I need a 3 letter name for baby number 3

I am having a third son and would love some help finding a name. We ALL have 3 letter names with a longer formal name, and while it wasn’t intentional now it would feel wierd not giving that to our last child.
Although hubby isn’t so sure it’s an issue!
We have maxwell (max) and [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] (art) and we are stuck.
I love Ted but it’s off limits as a friend used it.

We also can’t use [name_m]Seb[/name_m], [name_u]Gus[/name_u], [name_m]Guy[/name_m] or [name_m]Bob/name_m

I love English names and names that are slightly quirky even

I’m really stuck and would love your help!

Thank you!

What about

[name_u]Lee[/name_u]/[name_m]Leo[/name_m] ([name_m]Leonard[/name_m], [name_m]Leopold[/name_m])
[name_u]Nat[/name_u] ([name_m]Nathan[/name_m]/[name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m])
[name_u]Cal[/name_u] ([name_m]Caleb[/name_m]/[name_m]Callum[/name_m])
[name_m]Abe[/name_m] ([name_m]Abel[/name_m]/[name_m]Abraham[/name_m])
[name_m]Alf[/name_m] ([name_m]Alfred[/name_m])
[name_u]Pat[/name_u] ([name_m]Patrick[/name_m])
[name_m]Dex[/name_m] ([name_u]Dexter[/name_u])
[name_u]Ray[/name_u] ([name_m]Raymond[/name_m])
[name_m]Ron[/name_m] ([name_m]Ronald[/name_m])
[name_m]Joe[/name_m] ([name_m]Joseph[/name_m])
[name_m]Tom[/name_m] ([name_m]Thomas[/name_m])
[name_u]Kit[/name_u] ([name_m]Christian[/name_m]/[name_m]Christopher[/name_m])
[name_m]Eli[/name_m] ([name_m]Elijah[/name_m]/[name_u]Elias[/name_u]/[name_u]Elliot[/name_u])

[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m] ([name_u]Max[/name_u]), [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] ([name_m]Art[/name_m]) and…
[name_m]Joseph[/name_m] ([name_m]Joe[/name_m])
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]/[name_m]Benson[/name_m]/[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] ([name_m]Ben[/name_m])
[name_u]James[/name_u]/[name_u]Jamie[/name_u]/[name_m]Jason[/name_m]/[name_m]Jared[/name_m] ([name_u]Jay[/name_u])
[name_m]Samson[/name_m]/[name_m]Samuel[/name_m] ([name_u]Sam[/name_u])
[name_m]Zachary[/name_m] ([name_m]Zac[/name_m])
[name_m]Leonard[/name_m]/[name_m]Leon[/name_m] ([name_m]Leo[/name_m])

I feel like I have the answer for you. My husband and I have the same requirements, longer formal name, short everyday name. We wanted something masculine. I loved Ted but it was off limits to us too.
We went with [name_m]Jedidiah[/name_m] called [name_m]Jed[/name_m].
It is honestly the best name, i just put our [name_m]Jed[/name_m] to bed and love the name, we get complements everywhere and he loves it.

[name_m]Ike[/name_m] ([name_m]Isaac[/name_m])
[name_m]Cas[/name_m] ([name_m]Caspar[/name_m]/[name_m]Cassius[/name_m])
[name_u]Ren[/name_u] ([name_u]Kieran[/name_u])
[name_m]Hal[/name_m] ([name_m]Henry[/name_m]/[name_m]Harold[/name_m])
[name_m]Abe[/name_m] ([name_m]Abram[/name_m])
[name_m]Mac[/name_m] ([name_m]Cormac[/name_m])

What about…

[name_m]Tad[/name_m]
[name_u]Roy[/name_u]
[name_u]Jay[/name_u] ([name_m]Jason[/name_m]?)
[name_m]Ben[/name_m] ([name_m]Benjamin[/name_m])
[name_m]Zac[/name_m] ([name_m]Zachary[/name_m])
[name_m]Dan[/name_m] ([name_m]Daniel[/name_m])
[name_u]Kai[/name_u]
[name_m]Ian[/name_m]
[name_u]Ash[/name_u] ([name_m]Asher[/name_m])
[name_m]Abe[/name_m] ([name_m]Abraham[/name_m])
[name_u]Rex[/name_u]
[name_m]Mac[/name_m]
[name_m]Eli[/name_m]
[name_m]Dex[/name_m] ([name_u]Dexter[/name_u])
[name_m]Baz[/name_m] ([name_m]Sebastian[/name_m])
[name_m]Kip[/name_m] ([name_m]Kipling[/name_m])
[name_m]Dez[/name_m] ([name_m]Desmond[/name_m])
[name_u]Cal[/name_u] ([name_m]Callum[/name_m])
[name_m]Lev[/name_m]
[name_u]Gus[/name_u]
[name_m]Hal[/name_m]
[name_m]Wes[/name_m] ([name_m]Wesley[/name_m])
[name_u]Sam[/name_u] ([name_m]Samuel[/name_m])
[name_u]Vic[/name_u] ([name_m]Victor[/name_m])
[name_u]Ari[/name_u]
[name_u]Nat[/name_u] ([name_m]Nathan[/name_m])
[name_m]Jon[/name_m] ([name_m]Jonathan[/name_m])

