I’m having a slight crisis. My DH and I have chosen a name for our boy (with some of your help ) but I’m trying to convince myself again its the right choice. Here’s the dilemma:
Chosen name is [name]Jude[/name] [name]Alexander[/name]. The reasons I love it are that I simply love the name [name]Jude[/name]. I love that although [name]Jude[/name] has no nn, [name]Alexander[/name] has tons. I love that his initials are [name]JAC[/name], and that’s another nn that we could use if we wanted. I also think that this goes really well with [name]Arabella[/name] [name]Nicole[/name] (my 1 year old).
The name I’m rethinking is [name]Asher[/name] [name]Monroe[/name]. Although I love the name [name]Jude[/name], I am more in love with [name]Asher[/name]. The problems that made us not choose this name include we prefered the combo of [name]Jude[/name] [name]Alexander[/name] more, our parents seem to be very excited about [name]Jude[/name] over [name]Asher[/name], and my DH won’t consider another middle name with [name]Asher[/name] (which I thought would solve the problem).
[name]Even[/name] when I did a poll, [name]Jude[/name] [name]Alexander[/name] won out, so it just seems like the natural choice. I just think I’m having those pangs of naming remorse that I will probably never get to use [name]Asher[/name] as this may very well be our last kiddo. So, I think what I need more than anything is a little push in one direction, either that [name]Jude[/name] seems to be the right choice and I’m just being crazy or that I should reconsider and fight a bit harder for [name]Asher[/name]. Help Nameberries!