He's here! And we're still no closer!

ZEPHAN! AHHHHHHH! I have a Zephan. I think it’s SUCH a beautiful name and nobody uses it, I hardly ever even see it in consideration!

My other boys are [name_m]Caspian[/name_m] and [name_m]Peregrine[/name_m] – any help there? [name_m]Ragnar[/name_m] or [name_m]Apollos[/name_m] if this one is a boy.

Some other names that have been on my list:
[name_m]Quillan[/name_m]
[name_m]Adrian[/name_m]
[name_m]Caradoc[/name_m]
[name_u]Rory[/name_u]
[name_m]Roderick[/name_m]
[name_m]Rainier[/name_m]
[name_m]Raphael[/name_m]
[name_m]Diggory[/name_m]
[name_m]Cagney[/name_m]
[name_u]Carbry[/name_u]
[name_m]Dax[/name_m]
[name_m]Lazarus[/name_m]
[name_m]Rutherford[/name_m]
Isarno
[name_m]Armand[/name_m]
[name_m]Horatio[/name_m]
[name_m]Inigo[/name_m]
[name_u]Sullivan[/name_u]
Toliver
[name_m]Barnaby[/name_m]
[name_m]Basil[/name_m]
[name_m]Cormac[/name_m]
[name_m]Amadeus[/name_m]
[name_m]Hawthorne[/name_m]
[name_m]Lorenzo[/name_m]
[name_m]Laszlo[/name_m]
[name_m]Raoul[/name_m]
Vangelis
[name_m]Rurik[/name_m]
[name_m]Bjorn[/name_m]
[name_m]Dirk[/name_m]
[name_m]Rupert[/name_m]
[name_m]Alistair[/name_m]
[name_u]Arlo[/name_u]
[name_m]Ebenezer[/name_m]
[name_m]Benedict[/name_m]
[name_m]Leif[/name_m]
[name_m]Dietrich[/name_m]
[name_m]Anatole[/name_m]
[name_u]Nico[/name_u]
[name_u]Ari[/name_u]
[name_m]Atlas[/name_m]
[name_m]Altair[/name_m]
[name_u]Niall[/name_u]
[name_u]Rigel[/name_u]
[name_m]Iago[/name_m]
[name_m]Ivor[/name_m]
[name_m]Beau[/name_m]
[name_m]Hezekiah[/name_m]
[name_m]Ansel[/name_m]
[name_m]Arrow[/name_m]
[name_f]Afton[/name_f]
Aquilas
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Heath[/name_m]
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]
[name_m]Colm[/name_m]
[name_m]Bode[/name_m]
[name_m]Tor[/name_m]
[name_m]Nels[/name_m]
[name_m]Lars[/name_m]
[name_m]Vittorio[/name_m]
[name_u]Winslow[/name_u]
[name_m]Xerxes[/name_m]
[name_m]Zebedee[/name_m]
Zimri
Zosimus
Ptoley
Rainerio
[name_m]Ozias[/name_m]
[name_m]Joel[/name_m]
[name_u]Indigo[/name_u]
Tirian
Drinian
Rhindon
[name_u]North[/name_u]
[name_m]Cipriano[/name_m]
[name_m]Artemus[/name_m]
[name_m]Samson[/name_m]
[name_m]Magnus[/name_m]
[name_m]Malachi[/name_m]
[name_m]Mordecai[/name_m]
Irenaeus
[name_m]Ferdinand[/name_m]
[name_m]Theophilus[/name_m]
[name_m]Pierce[/name_m]
[name_m]Quade[/name_m]
Bartelemy
Aristos
[name_u]Alexios[/name_u]
[name_m]Caruso[/name_m]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps!

Have you seen my post? I listed some European names :slight_smile:

What about [name_m]Osiris[/name_m] or [name_m]Orson[/name_m] nm [name_m]Ozzie[/name_m] or just [name_m]Ozzie[/name_m]. That seems like a compromise between [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] and [name_u]Izzy[/name_u]. Other suggestions: [name_m]Elihu[/name_m] nm [name_m]Eli[/name_m], [name_m]Garrick[/name_m] nm [name_u]Gary[/name_u] or [name_m]Rick[/name_m] (not common anymore), [name_m]Welby[/name_m] nm [name_m]Wells[/name_m].

Congrats!

What about [name_u]Zephyr[/name_u] if he won’t go for Zephan?

