Oh no, this [name_m]Brit[/name_m] culture/synaesthetic collision is so unfortunate for [name_m]Ambrose[/name_m]! Sometimes I can build on or move away from those automatic representations. E.g. when I worked with two Jennas, one remained my automatic pinkish that a J name usually has, the other took on blacks and reds as this [name_f]Jenna[/name_f] had black hair that she dyed in temporary reds!
[name_f][/name_f]I think it would be possible to phase out the custard association 
[name_f][/name_f] But you already agreed on not-your-top-name with [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f], so I’d rather encourage your husband to do some creative thinking on the names you love more, seems only fair 
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