I’ll admit it: I usually can’t judge style similarity across the gender line. But I can tell that my male and female styles are quite different. For example, I like Persian, French, Russian and Greek names for girls, but Scottish, Germanic and Scandinavian for boys. I’m much more likely to use surnames as male names - but only those that are distinctly male, as I’m still in the “unisex names work better on girls” camp.
So, how much alike are your preferences, in terms of linguistic origin, degree of gendering, length, time period of popularity, and so on?
I’m much, much more conservative with boys name than I am with girls names. I like very traditional names for boys, such as [name]William[/name] and [name]Benjamin[/name]. I’m much more daring for girls name. Also, I’m way pickier with boys names. I think many of their names are too masculine (how weird is that?).
For boys I lean toward Bohemian names. English, irish and greek. For girls I tend toward word names, native american, and hawaiian names.
My taste is very different. I like European, in particular [name]German[/name], boys names like [name]Andreas[/name] and [name]Soren[/name]. For girls I like more English names like [name]Cecily[/name] and [name]Elinor[/name]. I have tried to unite the two but I’ve found it to be next to impossible. I’ve decided that picking names I love and that have significance to us is more important than the names matching. We both love [name]Andreas[/name] and [name]Cecily[/name] and would love to have children with those names some day. To us they are prefect together so I guess that is all that matter. 
In some ways, my taste is similar - I like unusual names with quirky nicknames, and literary or mythological connotations are brilliant. I like soft sounds (like quirkflower, I actually find some boys’ names “too masculine”) for both genders, and origins tend to be English, Romantic languages, or Greek for both. I love Gaelic names, but find that I much prefer Gaelic girls’ names to boys’ names (although I do like [name]Seamus[/name]).
However, for boys’ names I am a little more tolerant of popularity - while I would only use it in the middle, I do like names like [name]Jack[/name], whereas for girls, I could never consider [name]Olivia[/name] or [name]Isabella[/name], unless they were to honour someone, even in the middle. Perhaps it is because I myself (a girl) have a fairly popular name …
[name]Auburn[/name]