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[name_m]Hi[/name_m], I’m not sure if anyone will see this or remember me, but my name is [name_f]Nina[/name_f] [name_f]Alexandra[/name_f] Zelenak I had an account here until a few days ago, it was deleted for some unknown reason… I have no idea why anyone would report and remove my account and it makes me feel awful that someone thinks I was purposely doing something wrong when I never intended on that and am not sure what I did to merit my whole account being permanently removed. I tried to make a new account repeatedly, and had to create multiple new emails and switch the internet browser I use to get an account that it will actually accept. I thought people here liked or at least were neutral towards me, but if not, I will delete this new account. I have no friends in real life and people just seem to dislike me and this was the one website I found where there were actually so many fun discussions and games to take part in. At the same time, I never felt like I was fully accepted on this website because I’m not as interested in names as most of the users, and don’t have all these others lists and stuff about them. However, I did like being able to take part in all the games and conversations, and I was so sad that my account was banned when I never did anything wrong that I can think of any would never want to do anything to upset people, so if I did, I’m so sorry and I’ll try to never do whatever I did again. It was very upsetting that my account which I’ve had for over a year just suddenly get deleted, but I still wanted to make a new one if people here aren’t 100% against me…

PS I’m not sure if this is the right forum for this kind of post, so I’ll try to move it if it isn’t

hi nina !

i’m sorry to hear you feel upset, and i hope you do not think your account was removed out of a personal grudge or dislike for you. your account was removed because you were repeatedly combative and insulting towards others, and then refused again and again to change your behaviour when called out respectfully by members of the community. mods had been watching your behaviour for a long time, and you were given several chances before finally being suspended. this was not out of the blue. i am sure you did not mean any harm, but your resistance to changing your attitude meant you were not a constructive member of the nameberry community.

hope this helps, sappho x

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