[name_m]Hi[/name_m]! I seem to be struggling extra with names in this new project, so I figured why not ask people who are a lot better at this than me! To avoid making three or four posts, I’m asking everything in one, so please give opinions on whichever strikes you.
First is the last name for my main character. I settled on [name_f]Arwen[/name_f] (with some help) for her first name, but her surname illudes me. I’d like the name to be sort of fancy, or rich, as she’s supposed to come from a rich family, and maybe a little on the longer side. I did a quick poll with a few suggestions, and [name_f]Bennington[/name_f] was a favorite there, but the more I turned it over in my head the less I liked it. Heisenberg was another, and I still like, I just don’t think it quite fits with a given name like [name_f]Arwen[/name_f]. The newest one I’ve been tossing around is Kincaid, which I think sounds nice and fits the background, but refuses to stick in my head if that makes sense. Should I just told with Kincaid or keep looking?
[name_f]My[/name_f] next issue is a nickname for [name_f]Arwen[/name_f]. Most of the other characters have nicknames, and I’d like her to have one, but I’m just not quite sure what to do with her. Ari/Arie maybe? Does that even sound nice?
Next is [name_m]Aleksander[/name_m] versus [name_m]Alexander[/name_m]. I can’t decide which I like better. On one hand, I like the spelling of [name_m]Aleksander[/name_m] as a full name, but prefer the nickname spelling of [name_u]Alex[/name_u] over [name_u]Alek[/name_u] or [name_u]Aleks[/name_u]. Alternatively, I could come outta left field with either and nickname him Ander(s). Thoughts?
And finally, the biggest one (after the last name thing)- [name_m]Vlad[/name_m] as a nickname for [name_m]Vladimir[/name_m]. According to literally every conversation I’ve seen in regards to my Vladimir’s namesake being called [name_m]Vlad[/name_m], [name_m]Vlad[/name_m] is not an acceptable nickname. [name_m]Vova[/name_m] or [name_m]Volodya[/name_m] are apparently the more accepted nicknames. [name_m]Vlad[/name_m] is either an independent name, or short for [name_m]Vladislav[/name_m]. I’ve got a few issues here. On one hand, I’d hate to look like- or be- the numbskull that disrespects another culture, but on the other… I love [name_m]Vlad[/name_m], and dislike both alternatives, being called [name_m]Vlad[/name_m] is one half of the reference that is his name, and having the ‘American’ nickname certainly fits with the other characters (ie, [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] being [name_u]Alex[/name_u] and not the traditional and somewhat confusing Sacha). I might be making too big of a deal about this, or I might not, so I turn it over to you all, much more intelligent than I. Should I not use [name_m]Vlad[/name_m]? Should I use it and address it in the story somehow, or just ignore it?
Anyway, thanks in advance for any and all help!