When the partner is the one vetoing all of the names, I feel that they are the one who needs to be making a list. Have you asked your partner to make a list of names they like for a boy? It might help us to know what they like.
She likes [name_m]Henry[/name_m], the one name we agree on. [name_m]Bodhi[/name_m], [name_u]Lennon[/name_u], [name_m]Eli[/name_m], [name_u]Everett[/name_u].
I feel like [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] goes with a lot of names. That was my great uncle who passed away and I wanted to honor him on our list, even if it never goes to a child. (it might, or it might not.)
that have been on my list:
[name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Hadrian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_u]Dean[/name_u] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Jack[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
a few other suggestions:
[name_u]Neil[/name_u] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_u]Reed[/name_u]/[name_u]Reid[/name_u] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Warren[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]