I'm picky. What would you pair with my daughters' names?

I’m just compiling names and I’m wondering if there is something I’m overlooking. I’m extremely picky. :weary:

[name_f]My[/name_f] dds are [name_f]Maren[/name_f] and [name_f]Lena[/name_f]. What boys name would you pick to complete the set?

I have several girl names I’d use in a heartbeat but… no boy names stick out to me. I’ve been liking [name_m]Ivan[/name_m] lately but DH is not a fan. [name_m]Ivan[/name_m] is a perfect example of the type of name I’m looking for. I also love [name_u]Wade[/name_u], which DH truly hates. :expressionless:

[name_f]My[/name_f] criteria are:

  • nickname proof
    *stands alone (I love [name_m]Ben[/name_m] and [name_m]Dan[/name_m] but everyone would assume they were [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] and [name_m]Daniel[/name_m]. I don’t like that).
    *one to two syllable
    *easily spelled/pronounced
    *Does not start with M or L
    *has a long history of use
    *Not within the top 1000 only because I’ve already read through them and none of them are “the one”.
    *Also, our last name ends in S which nixes a lot of names I like, such as [name_m]Lewis[/name_m] and [name_m]Silas[/name_m].

[name_f]My[/name_f] husband has similar criteria but he likes names that aren’t “boring”. He likes [name_m]Captain[/name_m], [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m], and [name_m]Enoch[/name_m]. His favorite is [name_m]Calvin[/name_m], which fits nicely with my preference for “old man” names but [name_m]Calvin[/name_m] just doesn’t feel like “the one” to me. I like [name_m]Shepard[/name_m] but I don’t like that there are numerous spellings. If there is a choice, I’ll always pick the option with the fewest letters.

Some compromises we can’t fully commit to: [name_m]Job[/name_m], [name_u]Eli[/name_u], and maybe [name_m]Watson[/name_m] (family name). Honestly, I’m looking for something like [name_f]Maren[/name_f] that we haven’t heard before. When we picked it, we loved that we could say “like [name_f]Karen[/name_f] with an M” so I’m open to that sort of thing as long as it is a real name with a history of use.

Hmm…unique, but traditional, nickname-proof names that come to mind:
[name_m]Abner[/name_m]
[name_u]Basil[/name_u]
[name_m]Boaz[/name_m]
[name_m]Bram[/name_m]
[name_m]Emil[/name_m]
[name_u]Gus[/name_u]
[name_u]Hollis[/name_u]
[name_m]Ivan[/name_m]
[name_m]Jago[/name_m]
[name_u]Jules[/name_u]
[name_m]Niles[/name_m]
[name_u]Percy[/name_u]
[name_u]Rafe[/name_u]
[name_u]Roscoe[/name_u]
[name_u]Vaughn[/name_u]
[name_u]Wynn[/name_u]/Winn

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[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Royce[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Ford[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Rhett[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Izar[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Elwood[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Wiley[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Wilder[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Trajan[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Gus[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Cyril[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Colm[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Grant[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_m]Drake[/name_m]

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Might your criteria also include the name having an N in it?

  • Maren and Lena both have an N
  • I noticed that the majority of the names you mentioned liking also have an N in it: Ivan, Ben, Dan, Captain, Enoch, Calvin, and Watson.
  • Your shortlist names suggest a tendancy towards the eh / ehn sound, too (I have this as well!). Ivan, Ben, Captain, Calvin, Watson, Maren…

Suggestions!

  • If you love Ivan and Ben … what about Evan!
  • Less common? There’s Bowen.
  • Don’t like the B? There’s Owen.
  • I love Calvin, personally.
  • Other ‘old man’ names include Walton, Dalton, Winston. Clint, Vernon, Vern, and Glen.
  • Camden comes to mind as well.
  • One syllable options: Niles, Grant, Vaughn, Lance, Wayne, Dwayne, Dean, Dane, Kane, Gene, Vern, Glen, Clint.
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I left out any names that I could think of that appeared in the 2019 SSA popularity lists.

Maren, [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & …

  • A: [name_m]Alon[/name_m], [name_m]Ansel[/name_m], [name_u]Arden[/name_u], [name_u]Aris[/name_u], [name_m]Arlis[/name_m]
  • C: [name_u]Cary[/name_u], [name_m]Conran[/name_m], [name_m]Cyress[/name_m]
  • E: [name_u]Elim[/name_u], [name_m]Emrys[/name_m]
  • F: [name_f]Firth[/name_f]
  • G: [name_m]Gethin[/name_m]
  • K: [name_m]Konrad[/name_m], [name_m]Koray[/name_m]
  • M: Mycroft
  • O: [name_m]Olaf[/name_m], [name_m]Olof[/name_m], [name_m]Oluf[/name_m], [name_m]Omri[/name_m], [name_m]Omry[/name_m], [name_m]Oren[/name_m], [name_m]Oskar[/name_m], [name_m]Otso[/name_m]
  • P: [name_m]Pietro[/name_m]
  • R: [name_u]Rigel[/name_u], [name_u]Risa[/name_u], Rufio, [name_m]Rupert[/name_m]
  • S: Sewall, [name_m]Sewell[/name_m]
  • T: [name_u]Taran[/name_u], [name_m]Thoreau[/name_m], [name_m]Toren[/name_m]
  • Z: [name_m]Zale[/name_m]
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Hmm…

You’ve had a few suggestions so count any repeats as me being in agreement with the berries!

