…what would you name siblings for, [name]Caspian[/name] and/or [name]Lilia[/name]? Warning, this may seem like a long ramble or a whacked post. Especially, by someone who is not even TTC any time soon. But I really need help to ease my mind and to help inspire me towards other names. I have been obsessing with this as if I was actually having kids, right this moment. Lol I have tried for months to think of it on my own, and have been trying not to annoy, Berries with my annoying post. But I figured, what are Berries here for, right? (At least it’s better than making up fake pregnancy stories.)
I know for sure if I have a girl her name would be [name]Lilia[/name]. It would have been [name]Liliana[/name], which I still love, but it irritates me beyond belief when people pronounce is as -anna instead of -ahna. Yes, I know, very mental.
In the case of [name]Caspian[/name] vs [name]Sebastian[/name]. I have loved the name [name]Caspian[/name] for years, but thought it was too much for a name. So a couple of months ago, I have come to like [name]Sebastian[/name], but not as much as [name]Caspian[/name]. I thought I should settle for the second best because it might be more accepted towards people. But then, I thought, why make myself unhappy (with potential name regret) to please others, who may only call his name in passing. My family has had the chance to pick names they liked, so I should be able to as well. I mean I can even see the name, [name]Caspian[/name] stand on it own as a doctor, lawyer, pirate, author, artist, teacher, athlete, whatever he wants to do in life. And for those who cannot handle the name, [name]Ian[/name] is a nice alternative (which holds meaning to me since [name]Ian[/name] is another form of [name]John[/name]).
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So, if I ever have one boy and one girl, their names will be [name]Lilia[/name] and [name]Caspian[/name], but If I have more…here comes the problem. Heck, I might not even have any boys, but I just want to be prepared, which may seem to add fire to my insanity. I know siblings don’t have to have matchy names, but I don’t want a [name]Caspian[/name], and his siblings name is either [name]Joan[/name] or [name]Adam[/name]. I will save middle name suggestions for another post, but I want to at least be content with first names. But suggestions are welcomed.
I know these names are not everyones cup of tea, but if you could offer anything. So what siblings would you give each name?