Hi everyone! [name_m]Long[/name_m] post alert but thanks for your feedback!
So my husband and I have had the stressful past of having to go through IVF to have our babies. But we’ve been blessed with successful pregnancies and number two will be here in a few weeks. [name_f]My[/name_f] son’s birthday is in [name_u]January[/name_u] and my future daughter will be end of [name_f]September[/name_f] or early [name_f]October[/name_f] this year.
We are planning to have one more baby and getting pregnant within a year after this baby, with our doctor’s approval. Number one, my husband and I are older parents and number two, we want our kids close in age.
My question is about birthdays being so close together with the holidays. If we plan a third pregnancy soon after (6 months) to follow the birth of my second child, we may end up with an early [name_u]November[/name_u] baby. Which would give us an [name_f]October[/name_f], [name_u]November[/name_u], and [name_u]January[/name_u] - coupled with all the big holidays in between.
Or we can wait 10-11 months and have an [name_f]April[/name_f]/May baby. Is having 3 birthdays in the same season and around the holidays long term a big issue?
My husband and I have birthdays in [name_f]February[/name_f] and [name_u]March[/name_u], lol. So were basically nonstop from [name_f]October[/name_f] - [name_u]March[/name_u] every year.
I’ve thought about none of my kids ever having an outside birthday in the fall or winter but we live up north and [name_f]April[/name_f] and [name_f]May[/name_f] aren’t guaranteed outside parties either since it’s typically 50s-60s in [name_f]April[/name_f] and sometimes in [name_f]May[/name_f], as well.
We just want to have our babies and get the little rascals here and start living our lives! So much gets put on hold during pregnancy. [name_m]Don[/name_m]’t really want to wait, but the few months wait could make for a better future for birthdays that are set in stone forever.
What do y’all think? Anyone have babies born in the same few months and around a bunch of other big events or holidays?