How to get dh to dislike a name

DH has not been through what I have been through with our son’s name…that he named. [name]Ryan[/name] is way more common here than normal I think. In my neighborhood, there are 6 [name]Ryan[/name]'s out of 30 boys total. There is a [name]Ryan[/name] in every single one of my children’s classes. Plus, the only other babies I knew born that year local to me were named [name]Ryan[/name]. [name]Even[/name] when my children took outside classes, no matter how few children there were, they was always a [name]Ryan[/name]. AND, our oldest son’s name is [name]Riley[/name] so people confuse it all the time.

SO, we go out to eat last night. The hostess was [name]Ryan[/name]. Strike 1. Then, dh takes the kids out to play today. By the time he came home he said if he had to hear another parent call their child [name]Ryan[/name], he was going to run screaming. Strike 2. Get the idea? He said pick another name and we will go with it. A little recap (the long story is posted below) [name]Ryan[/name] is 19 months old and still does not go by [name]Ryan[/name]. He goes by a silly nickname. Goobee. Not kidding.

Now to picking what we will change his name to. It is between a name I named him originally, like [name]Liam[/name]. Or [name]Rowan[/name], which is so similar to [name]Ryan[/name], that we could pass it off as a nickname for a while. He has a 1st [name]Christmas[/name] ornament that has the name [name]Rowan[/name] on it. But my DH suggested [name]Rory[/name]. It is cool, but seems so hard to say. My dh says it was some guy in the masters. I am going to put in a vote on the boy name board, but would not mind suggestions or opinions. It is going to be so weird trying to get used to a name, especially since he has been Goobee so long!

[name]Do[/name] you like [name]Ronan[/name]? It is easier to say than [name]Rory[/name] (I think) and has the same masculinity but a slightly more different feel…It means ‘little seal’ which I think’s pretty sweet!
Otherwise maybe:
[name]Roman[/name]
[name]Roan[/name] (less unisex way of spelling it?)

These are the best options I can think of :slight_smile:
Like any? I can come up with more maybe, on the back of some feedback.

All the luck in the world to ya!

I am so pleased that your DH has changed his mind about [name]Ryan[/name] after what you went through during & after 'Goobee’s birth. [name]Ryan[/name] really has been bothering you! I’d really like to write more, but as it’s now just gone 1am here, I’ll come back and edit asap. All the best, Honeybee!

I am glad your husband has come around. I really like [name]Rory[/name], but it is hard to say. [name]How[/name] old are your children? If you have a younger child ask them to say the name [name]Rory[/name] to see if they can say it. Another thing to consider it [name]Riley[/name], which is still similar to [name]Rory[/name]. I really like [name]Rowan[/name], [name]Rohan[/name], and [name]Ronan[/name].
Others:
[name]Rhys[/name]
[name]Reid[/name]
[name]Reeve[/name]
[name]River[/name]