I love the suggestions of [name_m]Raymond[/name_m] ([name_u]Ray[/name_u]), [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] ([name_m]Wes[/name_m]) & [name_m]Kipling[/name_m] ([name_m]Kip[/name_m]) among others. Trying not to repeat:

[name_m]Warren[/name_m] ([name_u]Ren[/name_u])
[name_m]Calvin[/name_m] ([name_u]Cal[/name_u])
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m] (Col)
[name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] ([name_m]Gil[/name_m])
[name_m]Benedict[/name_m] ([name_m]Ned[/name_m])
[name_u]Leland[/name_u] ([name_u]Lee[/name_u])
[name_u]Dexter[/name_u] ([name_m]Dex[/name_m])
[name_m]Edmond[/name_m] or [name_m]Edward[/name_m] ([name_m]Ned[/name_m])
[name_m]Evander[/name_m] ([name_u]Van[/name_u])

[name_m]Ace[/name_m] ([name_u]Wallace[/name_u], [name_u]Asa[/name_u], [name_u]Mason[/name_u])
[name_u]Ash[/name_u] ([name_u]Ashton[/name_u])
[name_u]Cam[/name_u] ([name_u]Cameron[/name_u])
[name_u]Van[/name_u] ([name_u]Sullivan[/name_u], [name_m]Donovan[/name_m])
[name_m]Rad[/name_m] ([name_m]Conrad[/name_m])
[name_m]Pip[/name_m] ([name_m]Philip[/name_m])
[name_m]Jim[/name_m]/[name_u]Jem[/name_u] ([name_u]James[/name_u], [name_u]Jameson[/name_u], [name_m]Jeremy[/name_m])
[name_m]Fox[/name_m] ([name_m]Felix[/name_m])
[name_u]Lex[/name_u] ([name_m]Alexander[/name_m])
[name_m]Wim[/name_m] ([name_m]William[/name_m])
[name_u]Ren[/name_u] ([name_u]Lawrence[/name_u], [name_u]Brennan[/name_u], [name_m]Soren[/name_m])
Geo (George)
Ian (Julian)
Jet (Jarrett)

[name_u]Cal[/name_u] - [name_m]Callahan[/name_m], [name_m]Calloway[/name_m], [name_m]Callum[/name_m], [name_m]Calvin[/name_m]
[name_m]Don[/name_m] - [name_m]Donovan[/name_m], [name_m]Donald[/name_m]
[name_m]Ken[/name_m] - Kendrink, [name_u]Kennedy[/name_u], [name_m]Kenneth[/name_m]
[name_u]Pat[/name_u] - [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_m]Ron[/name_m] - [name_m]Ronald[/name_m]
[name_m]Sid[/name_m] - [name_u]Sidney[/name_u]
[name_m]Wes[/name_m] - [name_m]Wesley[/name_m]

[name_m]Tim[/name_m] - [name_m]Timothy[/name_m]
[name_m]Joe[/name_m] - [name_m]Joseph[/name_m]
[name_m]Ben[/name_m] - [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]

My son goes to school with an [name_m]Obadiah[/name_m], and he goes by [name_m]Obi[/name_m]. My son thinks it’s really cool and that we should consider it.

We’re tossed around [name_m]Octavious[/name_m], nn [name_u]Taye[/name_u]… I suppose you could spell it [name_u]Tae[/name_u], but it looks a little girlish.

I know a [name_m]Luc[/name_m] - pronounced just like [name_m]Luke[/name_m].

I’m loving [name_m]Daniel[/name_m] - it has the obvious nn [name_m]Dan[/name_m].

