We are having twins (girl/boy) and for the girl we are deciding between:
[name]Aubrey[/name] or [name]Hadley[/name]
Middle names:
[name]Elise[/name] or [name]Amelia[/name]
I like [name]Aubrey[/name] much more than [name]Hadley[/name] but I like both of your mns. [name]Aubrey[/name] [name]Elise[/name], [name]Aubrey[/name] [name]Amelia[/name]–I think I like them both the same. What is your boy name?
[name]Amelia[/name] [name]Elise[/name]
I prefer [name]Hadley[/name]. I like the middle name choices about the same, but I’ll go with… [name]Hadley[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] for flow.
I think when picking sibling names, its really important to know what the other sibling’s name is going to be, or the choices you have for that one, too. I also think the names should not rhyme or be too similar, to give both children their own identity. So what are your boy name choices?
I really am not a fan of [name]Aubrey[/name], and [name]Hadley[/name] is okay. I vastly prefer the (possible) nicknames [name]Bree[/name] and Haddie, though.
I think [name]Hadley[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] goes well together!
I can’t use [name]Amelia[/name] is a 1st name as its too close to my other daughters name …
My current daughters are [name]Alivia[/name] [name]Grace[/name] and [name]Brianna[/name] [name]Reese[/name] … for a boy we are not 100% but either [name]Cole[/name], [name]Jace[/name] or [name]Brennan[/name] (are topping the list) … middle for him will be richard (my husbands name).
[name]Hadley[/name] my daughter suggested (i guess its a princess on a barbie movie).
[name]Hadley[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] 
I feel like both of these names only go well with the middle name [name]Amelia[/name], so with that in mind, I think [name]Hadley[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] sounds best. Also, I wouldn’t use another A name in the family, so [name]Hadley[/name] wins there as well.
Anyone else?
I much prefer [name]Hadley[/name] over [name]Aubrey[/name]. So I’d say [name]Hadley[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] because it sounds so beautiful together.
I like [name]Aubrey[/name] quite a bit. [name]Aubrey[/name] [name]Elise[/name] and [name]Aubrey[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] both work IMHO.
[name]Aubrey[/name] [name]Elise[/name] would be my pick.
[name]Hadley[/name] is too trendy for me.
I don’t mind either name but [name]Aubrey[/name] is more common. I think [name]Hadley[/name] [name]Amelia[/name] sounds better than [name]Aubrey[/name] with the two mn’s. I would choose [name]Brennan[/name] and [name]Hadley[/name] for the twins. Personally, I would choose something more feminine with older sisters named [name]Alivia[/name] and [name]Brianna[/name] but that’s just me (I think of children as sibsets. I can’t help it - that’s the way my brain works! :)).
I like [name]Aubrey[/name] [name]Amelia[/name], but that’s just me