In between?

So we have a problem!

I like more unique names and he prefers more basic

These are my favorite girl names: [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f], [name_f]Noa[/name_f], [name_f]Wren[/name_f]
These are his favorite girl names: [name_f]Ava[/name_f], [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], [name_m]Morgan[/name_m]
These are the girl names we agree on: [name_f]Hope[/name_f], [name_f]Sarai[/name_f], [name_f]Eden[/name_f], and [name_m]Asa[/name_m]

[name_m]Boy[/name_m] names I like: [name_m]Asa[/name_m], [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m], [name_m]August[/name_m], [name_m]Leo[/name_m], [name_m]Jude[/name_m]
[name_m]Boy[/name_m] names he likes: [name_m]Jordan[/name_m] and [name_m]Jaylen[/name_m]
[name_m]Boy[/name_m] names we agree on: [name_m]Miles[/name_m], [name_m]Levi[/name_m], and [name_m]Jonah[/name_m]

[name_f]Do[/name_f] y’all have suggestions that both of us would like?

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Maybe a compromise of nicknames? A mor unusual full name with a familiar nickname or vice verse?

Like…
[name_f]Evolet[/name_f] nn [name_f]Eve[/name_f]
[name_f]Elowen[/name_f] nn [name_f]Ellie[/name_f] or [name_f]Lola[/name_f]
[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] nn Libby/ [name_f]Zibby[/name_f] etc (there’s a lot of fun nicknames for Elizabeth)
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] nn [name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Marigold[/name_f] nn [name_f]Mary[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f] nn [name_f]Maggie[/name_f]
[name_f]Arabella[/name_f] nn [name_f]Bella[/name_f]

[name_m]Alexander[/name_m] nn [name_m]Lex[/name_m]
[name_m]Sullivan[/name_m] nn [name_m]Sully[/name_m]

Maybe…
[name_f]Avalon[/name_f] (could be nickname Ava)
[name_f]Selah[/name_f]
[name_f]Arden[/name_f]
[name_f]Arwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Livia[/name_f]
[name_f]Vera[/name_f]
[name_f]Megara[/name_f]
[name_f]Simone[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Zinnia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lula[/name_f]
[name_f]Azalea[/name_f]
[name_f]Larkin[/name_f]
[name_f]Nola[/name_f]
[name_f]April[/name_f]
[name_m]Robin[/name_m]
[name_f]Ebba[/name_f]
[name_f]Maia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lola[/name_f]
[name_f]Briar[/name_f]
[name_f]Romy[/name_f]
[name_f]Aspen[/name_f]
[name_f]Autumn[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]

[name_m]Judah[/name_m]
[name_m]Silas[/name_m]
[name_m]Jadon[/name_m]
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Cyrus[/name_m]
[name_m]Jesse[/name_m]
[name_m]Ace[/name_m] (could use as a nickname for Asa)
[name_m]Eben[/name_m]
[name_m]Jason[/name_m]
[name_m]Gio[/name_m]
[name_m]Everett[/name_m]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]
[name_m]Gideon[/name_m]
[name_m]Amias[/name_m]
[name_m]Caleb[/name_m]
[name_m]Theo[/name_m]
[name_m]Max[/name_m]

Some names that come to mind, sorry for any repeats :blush:

[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]
[name_m]Flynn[/name_m]
[name_m]Otis[/name_m]
[name_m]Nico[/name_m]
[name_m]Colton[/name_m]
[name_m]Emmett[/name_m]
[name_m]Lysander[/name_m]
[name_m]Kai[/name_m]
[name_m]Tyson[/name_m]
[name_m]Lachlan[/name_m]
[name_m]Xander[/name_m]
[name_m]Gray[/name_m]
[name_m]Atlas[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m]
[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]
[name_m]Asher[/name_m]
[name_m]Reuben[/name_m]
[name_m]Shane[/name_m]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]
[name_m]Connor[/name_m]
[name_m]Mitchell[/name_m]
[name_m]Colby[/name_m]
[name_m]Seth[/name_m]
[name_m]Joshua[/name_m]
[name_m]Declan[/name_m]