Or maybe:
[name_m]Eben[/name_m]
[name_m]Wesley[/name_m]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_m]Reuben[/name_m]
[name_m]Vaughan[/name_m]/[name_m]Vaughn[/name_m]
[name_m]Felix[/name_m]
[name_m]Malachi[/name_m]
[name_u]Rory[/name_u]
[name_m]Finnian[/name_m]/[name_m]Finian[/name_m]/[name_m]Phinean[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Marcus[/name_m]
[name_m]Elian[/name_m]
[name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
[name_m]Hadrian[/name_m]
[name_m]Caleb[/name_m]
[name_m]Osias[/name_m]/[name_m]Ozias[/name_m]
[name_m]Rainer[/name_m]
[name_m]Cavan[/name_m]
[name_u]Sorrel[/name_u]/[name_u]Sorrell[/name_u]
[name_m]Xavier[/name_m]
[name_m]Wyatt[/name_m]

[name_u]Love[/name_u] these lists!

I still like Zephan but he won’t consider it.

Yesterday we talked about [name_m]Reuben[/name_m], I like the nn Roo.

And he said the slightly unfortunate similar sounding [name_u]Max[/name_u] and our surname to someone else didn’t bother him too much, I’m sure unless people are big formula1 fans they won’t know anyway but I’m still not sure about [name_u]Max[/name_u].

I’d prefer two syllables so maybe [name_m]Maxim[/name_m]? [name_m]Don[/name_m]'t like [name_m]Maxwell[/name_m].

I still really like [name_m]Xander[/name_m] but I don’t think he’s going to let me have that either. I’ve tried my best to talk it up, it’s only number 240ish in the UK while [name_u]Max[/name_u] is 25 and [name_m]Leo[/name_m] 17.

He likes [name_m]Xavier[/name_m] and [name_u]Blaise[/name_u] but I’m not a fan.

Wish this was easier!

I’d love something with meaning, [name_m]Reuben[/name_m] at least means behold a son, very appropriate! and like biblical names too but there are very few that seem to fit.

Some other Biblical Z names:

[name_m]Zebedee[/name_m], it means “God has bestowed”
[name_m]Zebediah[/name_m] ([name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] is a variation of this name)
[name_m]Zebulun[/name_m], check out the meaning here: Meaning, origin and history of the name Zebulun - Behind the Name
Zimri, “my praise” or “my music” Meaning, origin and history of the name Zimri - Behind the Name
[name_m]Zacchaeus[/name_m] (I can’t find the meaning but he’s a good namesake by himself - and nn [name_m]Zach[/name_m] is similar to [name_u]Max[/name_u]!)
[name_m]Zachary[/name_m] “God remembers”
[name_m]Zacharias[/name_m]
[name_m]Zechariah[/name_m] (all three of these are from the same root name, all can use nn [name_m]Zach[/name_m]/[name_m]Zack[/name_m])

It’s [name_m]Zach[/name_m]/[name_m]Zachary[/name_m] etc that he’s stuck on and won’t let go unfortunately and I just don’t like it.

I quite like [name_u]Zephyr[/name_u] but think he’s less keen on that than Zephan.

[name_m]Zebediah[/name_m] is ok but would really prefer something shorter.

I just think something like [name_f]Lyssa[/name_f], Cesca, [name_f]Thea[/name_f] and [name_m]Xander[/name_m] sounds so nice together, why can’t he see that :frowning:

As he starts feeling the pressure maybe you could fall in love with something you know he wont like like [name_m]Zebediah[/name_m] or [name_m]Zebulon[/name_m] or just go with [name_u]Zephyr[/name_u] and then try and get him to compromise on what you really want. Ok so maybe that’s a bit underhanded but this little guy needs a name.

[name_m]Zane[/name_m]? It’s a variation of [name_m]John[/name_m]. [name_m]Steffan[/name_m]? [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] with [name_m]Xander[/name_m] for short?

[name_m]Zane[/name_m] makes me think insane for some reason ha

I think [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] would just get called [name_u]Alex[/name_u] by everyone which is what I’d prefer to avoid having known this very naughty boy of that name for 6 years.

I had hoped my lovely other half would have come round to a nice name by now. He claims he didn’t like [name_f]Thea[/name_f] when I was pregnant before but it grew on him and he loved it in the end. I think he is more bothered this time because we have a boy, quite likely our only one and last baby too so he’s sticking to his favourite name like glue and maybe just worries more about the implications of a name on a boy…maybe

Think we are getting closer, either that or I’m just getting desperate and just really want to name him!

