I'm desperate!

[name]Hi[/name] All!

I’m pretty new here, to the forums at least. We are due with #3 in Oct and I still haven’t thought of a name that I am certain of.
We have a [name]Sasha[/name] and a [name]Milo[/name], we had 4 losses and this is most certainly a rainbow baby. We prefer first names that aren’t in the top 200 (we named our kids before [name]Sasha[/name] fierce and [name]Sasha[/name] [name]Obama[/name], hehe). We have played around with:

[name]Maggie[/name]
[name]Ellie[/name] (too popular)
[name]Hattie[/name]

[name]Hazel[/name] and [name]Violet[/name], as middles and [name]Beatrix[/name]/[name]Beatrice[/name] b/c it was my grandmothers name. I still don’t have one that I’m in love with though!

Our last name is 3 syllables, hispanic sounding and starts with “Car”
ETA: I’d like to keep away from names ending in the same sound as my other kids which is why I seem so stuck on “E” endings

Please let me know if you have any names that sound like they may fit our style. I need help!

Thanks!

[name]Milo[/name], [name]Sasha[/name] and. . .

[name]Tess[/name]
[name]Tillie[/name]
[name]Jessie[/name]
[name]Ruth[/name] ([name]Ruthie[/name])
[name]Rose[/name]
[name]Marcy[/name] (a bit nicknamey though, could go w/ [name]Marceline[/name] or [name]Marcella[/name])

[name]Sasha[/name] and [name]Milo[/name] are a really nice sibset. Some of the -ie names seem too nickname to me-- so what about one ending with an S or an N? Some other possibilities:

[name]Sasha[/name], [name]Milo[/name], and

[name]Arden[/name]
[name]Astrid[/name]
[name]Avis[/name]
[name]Blythe[/name]
[name]Corrine[/name]
[name]Edith[/name]
[name]Ellen[/name]
[name]Elsie[/name]
[name]Esme[/name]
[name]Faye[/name]
[name]Felice[/name]
[name]Frances[/name]
[name]Gretchen[/name]
[name]Gwen[/name]
[name]Helen[/name]
[name]Ingrid[/name]
[name]Iris[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name]
[name]Jane[/name]
[name]Judith[/name]
[name]Leonie[/name]
[name]Olive[/name]
[name]Nancy[/name]
[name]Phoebe[/name]
[name]Rose[/name]
[name]Roxanne[/name]
[name]Ruth[/name]
[name]Sydney[/name]
[name]Thais[/name]
[name]Verity[/name]

[name]Maggie[/name] - wouldn’t be my top pick as it shares the M with [name]Milo[/name], but, it would be OK. Is [name]Margaret[/name] out for being too long? Too formal?
[name]Ellie[/name] - you’ve ruled out, but you like the sound. OK.
[name]Hattie[/name] - cute. So vintage. Is [name]Harriet[/name] out for being too long, too formal?

You like [name]Hazel[/name] and [name]Violet[/name] enough for middles. Flowers. You like [name]Beatrix[/name] or [name]Beatrice[/name] enough for the middle. S endings. Some thoughts:
(I am not sure what’s in the top 200. I’ve tried to avoid super popular but might be wrong on some things).

[name]Alice[/name] nn [name]Allie[/name]: ends in S. Vintage. [name]Allie[/name] is close to [name]Ellie[/name] but less popular. [name]Alice[/name] [name]Violet[/name] is a wonderful combo.
[name]Agnes[/name] nn [name]Aggie[/name]: Like [name]Maggie[/name], has an S ending. [name]Agnes[/name] [name]Violet[/name].
[name]Eden[/name] nn [name]Edie[/name]. [name]Edie[/name] would suit your nickname style
[name]Edith[/name] nn [name]Edie[/name]. See above. [name]Just[/name] [name]Edie[/name] would really be fine too, nickname names are frankly not my style so I never think to recommend them, but it would work.
[name]Eleni[/name] nn [name]Leni[/name] ([name]Ellie[/name]): Gets the [name]El[/name] sound but gets you a less popular nickname. [name]Eleni[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]? [name]Eleni[/name] [name]Hazel[/name]?
[name]Eve[/name]. Means life. nn [name]Evie[/name] is a little close to your style.
[name]Harriet[/name] nn [name]Hattie[/name]: just to give you something else to work with. [name]Harriet[/name] doesn’t go great with any of your middles, maybe [name]Beatrice[/name] is OK ([name]Hattie[/name] [name]Bea[/name]!)
[name]Hazel[/name] nn [name]Hattie[/name]: just to give you something else to work with. [name]Hazel[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]. [name]Love[/name] the Z and X together.
[name]Helen[/name] nn [name]Nellie[/name]: like [name]Ellie[/name] just less popular. [name]Helen[/name] [name]Violet[/name].
[name]Iris[/name]: flower with an S ending. Means rainbow. [name]Iris[/name] doesn’t go great with any of your middles though.
[name]Nellie[/name]: Like [name]Ellie[/name], just less popular. [name]Nellie[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name].
[name]Millie[/name]: kind of merges [name]Ellie[/name] and [name]Maggie[/name]. [name]Millie[/name] [name]Violet[/name].
[name]Phoebe[/name]: E ending, not too popular currently. [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Violet[/name].
[name]Zoe[/name]: means life, e ending. I know it’s popular though. [name]Zoe[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name].

