[name]Anne[/name],
Congrats on deciding on [name]Ivy[/name] and [name]Frederick[/name] for two names! I really do like both of them with [name]Sebastian[/name]. I know I said [name]Ivy[/name] has a different feel than [name]Sebastian[/name], but she does make for a good sister for [name]Seb[/name]. And, [name]Frederick[/name] is divine with [name]Sebastian[/name]! Okay, let’s get down to it, shall we?
I think you need something a little more sassy and spunky with [name]Ivy[/name], and [name]Harriet[/name] and [name]Winifred[/name] just don’t do it for me. They are a bit too heavy, I think. I think [name]Georgia[/name] and [name]Ivy[/name] make a lot of sense together, but I personally like [name]Georgiana[/name] more. Would you compromise with [name]Georgina[/name]? That’s a fool-proof pronunciation, and she sounds sassy and elegant - a perfect fit with [name]Sebastian[/name] and [name]Ivy[/name]. Or [name]Frederick[/name]. Whatever. [name]Ivy[/name] and [name]Beatrice[/name] are darling, too! [name]Ah[/name], I can’t decide which I like more, [name]Georgia[/name], [name]Georgiana[/name], [name]Georgina[/name], or [name]Beatrice[/name]. I think [name]Georgiana[/name] [name]Gray[/name] sounds the most glamorous, but I think I’m going with [name]Beatrice[/name] on this one.
Middle names for girls? No, I would not feel compelled to use [name]Bellamy[/name] for [name]Ivy[/name] if she ends up being the only girl. Because both [name]Ivy[/name] and [name]Bellamy[/name] end in that “ee” sound, I wouldn’t feel particularly compelled to use it with [name]Ivy[/name], ever. In fact, should you end up having both boys, I would feel more inclined to use [name]Bellamy[/name] as a middle name for a son - it’s a surname, as you well know, so it would be just as good for a boy. Anyway, let me think about names I like, going back to your family name list:
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] [name]Ophelia[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Annabella[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Flora[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Abigail[/name] [name]Georgia[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Annabel[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] [name]Flora[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Georgiana[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Abigail[/name] [name]Georgia[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Georgia[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
(I would use [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] and [name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Abigail[/name] [name]Georgia[/name] together OR [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Annabella[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] and [name]Beatrice[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Georgia[/name] together for girls!)
[name]Just[/name] for kicks, I’ll throw in some [name]Georgia[/name] and [name]Georgiana[/name] combos:
[name]Georgia[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Georgia[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Georgia[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] [name]Florence[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Georgiana[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Georgiana[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Georgiana[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
(I would use [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] and [name]Georgia[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Pearl[/name] or [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] [name]Ophelia[/name] and [name]Georgiana[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Agnes[/name] [name]Gray[/name].)
As for boys, I think [name]Theodore[/name] is far and away the best sibling to [name]Frederick[/name] and [name]Sebastian[/name]. [name]Seb[/name], [name]Freddie[/name], and [name]Theo[/name] are perfect! You cannot call him [name]Teddy[/name], though, but that’s good because [name]Teddy[/name] [name]Gray[/name] sounds like a type of teddy bear. I’m in love with [name]Theo[/name] [name]Gray[/name], though! [name]Easton[/name] feels much too modern to be a first name, but you could use it as a middle name, for sure. Would you want to stray from your family name, though?
Middle names! [name]Frederick[/name] [name]Eaton[/name] [name]Cooper[/name] [name]Gray[/name] is my favorite, I think. [name]Frederick[/name] [name]Eaton[/name] - or [name]Easton[/name] - flows beautifully! I can’t think of something I like more, so I’ll move on to his brother:
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Henry[/name] [name]Parker[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Henry[/name] [name]Miller[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Carling[/name] [name]Wilfred[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Carling[/name] [name]Eaton[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Carling[/name] [name]Cooper[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Wilfred[/name] [name]Parker[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Theodore[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Wilson[/name] [name]Gray[/name] - For [name]Wilfred[/name], maybe?
(I’d pair [name]Frederick[/name] [name]Eaton[/name] [name]Cooper[/name] [name]Gray[/name] with [name]Theodore[/name] [name]Henry[/name] [name]Miller[/name] [name]Gray[/name], I think, or perhaps [name]Theodore[/name] [name]Wilfred[/name] [name]Parker[/name] [name]Gray[/name]. Yes, those are my favorites!)
For kicks, I’ll pick my second-favorite brother for [name]Frederick[/name], [name]Nathaniel[/name]:
[name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Bellamy[/name] [name]Parker[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Wilfred[/name] [name]Parker[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Henry[/name] [name]Miller[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
[name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Carling[/name] [name]Miller[/name] [name]Gray[/name]
(I’d put [name]Frederick[/name] [name]Eaton[/name] [name]Cooper[/name] with [name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Carling[/name] [name]Wilfred[/name].)
And, for boy-girl twins, I’d pick [name]Frederick[/name] [name]Eaton[/name] [name]Cooper[/name] and [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Caroline[/name] [name]Agnes[/name]!
[name]Lemon[/name]