Maren, [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Willis[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Abel[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Cormac[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Dante[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Boaz[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Eben[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Oscar[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Rhett[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_u]Roscoe[/name_u]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Clyde[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_u]Flynn[/name_u]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Evander[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_u]Nico[/name_u]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Archie[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Henrik[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Vance[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_u]Rudy[/name_u]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Judah[/name_m]

You’re on to me. :joy: I thought about saying, I’d love if it had A,E, and N in it but then I said “no, that’s too much”. I do love the N sound. I love softer names.

You mentioned a lot of my likes. I’m going to mull over some of these. Thank you!

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I’ve been thinking about [name_u]Cary[/name_u], [name_u]Elim[/name_u], and [name_m]Oren[/name_m]. You’ve given lots of others to think over too. Thank you!

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I love [name_m]Abel[/name_m] but DH has said no. I suggested [name_m]Eben[/name_m] to him last night and he said he didn’t like it. I think he’s just as picky as I am. I like most of the names you’ve suggested but, don’t LOVE them. I do think these are all in the right direction though.

Assuming your in the US, if you’re looking for names outside of the US top 1000 have a look at the UK top 1000, often there are names here that are quite popular but barely heard in the states! xx

some examples -
[name_m]Chester[/name_m]
[name_m]Casper[/name_m]
[name_u]Freddie[/name_u]
[name_u]Alfie[/name_u]
[name_m]Albie[/name_m]

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Anton
[name_m]Carsten[/name_m]
[name_u]Brogan[/name_u]
[name_m]Torsten[/name_m]
[name_m]Bram[/name_m]
[name_m]Stellan[/name_m]
[name_m]Duncan[/name_m]
[name_u]Tiernan[/name_u]
[name_m]Casper[/name_m]
[name_m]Torben[/name_m]
[name_m]Alban[/name_m]
[name_u]Wynn[/name_u]
[name_m]Andon[/name_m]
[name_m]Espen[/name_m]
[name_m]Cormac[/name_m]
[name_m]Conan[/name_m]
[name_m]Silvan[/name_m]
[name_m]Torin[/name_m]
[name_m]Piran[/name_m]

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I love your daughter’s names! What about…
[name_u]Adler[/name_u]
[name_u]Sidney[/name_u]
[name_m]Decker[/name_m]
[name_u]Cade[/name_u]
[name_m]Edmund[/name_m]
[name_u]Beck[/name_u]
[name_u]Grey[/name_u]
[name_m]Truman[/name_m]
[name_m]Ross[/name_m]
[name_m]Oren[/name_m]

A bunch of these are surname names, so I’m not sure how much use they have as first names, but I hope this helps!

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I really like [name_m]Ross[/name_m], [name_u]Adler[/name_u], and [name_m]Edmund[/name_m]! Unfortunately, DH can’t get over Friends and doesn’t like [name_m]Ed[/name_m] names. :expressionless: I think I suggested [name_u]Adler[/name_u] and he wasn’t too keen. I think he said “I thought you said ladder?” :expressionless:

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DH says he might go for [name_m]Ronan[/name_m]. I put a post about this on the Boys Name page.

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Have you thought of [name_u]Asa[/name_u] or [name_u]Amos[/name_u] as alternatives for [name_m]Abel[/name_m]?

Good luck

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I love [name_f]Maren[/name_f] & [name_f]Lena[/name_f] together! I love [name_m]Ivan[/name_m] with your girls it’s such a shame it’s been vetoed.

Girls:

Ada
[name_f]Eve[/name_f] (my name so I’m biased) or [name_f]Eva[/name_f]
[name_f]Greta[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Britta[/name_f]
[name_f]Anouk[/name_f]
[name_f]Fleur[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_f]Petra[/name_f]
[name_f]Cara[/name_f]
[name_f]Delta[/name_f]
[name_f]Esme[/name_f]
[name_f]Frida[/name_f]

Boys:

Torin or [name_u]Corin[/name_u]
[name_m]Ralph[/name_m]
[name_m]Otto[/name_m]
[name_u]Owen[/name_u]
[name_m]Ansel[/name_m]
[name_u]Axel[/name_u]
[name_m]Koen[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_u]Sander[/name_u]
[name_m]Emil[/name_m]

I feel like I can probably think of more so if i do I’ll let you know!

My faves for you are:
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_f]Greta[/name_f]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_f]Anouk[/name_f]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_f]Fleur[/name_f]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Torin[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Otto[/name_m]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_u]Axel[/name_u]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] & [name_m]Koen[/name_m]

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