How important are initials?

[name_u]Love[/name_u] the name [name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] but initials would be LEZ. Is that a deal breaker?

[name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Isabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Vivienne[/name_f]

Also thinking of [name_f]Vivienne[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f].

Any thoughts welcome!

Definitely not. I think [name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] is beautiful and is my favourite off your list. If I go with one of the names in my signature, my daughter would be BS. But I find that it’s not worth giving up a name you love. She may grow up and change her last name when she gets married too.

Well, as a lesbian, I don’t personally think it’s the worst initials you could possibly have haha. But I would probably avoid it anyway. I love [name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Vivienne[/name_f], and I actually think it flows a lot better!

My initials are SM.
It’s really not a problem.

If the initials spell something cool then I consider it a bonus, but not that important at all. I’ll only avoid it if it has a negative association. With LEZ though, I don’t see any problem.

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker. I love the other middles just as much if you want to avoid the issue. I especially like [name_f]Lilah[/name_f] [name_f]Isabel[/name_f].

Initials dont matter at all to me, I never even use mine
Plus I dont think LEZ is all that bad, its not like her name is [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_f]Sadie[/name_f] [name_m]Smith[/name_m] or something

I agree with emmievis, only the most obviously bad need to be avoided. If when she gets older it is a problem she can use just LZ for a while. Our last name starts with E, and we were stuck on middle name [name_m]Paul[/name_m] for a while if it was a boy. My hubby was concerned that we could not have an A first name, though many we liked were because of the initials APE. It didn’t bother me much, figured we wouldn’t have many or any things monogrammed and if we did would just use AE. I don’t think many people use their initials, surely not many children, unless you tend to monogram things.

I don’t think that LEZ is a problem because it is obviously bad and even if she gets stuff monogramed it would be done LZE

I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. And as a pp said, monogramming isn’t an issue, bc it would be LZE, not LEZ.

It’s a deal breaker for me and the reason my girls have two middle names.

I don’t think the initials LEZ are so bad that it rules the combo out but if it bothers you, then yeah, I would say go with something else. Have you considered using [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] with nickname [name_f]Lilah[/name_f]?

I scarcely ever notice initials.