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] or [name_m]Maddox[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Preston[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Arden[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Kingston[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

My favoutrites for you…
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] and [name_u]Romy[/name_u]
[name_u]Arden[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u] and [name_u]Romy[/name_u]
[name_m]Kingston[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] and [name_u]Romy[/name_u]
[name_m]Madden[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] and [name_u]Romy[/name_u]

[name_m]Oslo[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Felix[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Leo[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Caleb[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Eben[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Dante[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Michael[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Levi[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

[name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]?

Thanks all! I like [name_m]Jonah[/name_m] and [name_m]Jonas[/name_m] but my partner doesn’t. So frustrating when they turn down all your suggestions but don’t really offer any!

[name_u]Hartley[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Crosby[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Digby[/name_m] [name_f]Janes[/name_f]
[name_u]Casey[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Tristen[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Quincy[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Quinton[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Asher[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Bowen[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Colby[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Cullen[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Baylor[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Brecken[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

What about [name_m]Caspar[/name_m]? [name_m]Caspar[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] is a friendly marriage in my opinion. Personally I would only use the name [name_u]Spencer[/name_u] if you are okay with the nickname [name_u]Spence[/name_u].

We like the nickname [name_u]Spence[/name_u]! I don’t like the nickname JJ which I’m hoping we can avoid if we choose a J name.

I love [name_m]Casper[/name_m] but again husband says NO :’(

I think you can avoid JJ because you don’t have to tell everyone his middle name, and when you do and they say “JJ” you can correct them. ”

I love [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] for you. [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] is a name with panache. I do also like [name_u]Spencer[/name_u]; it was on my list until I had a girl (and then my nephew got that name, anyway).

What about a similar sounding name, like [name_m]Asher[/name_m] or [name_m]Archer[/name_m] or [name_m]Axel[/name_m]? They all have the same A sound as [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] and similar soft consonants.

Or other J names: [name_m]Jared[/name_m], [name_m]Joseph[/name_m], [name_m]Jacoby[/name_m] nn [name_m]Coby[/name_m].

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] you find something you both love. Good luck!

[name_u]Romy[/name_u] and…

[name_u]Curtis[/name_u]
[name_m]Barnaby[/name_m]
[name_u]Harley[/name_u]
[name_m]Christopher[/name_m] ([name_u]Kit[/name_u])
[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u]
[name_u]Max[/name_u]
[name_u]Ashton[/name_u]
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_u]Kingsley[/name_u]
[name_m]Jackson[/name_m]
[name_m]Peter[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m]
[name_m]Edward[/name_m] (Ted or [name_m]Eddy[/name_m])
[name_m]Carlo[/name_m]

[name_u]Larkin[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Ogden[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Ashley[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Tiernan[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Davis[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Ambrose[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Damon[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Arrow[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Bailey[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Lyric[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Halston[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Thayer[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Hadley[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Keaton[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Greydon[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
Kenton [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Tobin[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]

I hope you can convince your husband about [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] - I think [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] is great. I wouldn’t worry too much about JJ - I think initial nicknames are more of a thing in the US than here - his mates might use JJ in high school, but they’re just as likely to use his surname or something else. If you don’t encourage JJ, I expect most people will call him [name_m]Jasper[/name_m], [name_m]Jas[/name_m], Jasp or [name_u]Jazz[/name_u].

Maybe your husband might consider [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] with a middle name of his choice?

Other thoughts (I’ll try to avoid repeats):
[name_m]Fletcher[/name_m], [name_m]Edmund[/name_m] (the nn [name_m]Ned[/name_m] might make it bushranger enough for your husband?), [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m], [name_m]Otto[/name_m], [name_m]Calvin[/name_m], [name_m]Calum[/name_m]/[name_m]Callum[/name_m], [name_m]Declan[/name_m], [name_m]Amos[/name_m], [name_m]Macsen[/name_m], [name_m]Fergus[/name_m], [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m], [name_u]Tristan[/name_u], [name_m]Viggo[/name_m], [name_m]Torin[/name_m], [name_m]Griffin[/name_m], [name_m]Abel[/name_m], [name_m]Jethro[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u], [name_u]Evan[/name_u]/[name_m]Evander[/name_m], [name_m]Samson[/name_m], [name_m]Ezekiel[/name_m].

Good luck, and Congratulations!

P.s. I’m so jealous that SA’s data goes beyond the top 100! :slight_smile:

[name_u]James[/name_u] is such a cute middle name! (It’s actually on my list, too.) Let me see what I can pair it with!

I think you should consider:
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Walter[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Baxter[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Thayer[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Otto[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Gunnar[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Carsten[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Ryker[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Terrance[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Kasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

[name_u]Parker[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u],
[name_u]Arlo[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Jarvis[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Trevor[/name_m] zjames

[name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] is wonderful!

[name_u]Romy[/name_u] and [name_u]Pasha[/name_u] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Romy[/name_u] and [name_m]Enzo[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

Best wishes x