Here’s a list from BtN of all the male 3 letter names in their db: Browse Names - Behind the Name

What about:

[name_m]Ian[/name_m] ([name_m]Christian[/name_m], [name_u]Florian[/name_u], [name_m]Killian[/name_m], [name_m]Julian[/name_m], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], [name_m]Valerian[/name_m], [name_m]Aurelian[/name_m], etc., etc.!)
[name_m]Leo[/name_m] ([name_m]Leopold[/name_m], [name_m]Leander[/name_m], [name_u]Elliot[/name_u], [name_m]Leonardo[/name_m], [name_m]Leonidas[/name_m], [name_m]Leonard[/name_m]/[name_m]Leonid[/name_m], [name_m]Leopoldo[/name_m], etc.!)
[name_u]Nat[/name_u] ([name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m], [name_m]Nathan[/name_m]?)
[name_u]Sam[/name_u] ([name_m]Samuel[/name_m], [name_m]Samson[/name_m])
[name_m]Luc[/name_m] ([name_m]Lucas[/name_m], [name_m]Lucian[/name_m], [name_m]Lucien[/name_m], [name_m]Lucius[/name_m], [name_u]Luca[/name_u]?)
[name_m]Geo[/name_m] ([name_m]Giovanni[/name_m], [name_m]George[/name_m]?)
[name_u]Kit[/name_u] ([name_m]Christopher[/name_m], [name_m]Christian[/name_m], [name_m]Atticus[/name_m], [name_m]Beckett[/name_m]?)
[name_u]Cam[/name_u] ([name_u]Cameron[/name_u], [name_u]Camden[/name_u])
Row/[name_f]Roe[/name_f] ([name_u]Rowan[/name_u], [name_u]Rory[/name_u], [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], etc.)
[name_m]Hal[/name_m] ([name_m]Harold[/name_m]/[name_m]Harald[/name_m] or [name_m]Henry[/name_m], maybe?)
[name_m]Cas[/name_m] ([name_m]Casper[/name_m], [name_m]Cassian[/name_m], [name_m]Caspian[/name_m], [name_m]Cassiel[/name_m], [name_m]Castiel[/name_m], [name_m]Cassius[/name_m], [name_m]Casimir[/name_m], etc., etc.–or I think [name_m]Cap[/name_m] is even cute for [name_m]Casper[/name_m]…)
[name_m]Dex[/name_m] ([name_u]Dexter[/name_u], [name_m]Declan[/name_m]?)
[name_m]Bas[/name_m] ([name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], [name_m]Bastian[/name_m]–or is [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] as a whole off-limits, or just the nn [name_m]Seb[/name_m]?)
[name_u]Bay[/name_u] ([name_m]Bayard[/name_m], [name_u]Bailey[/name_u])

Good luck!

Maxwell & Arthur:

Wes, Wesley
Lou, Louis
Row, Rowan
Edd, Edward/Edmund
Oli, Oliver
Baz/ Bas, Bastian/Bastien/ Sebastian
Val, Valentino
Pax, Paxton
Lev, Levin/Levi
Mel, Melvin
Leo/Len, Leon/Leonard
Vin, Vincent
Vic, Victor
Raf, Rafael
Jos, Joseph/Joshua
Dyl, Dylan
Don, Donald/Donahue/Donovan
Jax/Jac, Jaxon/Jackson
Teo, Matteo
Abe, Abraham/Abel
Ron, Ronald/ Ronan
Hob, Robert

My first thought was [name_m]Leonard[/name_m] or [name_m]Leopold[/name_m] ([name_m]Leo[/name_m]) but have you also considered maybe [name_u]Asa[/name_u] or [name_u]Kit[/name_u]? I love [name_u]Kit[/name_u] as short for [name_m]Christopher[/name_m]. I also love the idea of maybe [name_m]Calvin[/name_m]/[name_m]Callan[/name_m] with the nickname [name_u]Cal[/name_u], or [name_m]Henry[/name_m] with the nickname [name_m]Hal[/name_m]? [name_u]Love[/name_u] all of these! Good luck!

[name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m] called [name_m]Tad[/name_m] I feel like is best because [name_m]Tad[/name_m] is so similar to Ted.

[name_u]Cal[/name_u] ([name_m]Calvin[/name_m])
[name_u]Ray[/name_u] ([name_m]Raymond[/name_m])
[name_u]Lou[/name_u] ([name_m]Louis[/name_m], [name_m]Lewis[/name_m])
[name_m]Fox[/name_m] ([name_m]Forest[/name_m]?)
[name_m]Fin[/name_m] ([name_m]Finnegan[/name_m], [name_u]Finley[/name_u], Phineus)
[name_m]Dan[/name_m] ([name_m]Daniel[/name_m], [name_m]Dante[/name_m])
[name_u]Lee[/name_u] ([name_u]Leland[/name_u])
[name_m]Ian[/name_m] ([name_m]Killian[/name_m], [name_m]Adrian[/name_m], [name_m]Julian[/name_m], [name_m]Caspian[/name_m])
[name_u]Mat[/name_u] ([name_m]Matthias[/name_m])
[name_u]Asa[/name_u]/[name_m]Ace[/name_m] ([name_m]Asaiah[/name_m])
[name_m]Sid[/name_m] ([name_u]Sidney[/name_u])
[name_m]Wil[/name_m] ([name_m]Wilfred[/name_m], [name_m]William[/name_m])
[name_m]Tim[/name_m] ([name_m]Timothy[/name_m])
[name_m]Tom[/name_m] ([name_m]Thomas[/name_m])
[name_m]Jon[/name_m] ([name_m]Jonathan[/name_m])
[name_m]Dex[/name_m] ([name_u]Dexter[/name_u])
[name_u]Ari[/name_u] ([name_m]Aristotle[/name_m])
[name_m]Alf[/name_m] ([name_m]Alfred[/name_m])
[name_u]Kai[/name_u] ([name_m]Malachi[/name_m])

