How to warm up to names?

Apologies; I wasn’t sure what to title this thread.

But the issue I’m having is that I have a hard time warming to any boy names. I like a bunch, but in a detached way. Not in an “I could see myself actually using this” way. Girl names are a lot easier in that regard. I know what I want out of my girl names and can easily picture them on a daughter.

[name_f]Do[/name_f] you have a certain gender that’s tougher for you to like names for? [name_m]Feel[/name_m] free to explain why. Also, any advice on how to warm up to the names that you’re not as sure of what you want in them? The funny thing is I see myself more with sons, but I’d have a hard time being confident of any name choices for them at this point.