Thanks for the input so far everyone!
OK let’s go a little deeper here.
We both really like [name_m]Osiris[/name_m]. It has the right sound and feel and intensity that keeps up with Azula & [name_f]Indira[/name_f]. [name_m]Even[/name_m] though he is a major deity I dont find it to be overly intense. Am I crazy? Keep in mind… we did name our daughter Azula (which we heard in a Nickelodeon cartoon when we were dating, that was from what I’ve read, made up for the TV show and which we haven’t heard anywhere else) so our style is definitely eccentric. I have vetoed [name_m]Odin[/name_m], [name_m]Thor[/name_m] and [name_m]Apollo[/name_m] which my husband LOVES but which are omg just way too much. He also likes [name_u]Mercury[/name_u] as a FN but I like it more as a middle. He also likes Ender and [name_u]Rohan[/name_u] as first names but I’M not crazy about those two. I honestly think that of all the names he is OK with, [name_m]Osiris[/name_m] is our best choice. We are pretty set on it, it took a while for us to agree, but we are both happy with it.
I really like nature names and my husband really loves honour names. We got lucky with our daughters middles since they pull double -duty, [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] honoring [name_f]Rose[/name_f]/[name_f]Mary[/name_f] & [name_f]Coral[/name_f] honoring [name_u]Corey[/name_u]/[name_f]Cornelia[/name_f]/[name_m]Cornelis[/name_m].
The people we would like to honour are special family members. My guy really wants to use [name_u]James[/name_u] which is for sure my least favourite of the lot but I’ll go along with it because it is important to him.
DH doesn’t love [name_m]Peregrine[/name_m]. But I think that because I’m letting him use [name_u]James[/name_u] (Argh) that I can get my pippin in there if I want to!
We both really like [name_u]Mercury[/name_u]. More for the planet & element than for the god (it feels SO naturey) but I like the fleet footed meaning because this guy has been very active in the womb and I felt movement really early. I guess maybe two god names is a bit overkill but since they are from different mythos do you think that balances it out? Or that Mercury also means a planet and an element, does that take some of the Mythological Intensity out?
We like [name_m]Fox[/name_m]. I think it’s sexy and cool and maybe it’s too trendy? But it’s a nod to my husband’s totally endearing obsession with aliens, with the x files connection.
I don’t think [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] is perfect anymore (it used to be our #1 FN until my brother named his baby Alex) but I threw it in the mix fir the sake of the poll.
And my husband loves [name_u]Rohan[/name_u] (LOTR love), and likes [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], and for some reason dislikes [name_u]Rowan[/name_u]. I have no idea. I guess they are alright paired with [name_u]James[/name_u] though because the initials then would honour another family member. I don’t usually love any ends-in-n names with our last name but I don’t have a problem with them hiding in the middle.
He’s nixed lots of my nature names - Jade, Oak, Cedar, Crane, Mars, Orion, Jasper, Heath, Heathcliff, Moss, Sage, Caspian, Jupiter
And lots of my firsts - Evander, Ozias, Darwin, Crusoe, Orson, Rudyard
Both our kids already have mythology / goddess related names - Rosemary being connected to the mother of Christ (said to have laid her robe on a white-flowering rosemary shrub and after that the flowers were blue) and Indira being another name for the goddess Lakshmi. Our choice for a girl this time would have been Freyja Moon (as in, the major Norse goddess). And DH’s runner up was Athena (which I liked too but ultimately decided was too similar to Azula). Not that I’m obsessed with using god names exactly, but it’s fun for us to have those extra connections between the kids, and a throwback to our love of mythology.
EDITED TO ADD:
Osiris is the god of the dead, yes, but when you read more into his character he is more the god of life beyond death, he is the god of new beginnings and rebirth and springtime. He is one with the spirit, and with the Nile (the life source of Egypt), he died and was resurrected. He’s usually depicted as an all-seeing eye, or as a green or skinned person - not as a dog person like some pp’s have mentioned, they are confusing him with Anubis, the god of the underworld. Osiris is kinda perfect for an Easter baby in my opinion, although I agree it is probably edgier than most people are comfortable with. I honestly just don’t get why names like Freyja, Phaedra, Athena, Helen, Hera, Juno, Penelope, Selene, Atlas, Finn, Jason, Hector are all considered acceptable but other mythological names that are used less often are too much. I kind of understand in some regards, I vetoed Apollo for being too center-of-the-universe and axed Thor and Odin for being too pop-culture recognizable at the moment. I’d totally consider Artemis &, Venus if not for other asspciations with those names. I dont think I’d use Zeus or anything for the same reasons as Apollo but otherwise its just weird to me that socially we have picked and chosen what names are ok and what are ‘over the top’.
Our surname starts with a silent H. Hn____k. 3 syllables.
Any more input or suggestions?