Wow, I just fell in love with [name_m]Jed[/name_m]. So great!

Here’s a few from my long list:
[name_m]Abel[/name_m] / [name_m]Abraham[/name_m] / [name_m]Abram[/name_m] “[name_m]Abe[/name_m]”
[name_m]Alexander[/name_m] “[name_u]Lex[/name_u]”
[name_m]Asher[/name_m] “[name_u]Ash[/name_u]”
[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] “[name_m]Ben[/name_m]”
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m] “[name_m]Ben[/name_m]”
[name_m]Caleb[/name_m] “[name_u]Cal[/name_u]”
[name_m]Callum[/name_m] “[name_u]Cal[/name_u]”
[name_m]Calvin[/name_m] “[name_u]Cal[/name_u]”
[name_u]Camden[/name_u] “[name_u]Cam[/name_u]”
[name_u]Cameron[/name_u] “[name_u]Cam[/name_u]”
[name_m]Cormac[/name_m] “[name_u]Mac[/name_u]”
[name_m]Daniel[/name_m] “[name_m]Dan[/name_m]”
[name_u]Dexter[/name_u] “[name_m]Dex[/name_m]”
[name_m]Elijah[/name_m] “[name_m]Eli[/name_m]”
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u] “[name_m]Eli[/name_m]”
[name_u]Finley[/name_u] “[name_m]Fin[/name_m]”
[name_m]Finnegan[/name_m]“[name_m]Fin[/name_m]”
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m] “[name_u]Ike[/name_u]”
[name_m]James[/name_m] “[name_u]Jem or Jim[/name_u]”
[name_m]Jameson[/name_m] "[name_u]Jem or Jim[/name_u] "
[name_m]Jedediah[/name_m] “[name_u]Jed[/name_u]”
[name_m]Jonathan[/name_m] “[name_u]Jon or Joe[/name_u]”
[name_m]Joseph[/name_m] “[name_u]Joe[/name_u]”
[name_m]Leopold[/name_m] “[name_m]Leo[/name_m]”
[name_m]Obadiah[/name_m] “[name_u]Obe[/name_u]”
[name_m]Samson[/name_m] “[name_u]Sam[/name_u]”
[name_m]Samuel[/name_m] “[name_u]Sam[/name_u]”
[name_m]Sidney[/name_m] "[name_u]Sid[/name_u] "
[name_m]Timothy[/name_m] “[name_u]Tim[/name_u]”
[name_m]Wesley[/name_m] “[name_m]Wes[/name_m]”
[name_m]Zachary[/name_m] “[name_u]Zac[/name_u]”

Warmest congratulations, @marielou; I’m excited for you as you anticipate the arrival of a third son!

What a nice sibset. [name_f]May[/name_f] I suggest:

[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m] ([name_u]Max[/name_u]), [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] ([name_m]Art[/name_m]) {and} [name_m]Calvin[/name_m] ([name_u]Cal[/name_u]) / [name_m]Isaac[/name_m] ([name_m]Ike[/name_m]) / [name_m]Phineas[/name_m] ([name_m]Fin[/name_m])

Suggesting [name_u]Lawrence[/name_u] nn [name_u]Ren[/name_u].

My first thought was [name_m]Isaac[/name_m] nn [name_m]Ike[/name_m] or [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] nn [name_u]Sam[/name_u].

[name_m]Donovan[/name_m] nn [name_u]Van[/name_u]
[name_m]Caleb[/name_m] nn [name_u]Cal[/name_u]
[name_m]Patrick[/name_m] nn [name_u]Pat[/name_u]
[name_m]George[/name_m] nn [name_m]Geo[/name_m]
[name_m]Alexander[/name_m] nn [name_u]Lex[/name_u]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] nn [name_m]Tom[/name_m]