My faves currently are [name_m]Milo[/name_m], [name_m]Xander[/name_m], [name_m]Leo[/name_m], [name_m]Asher[/name_m] and [name_u]Luca[/name_u].

Dh isn’t keen on them he’s now dropped [name_m]Zach[/name_m] thank goodness and is wanting [name_u]Max[/name_u] or [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], which I do like, my only issues are their mad popularity and our surname.

I like [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] better with the girls names. 2 syllables, ends in an ah type sound etc

Also like the nn [name_m]Oz[/name_m] and [name_m]Ozzie[/name_m]

But it’s no. 7 in the UK popularity list, moved up 50+ places in the last 12 years so there’s tons of Oscars about.

Should I just try and forget that, make my peace with it and accept its popular because it’s a lovely name?

Full name could be

[name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m] or
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_m]Zachariah[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m] or
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m] or
[name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_m]Zachary[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m]

My absolute favorite boy name is [name_m]Jarvis[/name_m]. I think it is different without being to unusual. It has a great meaning and has several cool nn’s. I think from whar you are saying it might tick a few boxes? Otherwise if you like z names I like zephyr or zane.

Instead of [name_u]Max[/name_u], might you like [name_u]Pax[/name_u], [name_u]Paxton[/name_u], [name_m]Dax[/name_m], [name_u]Rex[/name_u], or [name_u]Lex[/name_u] (from [name_m]Alexander[/name_m])?

Only you can decide whether the popularity bothers you… but yes, many times those popular names are just because they are great names. Of your combos, I really like [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] [name_m]Zachary[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m]. It has a great, easygoing kind of feel, with buttoned-up [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] at the beginning and adventurous [name_m]Fox[/name_m] at the end.

What about moving [name_m]Fox[/name_m] up from the middle name spot? It has a similar sound to [name_u]Max[/name_u] and I presume you both like it.

I still love [name_m]Fox[/name_m] but unsure about it being a first name. I think [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] has been and gone, the popularity bothers me, plus knowing someone with this name and our surname. And my sister pointed out yesterday that [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] has a very similar sound to Cesca so maybe not the best idea!

I like [name_u]Rex[/name_u], [name_u]Lex[/name_u] etc And [name_m]Dex[/name_m] but oh isn’t keen.

[name_m]Feel[/name_m] like I’m headed for giving in on something I’m not sure about. [name_u]Max[/name_u] at least is slightly less popular than [name_m]Oscar[/name_m].

:frowning: I used to love names, this is just stressing me out, though my slow recovery from emergency section and a raging cold aren’t helping either!

What about [name_m]Maxen[/name_m]?

[name_m]Maxen[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m]
[name_m]Maxen[/name_m] [name_m]Zachary[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m]
[name_m]Maxen[/name_m] [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_m]Fox[/name_m]

And [name_m]Icarus[/name_m]? [name_m]Edgar[/name_m]? [name_m]Caspar[/name_m]? Helix? [name_m]Alec[/name_m]?[name_m]Leonis[/name_m]? Oziel? [name_m]Ozias[/name_m]? Ozius? [name_m]Otto[/name_m]?

[name_m]Alexio[/name_m]
[name_m]Xeno[/name_m]
[name_m]Maximo[/name_m]
[name_m]Calixto[/name_m]

Mattius (mah-tay-us) [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] or [name_u]Lennox[/name_u]. :slight_smile: Three of my favs Good luck

I think [name_m]Maxon[/name_m] is a really nice name, not as feminine was [name_m]Maxim[/name_m] (which reminds me of that giantess from [name_m]Harry[/name_m] [name_m]Potter[/name_m]), and not as common as [name_u]Max[/name_u]. Also, if your like [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], why not also try [name_m]Oliver[/name_m]?

Well, if I’m honest, I do like the name [name_m]Brian[/name_m] and [name_m]Bruce[/name_m]! Also, [name_m]Zachary[/name_m] is a lovely name and the nickname [name_m]Zach[/name_m] is so cute.

Would you consider any of these:
[name_m]Asher[/name_m]
[name_u]Michael[/name_u]
[name_m]Emilio[/name_m]
[name_m]Judd[/name_m]
[name_u]Bobby[/name_u]
[name_u]Robin[/name_u]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
[name_u]Emerson[/name_u]

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