So hoping to have our first in the next year or two and here’s the deal:
[name_f]My[/name_f] taste: ethereal uber rare (usually above 500 if not unranked on the SSA list) yet fits into the modern tongue without too much difficulty.
[name_u]An[/name_u] example of this is: [name_m]Illarion[/name_m] . I LOVE this name and it was my top boy pick for a REALLY long time. But my husband has already 1000% vetoed it and most other things ending in “ion” because they sound too Tolkien/fantastical/elvish. le sigh……
Husband’s taste: solid names with historical backing, etc. He does not have the same rarity requirement but also doesn’t want something that is so common there will be 5 in the child’s class (think out of the top 50 probably).
So….like are there names left? We’ve agreed to each other’s top pick in girls’ names (his is in the top 1000 but I guess I’ll let it slide…) but boy names have been mostly a total wash.
The brave few we’ve semi-agreed on: [name_u]Sinclair[/name_u] (more as a middle though) , [name_m]Donovan[/name_m] , [name_u]Arden[/name_u] (although this may be becoming too trendy?) , [name_m]Aurelian[/name_m]
Names I love that he’s vetoed: [name_m]Riah[/name_m] , [name_m]Castiel[/name_m] , [name_m]Theon[/name_m], [name_u]Carlisle[/name_u], [name_m]Illarion[/name_m]. He is okay with [name_m]Dominic[/name_m] but likes [name_m]Donovan[/name_m] better. I have not convinced him on [name_m]Connell[/name_m] [name_m]Murdoch[/name_m] yet either.
Names he’s suggested that I don’t like but haven’t totally vetoed yet but am not particularly captured by: [name_m]Fabian[/name_m] , [name_m]Hannibal[/name_m], [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] (as a middle)
We don’t have any honor names although we may want to honor his dad but it would probably be with the feminine version of his name if we did it.
TLDR: ethereal, rarer yet solid and historical is our sweet spot. I’m more okay with middles being more common.
Looking for suggestions and also just input on this clash of ideals: is there hope? [name_f]Do[/name_f] we need to pray for all girls? lol
*Last name begins with a “Sh” sound. SORRY FOR THE LONG POST IDK HOW TO DO THE FANCY DROP DOWN ARROWS