Any getting close? Best wishes!

esswei - [name]Tillie[/name] was on our original list and I’d forgotten about it! I don’t like [name]Ruthie[/name] much but it did make me think of [name]Ruby[/name]. I wonder how popular that is?!

davisellu - that is a great list, I believe we had [name]Elsie[/name] on our list too, its time to revisit that one and I [name]LOVE[/name] [name]Esme[/name], I hadn’t thought of that type of sound at all

jesba - you hit the nail on the head mentioning the M connection between [name]Maggie[/name] and [name]Milo[/name], I originally said no to it just for that reason but it was one of the only ones my hubby and I could agree on. I do like [name]Edie[/name] and [name]Evie[/name] and [name]Millie[/name] (but that takes us back to M’s)

DH won’t go for [name]Phoebe[/name], I think it fits though!

Thanks so much for your help, I have some new choices. Keep em coming!

Yeah, I’m realizing now of course that [name]Millie[/name] and [name]Milo[/name] are even much closer than [name]Milo[/name] and [name]Maggie[/name]! My mistake! I think I was thinking [name]Tillie[/name] and typed [name]Millie[/name] : D!

[name]Glad[/name] you like [name]Phoebe[/name]! Shame it’s a no.

I think [name]Milo[/name] and [name]Maggie[/name] really would be fine by the way. Avoiding a shared first initial I think is good if a name is not a top contender anyway, but then if your very, very, very top candidate is that name, well, there you have it. : D.

the bee at the end of [name]Phoebe[/name] and [name]Ruby[/name] is making me think of [name]Libby[/name]…[name]Elizabeth[/name] is probably too popular though? Hmm. Certainly [name]Abigail[/name] for [name]Abby[/name].

[name]Ruby[/name] is currently ranked 106, though I do think it’d be a great fit.

[name]How[/name] about [name]Ivy[/name] as someone else mentioned? It’s at 187, so slightly less popular.

[name]Laurel[/name], [name]Sylvie[/name], [name]Dorothy[/name]/[name]Dottie[/name], [name]Summer[/name], [name]Autumn[/name], [name]Joelle[/name], [name]Noelle[/name]

[name]Hadley[/name] nn [name]Hattie[/name] maybe?! :slight_smile:

I like [name]Esme[/name]… I think it will go well with [name]Milo[/name] and [name]Sasha[/name].

What about [name]Maisie[/name]… it it also a diminutive of [name]Margaret[/name] and has the ‘m’ and ‘s’ in it

Some ideas would be:
[name]Liv[/name]
[name]Angie[/name]
[name]Esther[/name]
[name]Bea[/name]
[name]Hettie[/name]/ [name]Hetty[/name]/ [name]Ettie[/name]
[name]Christine[/name]
[name]Poppy[/name]
[name]Harrietta[/name]
[name]Scarlett[/name]
[name]Lettie[/name]/ [name]Letty[/name]
[name]Bessie[/name]
[name]Jessie[/name]
[name]Melly[/name]
[name]Enid[/name]
[name]Astrid[/name]
[name]Estelle[/name]
[name]Daisy[/name]
[name]Daphne[/name]
[name]Dolly[/name]
[name]Polly[/name]
[name]Ollie[/name]
[name]Olive[/name]/ [name]Olivia[/name]
[name]Billie[/name]
[name]Sally[/name]
[name]Annie[/name]
[name]Audrey[/name]
[name]Minnie[/name]
[name]Dorothy[/name]
[name]Ethel[/name]
[name]Ida[/name]
[name]Judy[/name]
[name]Pauline[/name]
[name]Susy[/name]
[name]Joan[/name]
[name]Ernestine[/name]
[name]Adamina[/name]
[name]Joy[/name]
[name]Joyce[/name]

[name]Elizabeth[/name] and [name]Grace[/name] always work as middles. [name]Joy[/name] and [name]Roberta[/name] are alternatives though.

