Hello,
I’m new to the board after recently stumbling upon the Nameberry site. My husband and I are expecting our first, a boy, in [name]November[/name]. We’ve literally gone through baby name books and every website you can think of over and over again. Any names that we like end up not sticking. On top of that, my husband is half Japanese and his middle name is the Japanese name [name]Ken[/name]. We wanted to give our son a Japanese middle name too, to honor my husband and his heritage. After months of searching we decided on [name]Theodore[/name] [name]Kenji[/name]. It was perfect, until we told my mom who hates it and according to her, most of the people she’s told don’t like it either. After hearing how awful a name [name]Theodore[/name] is, I now am questioning it myself and am completely embarassed to tell anyone the name. Basically the name is now ruined. In fact the people we have told the name to completely ignore [name]Theodore[/name] and say how great/cool [name]Kenji[/name] is.
My problem is that I have no name for the baby as [name]Theodore[/name] was horribly ruined. Secretly I always wanted to name our children Japanese first names and western middle names. I don’t know how people would react to a baby who’s only 1/4 Japanese in [name]America[/name] with a Japanese name. I feel like both of our families and everyone we know will freak out, but I can’t help to secretly fantasize : ). I get more excited when looking through Japanese name books and feel more drawn to them than the baby name books we have.
I guess what I’m wondering is if it’s acceptable or whatever to have his first name be Japanese? Or should we stick with it being the middle name? Either way, it would be helpful to get some boy name ideas from different perspectives…
Names we liked were [name]Oliver[/name], [name]Emmett[/name], [name]Odin[/name], [name]Leonidas[/name]/[name]Leon[/name], [name]Kingston[/name], [name]Axel[/name], [name]Leo[/name], [name]Felix[/name], [name]Magnus[/name], [name]Finley[/name], [name]Cillian[/name] [name]Ronin[/name], [name]Raiden[/name],… But none really felt “right” and the last 2 can be of Japanese origin.
Some Japanese names I like are [name]Kenji[/name], Akihiko/[name]Akio[/name], Hibiki, Isamu(His deceased Grandpa’s name), [name]Akira[/name], [name]Yuma[/name], [name]Yukio[/name], Shunya/Shun, Takumi, Hiroki, Kazuki
The meaning behind a name is really important to us. We like names that aren’t popular but aren’t made up or sound to “weird”.
And are last name is [name]Miller[/name], so preferably no “r” ending, which kinda ruled out [name]Oliver[/name] and [name]Theodore[/name] for me.
Any suggestions would be super appreciated as would advice on the Japanese name situation. My husband gets back from training in Sept. and I have yet to get enough guts to tell him my feelings about a Japanese first name…
Sorry for long post : )