[name_f]Eliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Aurora[/name_f]
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f]
[name_f]Shelby[/name_f]
[name_f]Emilia[/name_f]
[name_f]Kaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Piper[/name_f]
[name_f]Johanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Zelda[/name_f]
[name_f]Viviana[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f]
[name_f]Ottilie[/name_f]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f]
[name_f]Jenna[/name_f]
[name_f]Cassidy[/name_f]
[name_f]Tessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_m]Winslow[/name_m]
[name_f]Tallulah[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f]
[name_f]Seraphina[/name_f]
[name_f]Harper[/name_f]
[name_f]Everly[/name_f]
[name_f]Tia[/name_f]

If you like [name_m]Miles[/name_m] for a boy, maybe [name_f]Miley[/name_f] for a girl nn “Smiley”. [name_m]Levi[/name_m] is cute too!

Maybe…

[name_f]Shay[/name_f] / [name_f]Shae[/name_f]
[name_f]Briar[/name_f]
[name_f]Zadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Alba[/name_f]
[name_f]Haven[/name_f]
[name_f]Teagan[/name_f]
[name_f]Nola[/name_f]
[name_f]Marlowe[/name_f]
[name_f]Willa[/name_f]
[name_f]Romy[/name_f]
[name_f]Libby[/name_f]
[name_f]Elsie[/name_f]
[name_m]Ever[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m]
[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]
[name_f]Seren[/name_f]
[name_f]Cleo[/name_f]
[name_f]Ember[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamar[/name_f]
[name_f]Kaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Keziah[/name_f]
[name_f]Meredith[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_m]Cody[/name_m]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]
[name_f]Hallie[/name_f]
[name_f]Avis[/name_f]
[name_f]Jada[/name_f]
[name_f]Faith[/name_f]
[name_f]Saffron[/name_f]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f]
[name_f]Jocelyn[/name_f]

[name_m]Josiah[/name_m]
[name_m]Jem[/name_m]
[name_m]Tristan[/name_m]
[name_m]Toby[/name_m] / [name_m]Tobias[/name_m]
[name_m]Raffy[/name_m]
[name_m]Caleb[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_m]Dexter[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Declan[/name_m]
[name_m]Joel[/name_m]
[name_m]Alec[/name_m]
[name_m]Tate[/name_m]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_m]Russell[/name_m]
[name_m]Leon[/name_m]
[name_m]Orion[/name_m]
[name_m]Gabe[/name_m] / [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m]
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]
[name_m]Quinlan[/name_m]

A lot of your common names seem to be drawn from sweetly modern (semi-unusual) Bible names, or names at least associated with the [name_m]Christian[/name_m] faith. [name_f]Do[/name_f] any of these appeal?

Girls:

[name_f]Selah[/name_f]
[name_f]Mercy[/name_f]
[name_f]Judith[/name_f]
[name_f]Eve[/name_f]
[name_f]Noemi[/name_f]
[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f]
[name_f]Maris[/name_f]
Lydia/Lydian
[name_f]Evodie[/name_f] (French variant on the name of a woman mentioned in one of Paul’s letters… [name_f]Euodia[/name_f] is a bit hard to wrap one’s mind around these days, I think, but I think [name_f]Evodie[/name_f] is so sweet!)
Lily/Liliosa
[name_f]Esther[/name_f]
[name_f]Olivet[/name_f]
Galilee/Galilea
[name_f]Magdalen[/name_f]
[name_f]Bethany[/name_f]
Ariela/Ariel
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f]
Betania
Eliora/Liora
Kezia(h)
[name_f]Cherith[/name_f]
[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] (love this with the nn Havi!)
[name_f]Tirzah[/name_f] (big, big fan of this name - it means “favorable”)
[name_f]Thessaly[/name_f] (I think Tess/Tessa is such a sweet nn for this! [name_m]Or[/name_m] just Tess/Tessa is lovely, too!)
[name_f]Zipporah[/name_f]
[name_f]Hadassah[/name_f]
[name_f]Hosanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Magali[/name_f]
[name_f]Iona[/name_f]
[name_f]Odelia[/name_f]
Arimathea (probably in GP territory but I love it lol)
[name_f]Maranatha[/name_f] (love this, feels like [name_f]Mara[/name_f] meets Samantha)
[name_f]Petra[/name_f]
[name_f]Oona[/name_f]

