His and Her Lists

My husband and I normally agree on things, but we have had a hard time choosing a name! Here are some names we both like, welcoming feedback and suggestions.

His List:
[name_f]Freya[/name_f] (definitely not my favorite)
[name_u]Piper[/name_u] (we know a few already)
[name_u]Harper[/name_u]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] (we know a a few already)

Her List:
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f] (but I don’t love the nickname [name_f]Addie[/name_f])
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f]
[name_f]Millie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Pippa[/name_f] (he really doesn’t like this name)
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u]

***I should note: we cannot use [name_f]Sophia[/name_f], [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Lyla[/name_f], [name_f]Hayley[/name_f] or [name_f]Emma[/name_f] because of them already being used in the family

Thank you in advance! xo

Some names that might appeal to both of you:

[name_f]Cecilia[/name_f] / [name_f]Celia[/name_f]
[name_f]Zara[/name_f]
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] nn [name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Helena[/name_f] nn [name_f]Lainey[/name_f]
[name_f]Pheobe[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] nn [name_f]Daisy[/name_f] or [name_f]Della[/name_f] (not [name_f]Addie[/name_f]!)
[name_m]Zo[/name_m]ë
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Cambree[/name_f]/ [name_f]Cambrie[/name_f]/ [name_f]Cambria[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]

I like [name_u]Piper[/name_u], [name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] (but not keen on [name_f]Evie[/name_f] which is probably inevitable), [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] and [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] - but hopefully there’s one out there you both love as much as those on your list!

Some ideas that might split the difference:

[name_f]Nina[/name_f]
[name_f]Mila[/name_f]
[name_u]Bellamy[/name_u]
[name_f]Bella[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_f]Delia[/name_f]
[name_f]Luna[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]

[name_f]Coralie[/name_f]
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_u]Emery[/name_u]
[name_u]Laney[/name_u]
[name_u]Marlowe[/name_u]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_u]Harmony[/name_u]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Ada[/name_f]
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
[name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f]
[name_u]Billie[/name_u]
[name_u]Tegan[/name_u]
[name_f]Melody[/name_f]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f]
[name_f]Tess[/name_f]
[name_u]Blair[/name_u]
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]
[name_f]Lara[/name_f]

[name_f]Freya[/name_f] is pretty, but definitely popular at the moment. I love both [name_u]Harper[/name_u] and [name_u]Piper[/name_u] but properly prefer [name_u]Harper[/name_u]. [name_f]Cora[/name_f] is simply beautiful! [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] is a bit plain to me - how about [name_u]Everly[/name_u]?

[name_f]Adeline[/name_f] is super sweet but I’d prefer [name_f]Adelyn[/name_f]. [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] and [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] are gorgeous - I prefer [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] to [name_f]Isla[/name_f] which although I can see it’s appeal, feels a bit old ladyish to me. I really don’t like [name_f]Millie[/name_f] or [name_f]Pippa[/name_f], they’re both very nicknamey and I have bad associations with a [name_f]Millie[/name_f]. Whilst [name_f]Pippa[/name_f] isn’t totally awful, I just cannot get on board with [name_f]Philippa[/name_f]. [name_u]Delaney[/name_u] is okay, but I’d rather see just [name_u]Laney[/name_u].

I like [name_f]Ivy[/name_f], [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], and [name_u]Harper[/name_u] the most :slight_smile:

My first thought was [name_u]Fifer[/name_u].

I think you two have a good start! I’ve tried to find the middle ground between names for you. From his list, my favorite is [name_f]Cora[/name_f]; from yours, [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] and [name_f]Ivy[/name_f].

[name_f]Briar[/name_f]: For him, there’s the length, the rhythm, and the prominent “r” sounds. For you, there is the uniqueness (it is #718 in the top 1000), the fact that it’s a nature name like [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] and [name_f]Isla[/name_f], and that gently vintage, similar to [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] and [name_f]Adeline[/name_f]

[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f]: Strikes me as the perfect balance between [name_f]Cora[/name_f] and [name_u]Delaney[/name_u]. It has the quirk of both, and the starting sound of [name_f]Cora[/name_f] plus the “del” of [name_u]Delaney[/name_u]. It’s longer, and far less popular, than [name_f]Cora[/name_f].

[name_f]Colette[/name_f]: For him, there is the “Co” of [name_f]Cora[/name_f] plus the spunky and liveliness of [name_f]Freya[/name_f] and [name_u]Piper[/name_u]. For you, there is the relatively lesser popularity, the double “l”/double letter I’ve noticed in many of your names, and syllables that pop.

[name_f]Iris[/name_f]: If he wasn’t liking [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] or [name_f]Isla[/name_f], perhaps “I” flower name [name_f]Iris[/name_f] will win him over? It has that great “r” sound, and is tailored like [name_f]Cora[/name_f].

[name_f]Penelope[/name_f]: When I saw [name_u]Piper[/name_u] and [name_f]Pippa[/name_f], I thought of this. [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] is just as regal and mythological as [name_f]Freya[/name_f], and it has the elegance and length of [name_f]Adeline[/name_f].

[name_f]Poppy[/name_f]: Or what about [name_f]Poppy[/name_f]? It is a double “p” flower name for you, but is spunky like [name_u]Harper[/name_u] and [name_u]Piper[/name_u].

[name_f]Harlow[/name_f]/Harlowe: For him, it is tailored, bold, and with that “Har-” sound from [name_u]Harper[/name_u]. It also has the long “o” of [name_f]Cora[/name_f]. For you, it is gentler and more unique that [name_u]Harper[/name_u], and has the “l” sound that is present in many of your favorites. [name_u]Marlowe[/name_u] is another option.

[name_f]Ariadne[/name_f]: Mythological like [name_f]Freya[/name_f], the “r” like virtually all of his favorites, but with the femininity and “A” of [name_f]Adeline[/name_f] and the distinctiveness of [name_u]Delaney[/name_u].

[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]: The sounds of [name_f]Freya[/name_f] and [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u], packaged in a less trendy, feminine, longer name.

[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]: So many of both of your favorite sounds in one short, elegant, beautiful name.

Best of luck with your decision, and I hope this was helpful!

Here’s some you both may like! (sorry in advance for any repeats)
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_f]Willa[/name_f]
[name_u]Wren[/name_u]
[name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_f]Celia[/name_f]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_f]Mila[/name_f]
[name_f]India[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]
[name_f]Holly[/name_f]
[name_f]Ada[/name_f]

I like [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Freya[/name_f] and [name_f]Pippa[/name_f] (nn for [name_f]Philippa[/name_f]?) the most.

If you are worried about popularity, I’d avoid:
[name_u]Piper[/name_u]
[name_u]Harper[/name_u]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u]

[name_f]Millie[/name_f] is too nick-namey

Too old-fashioned for my taste:
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]