Hey all! [name_u]New[/name_u] berry and long-time name nerd here I have a bit of a sticky situation…and I officially need advice. After two miscarriages, I’m amazingly 12 weeks along with a rainbow boy due at the end of [name_u]March[/name_u]
Here’s my dilemma. [name_f]My[/name_f] fiance and I told my parents about our lil munchkin last week, and have been brainstorming cute “we’re expecting!” ideas. Everything was great…until my parents gave me a deadline to announce the pregnancy.
[name_f]My[/name_f] parents are going to visit extended family this weekend, and believe it’s “disrespectful” and “selfish” to force them to keep the secret. I have until tomorrow night to announce my pregnancy, or THEY will tell everyone at the family gathering without me…and post an official announcement for their grandchild. [name_f]My[/name_f] mother’s already drafted a Facebook post.
We’re extremely hesitant to announce this early until we know our baby boy is here to stay. With the light bleeding during this pregnancy, and my past history, we were hoping to wait until [name_u]October[/name_u] - well out of the first trimester. Anyone have any advice on how to handle this one?