Boys:
[name_m]Amias[/name_m]
Judah/Jude
[name_m]Theo[/name_m]
[name_m]Boaz[/name_m]
[name_m]Micah[/name_m]
[name_f]Aquila[/name_f]
[name_m]Antony[/name_m]
[name_m]Reuben[/name_m]
[name_m]Asa[/name_m]
Gabriel/Gable/Gale
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Zebulun[/name_m]
[name_m]Drake[/name_m]
[name_m]Cyrus[/name_m]
[name_m]Finley[/name_m]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_m]Caspar[/name_m]

Good luck!

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I think there is some room to play around here

[name_f]Ava[/name_f] + [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] - [name_f]Avonlea[/name_f] , [name_f]Avalon[/name_f], [name_f]Aviva[/name_f]
[name_m]Morgan[/name_m] + [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] - [name_f]Molly[/name_f] , [name_f]Morgana[/name_f] , [name_f]Oliana[/name_f]
[name_m]Morgan[/name_m] + [name_f]Wren[/name_f] - [name_f]Maureen[/name_f]

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Fortunately, the ones you agree on are great names–really solid, likeable, mostly classic names. You have a great pool to choose from already.

But I love making lists! So here are some perhaps you both will like:

[name_m]Cyrus[/name_m]
[name_m]Elliot[/name_m]
[name_m]Gabriel[/name_m]
[name_m]Hayes[/name_m]
[name_m]Judah[/name_m]
[name_m]Liam[/name_m]
[name_m]Luke[/name_m]
[name_m]Seth[/name_m]
[name_m]Tristen[/name_m]
[name_m]Zechariah[/name_m]

[name_m]Austen[/name_m]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_m]Elliott[/name_m]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Judith[/name_f]
[name_f]Lea[/name_f]
[name_f]Lillian[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Samara[/name_f]
[name_f]Vivian[/name_f]

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[name_f]My[/name_f] picks from names you agree on would be [name_f]Eden[/name_f] and [name_m]Miles[/name_m].

These might work for both you:

Girls (Here’s some names that sound old fashioned and new at the same time. None are very common.)

  1. [name_f]Viola[/name_f]
  2. [name_f]Starla[/name_f]
  3. [name_f]Avery[/name_f]
  4. [name_f]Opal[/name_f]
  5. [name_f]Sierra[/name_f]

Boys (He likes J names and you like non-standard names, so here’s some less common J names.)

  1. [name_m]Jory[/name_m]
  2. [name_m]Jubal[/name_m]
  3. [name_m]Julian[/name_m]
  4. [name_m]Jules[/name_m]
  5. [name_m]Jasper[/name_m]

I’m seeing some overlap with the names you both like. There’s definitely hope here! I did notice the Biblical theme, but I’m looking at sounds over origin.

Ava + Noa - both short, two-syllable names ending in A.
Vita,
Viva,
Eva,
Koa (for a boy)
Avila (emphasis on the first A, like in the word Avalon)

Shiloh + Olivia - strong on Os and Is.

Shoshanna,
Milo (for a boy, and it’s like Miles!)
Shyla
Lyla
Lilo (Lee-low)
Viola / Violet

Morgan + Wren - ending in the “-en” sound

Merryn (mare like a horse + in)
Lauren
Soren (for a boy)

He likes Ava and you like Asa. These are very similar. I see Asa on the “both like” list. That might be a winner - for either sex, perhaps.

Jordan is really similar to Morgan. He likes those sounds. So, Lauren or Soren are looking stronger now. You could use Wren as a nickname for either one.

Jonah from the “both like” boys list does the best job of bringing together the strong O sound and A ending you both favor, plus it starts with the J he likes from Jordan and Jaylen, and it has the same sounds as Noa from your list.

Asa
Jonah

Lauren nn Wren
Soren nn Wren

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