My husband and I are expecting our third baby late spring. We have a pretty decent idea of what we want, but I’m definitely not as sure this time as we were with our first two. We’d like some feedback!
We like first names that are more formal with nicknames that have a completely different feel, giving them options as they age. We use family names in the middle.
Our daughter is [name]Aurora[/name] [name]Whitney[/name], nickname [name]Rory[/name]. [name]Whitney[/name] is my husband’s middle name.
Our son is [name]Sebastian[/name] [name]Richard[/name], nickname Bash. [name]Richard[/name] is my husband’s father.
If this one is a girl she’ll likely be:
[name]Josephine[/name] [name]Alvira[/name], nickname [name]Josie[/name]/[name]Jo[/name]. [name]Alvira[/name] (pronounced [name]Al[/name]-vai-ra) is my grandma’s middle name.
Other girl names we like are [name]Verity[/name] and [name]Dahlia[/name].
If it’s a boy, we’re a bit more torn:
[name]Conrad[/name], nickname [name]Rad[/name]/[name]Raddy[/name]/maybe [name]Con[/name]- our top choice- love that it’s unexpected but everyone’s heard it, love it with my other kids’ names…it’s just hard to look at my little [name]Sebastian[/name] and imagine him a [name]Conrad[/name]. Does that mean it will be hard to imagine this little guy a [name]Conrad[/name] too? Also, our last name is 2 syllables (begins with a B), and our possible middle names are all 2 syllable. I don’t adore the 2-2-2 structure, though it’s probably doable if we love the name.
Other boy names we like but won’t use:
[name]Tobias[/name], nickname [name]Toby[/name]- I love it, but my husband doesn’t care for [name]Toby[/name], which I would definitely want to call him.
[name]Elliott[/name]- concerned it’s being used too often on girls, and there’s not really an intuitive nickname that I like. We’re voracious nicknamers, so that’s a big deal!
[name]Augustine[/name]- sounds pretty absurd with our simple Irish last name; I don’t think we love it enough to use it.
Possible middle names for a boy:
[name]Steven[/name]
[name]Thomas[/name]
[name]William[/name]
[name]Victor[/name]
Are we on track? Are we crazy? What else should we look at? I don’t tend to like the “Th” sound in names, and we want something that translates well in Latin languages.
Thanks for the help!!!

