Husband doesn’t like my name choices

Since [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] and [name_u]Luca[/name_u] are just variations of the same name, probably wouldn’t be the place to go, but I love them both too. Is [name_u]Luca[/name_u] a boy or girl?
Here’s some ideas I don’t think we’re on other lists …
[name_f]Verity[/name_f]
[name_f]Jessamine[/name_f]
[name_f]Tawney[/name_f]

I think [name_f]Mia[/name_f] and [name_f]Emmy[/name_f] could work. I recommend [name_f]Hettie[/name_f] or Maron