[name]Agnes[/name], nickname [name]Aggie[/name] is a really good alternative to [name]Maggie[/name]. [name]Maggie[/name] goes really well with [name]Sasha[/name] and [name]Milo[/name], but because you don’t like the M, I suggest [name]Agnes[/name]!
[name]Ruthie[/name] is really cute. [name]Ruth[/name] by itself isn’t as fun and doesn’t really go well with the other two names, in my opinion, but [name]Ruthie[/name] does. [name]Ruby[/name] goes well too!
[name]Avis[/name] is really cute with [name]Sasha[/name] and [name]Milo[/name].
I also like [name]Olive[/name], nickname [name]Ollie[/name] with them! Super cute.
[name]Poppy[/name] is adorable!
[name]Zoe[/name]/y would be cute too.
And if you like [name]Millie[/name], but don’t want another M, how about [name]Tillie[/name]?
[name]Do[/name] you like [name]Julie[/name]? Or [name]Jubilee[/name]? They’re both equally youthful, just one is more tame!
[name]Nessa[/name] or [name]Nell[/name]/ie?
[name]Dot[/name]/tie? [name]Kay[/name]?

My favorites are in bold:
[name]Agnes[/name] “[name]Aggie[/name]” [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Ruthie[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Ruby[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Avis[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Olive[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Poppy[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Zoe[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name] / [name]Zoey[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Tillie[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Julie[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Jubilee[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Nessa[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Nellie[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Dot[/name] “[name]Dottie[/name]” [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Kay[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]

[name]Harriet[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Hattie[/name] [name]Violet[/name]
[name]Poppy[/name] [name]Hazel[/name]
[name]Esme[/name] [name]Hazel[/name]
[name]Annabelle[/name] [name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Rosalie[/name] [name]Hazel[/name]
[name]Rosamund[/name] [name]Violet[/name]
[name]Lilac[/name] [name]Beatrix[/name]

[name]Hope[/name] this helped a little.

[name]Sasha[/name], [name]Milo[/name] and -
[name]Daphne[/name]
[name]Eve[/name]
[name]Helen[/name] ([name]Helen[/name] [name]Violet[/name])
[name]Therese[/name]
[name]Erin[/name]
[name]Faith[/name]
[name]Temperance[/name]
[name]Trilby[/name]
[name]Chloe[/name]
[name]Ariel[/name]
[name]Bess[/name]
[name]Brynn[/name]
[name]Bronwyn[/name]
[name]Bryony[/name]
Devony
[name]Jillian[/name]
[name]Gillian[/name]
[name]June[/name]
[name]Laurel[/name]
[name]Natalie[/name]
[name]Robin[/name]
[name]Rowan[/name]
[name]Rosalie[/name]
[name]Rose[/name]
[name]Darcy[/name]
[name]Elise[/name]
[name]Belle[/name]
[name]Tamsin[/name]
[name]Ariel[/name]

I also love suggestion of [name]Ruby[/name]! From your list, I love [name]Beatrice[/name]!

I am going to run through these with my husband and see if he likes any today. I have so many new options now!

Someone said [name]Scarlett[/name]… our dogs are [name]Scarlett[/name] and [name]Bodhi[/name]! hehe

I do love [name]Poppy[/name], I’m not sure he’ll go for it. Maybe he just has a problem with P names??

Thanks! I’ll report back later!

I quite like how [name]Beatrix[/name] sounds and looks as a middle, esp with [name]Tillie[/name] and [name]Nellie[/name], one fun name and one more serious and refined. Thanks for typing that out so I could see!

I love [name]Ruby[/name]! I wanted to use it, it is so bright and romantic and playful. My DH nixed that one sadly. I don’t think it is too popular. I think a lot of people would love the name but not many people are brave enough to go for it.

I also love the suggestion of [name]Eleni[/name] to get to [name]Leni[/name], [name]Ellie[/name], or [name]Elle[/name].
A couple other suggestions I liked were [name]Ivy[/name] (Is [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Violet[/name] too V-heavy?) & [name]Brynn[/name].

I love your middle name choices! [name]Don[/name]'t you dare give up pretty gems like [name]Hazel[/name] & [name]Violet[/name] for dusty filler names like [name]Elizabeth[/name] and [name]Grace[/name].

[name]Leonie[/name]
[name]Xanthe[/name]
[name]Winnie[/name]
[name]Wynne[/name]
[name]Eve[/name]
[name]Anne[/name] or [name]Annie[/name]
[name]Adrienne[/name]
[name]Poppy[/name]
[name]Pearl[/name]
[name]Adele[/name]