First, I wanted to say to everwaiteing: I [name]LOVE[/name] [name]Susannah[/name], and think [name]Susannah[/name] [name]Mary[/name] is very pretty I also thought maybe [name]Susannah[/name] [name]Mariane[/name] (the i replacing the y in [name]Mary[/name] and the j in [name]Jane[/name]), or [name]Susannah[/name] [name]Maren[/name] would be nice, too.
I have always wanted three kids, two girls and one boy. I just had my first baby four and a half months ago, and now I think I could maybe be happier with four kids. I am just so sad all the time about how quickly my little girl is growing up! It’s so ridiculous to already be feeling this way, but I am missing the things that haven’t even ended yet…so silly!
In my early teens (I was 13-16, it was 1988-91), the names I had picked out were:
[name]Elizabeth[/name]
[name]Victoria[/name]
[name]Andrew[/name]
[name]Don[/name]'t remember the middle names. Around 16 (1991) I read The Portrait of a Lady, and fell in love with the way the name [name]Isabella[/name] looked on the page. My names gradually evolved into:
[name]Isabella[/name] [name]Juliet[/name]
[name]Amelia[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] ([name]Margaret[/name] is my mom’s middle name)
[name]Gavin[/name] [name]Richard[/name] ([name]Gavin[/name] and [name]Richard[/name] are family names)
Somewhere along the way I decided I liked [name]Sophia[/name] better than [name]Isabella[/name]…I went away to college and the woman who founded the college I attended was named [name]Sophia[/name] [name]Smith[/name]. [name]Sophia[/name] soon became my favorite name, and I particularly loved what it meant. That was around 1996, when [name]Sophia[/name] wasn’t so insanely popular.
So anyway, I’ve been frustrated with the fact that the names I loved for years became so bloody overused. [name]Amelia[/name] was still sort of okay, I thought, and that was my first choice name for my daughter who was born last [name]September[/name]. Unfortunately, husbands have opinions about names, it turns out, so I had to give up [name]Amelia[/name] and [name]Julian[/name] ([name]Julian[/name] replaced [name]Gavin[/name] about ten years ago).
[name]Oliver[/name] would have been the name had she been a boy, but now my husband claims that [name]Oliver[/name] is out if I’m ever pregnant with a boy in the future. He says that it was my daughter’s boy name, and we can’t ever consider it again for that reason. Ridiculous!
Anyway, based on the fact that we named our daughter [name]Genevieve[/name] B”atrix ([name]Genevieve[/name] we just liked, B”atrix is after a teacher and friend who passed away in 2003), these are the names I would love for my future kids. (I’m only listing names I think stand a chance of passing my husband’s rigid likes and dislikes! And I know he likes these names reasonably well, because he said so at least once.):
[name]Genevieve[/name] B”atrix (nn [name]Genny[/name]) S____________________
[name]Cormac[/name] [name]Richard[/name] (nn [name]Mac[/name]) S_____________________
[name]Aurelia[/name] [name]Margot[/name] (nn [name]Aurelie[/name]) S_____________________
I’m not a fan of [name]Mac[/name], but my husband campaigned heavily for it last time, so I think [name]Cormac[/name] is a nice compromise (he’s not sold). It’s funny, it’s still just as much fun to daydream about my future kids’ names now as it was when I was a teenager. It’s just gotten incredibly more complicated now that I know my married name, now that I have a husband who wants some say in the matter, and now that I’ve named one already. But it’s still so much fun to think about all the time, too!