[name]Silas[/name] and [name]Jonah[/name] are bounding on up the chart, so I’m not sure how truly they’re hard to wear and disliked by people : D. To me they actually both have a clear western vibe so they could fit in with the cowboy names, although the cowboy names are much more surname-y.
[name]Wyatt[/name] came to mind for you guys immediately. [name]Noah[/name] too. Then [name]Nolan[/name]. Then [name]Wesley[/name].
[name]Ingrid[/name] and [name]Ophelia[/name]…rarer, but I don’t think of them old and hard to wear. [name]Ophelia[/name] maybe a little bit because it’s tragic, but I do think it’s very beautiful. I’ve always preferred [name]Odelia[/name]. [name]Penelope[/name] and [name]Ophelia[/name] have a similar feel to me, you guys maybe could find common ground. [name]How[/name] do you both feel about [name]Persephone[/name]?
I went to nymbler and tried [name]Silas[/name], [name]Jonah[/name], [name]Cooper[/name], [name]Walker[/name], [name]West[/name], and [name]Weston[/name] for boys. Some of the better suggestions and why I think they’re better are:
[name]Asher[/name] - Biblical name that works on a cowboy, sounds surnameish.
[name]Benjamin[/name] - Biblical name that sounds cowboyish with the nn [name]Ben[/name]. Plus if he he likes [name]Penny[/name], maybe he likes [name]Benny[/name].
[name]Colton[/name] - surname-y name with the O from [name]Jonah[/name]
[name]Jude[/name] - Bible-based name that works on a cowboy. Which made me immediately think of [name]Luke[/name].
[name]Levi[/name] - a cowboy name because of the jeans, but also an “old-mannish” Bible name. Because of this, maybe you’d both like [name]Eli[/name]? [name]Elias[/name]? Although that might rule out some [name]Ellie[/name] names for him.
[name]Owen[/name] - takes the O from [name]Jonah[/name] but puts it in a surname-y name.
[name]Wylie[/name] - cowboy name that has some sounds from [name]Silas[/name]
Any of those sticking? There are more but that’s a starting point.
For girls I typed in [name]Penelope[/name], [name]Ellie[/name], [name]Ophelia[/name], and [name]Ingrid[/name]. Suggestions I liked and why included:
[name]Adela[/name] - rare vowel name that has “el” in it.
[name]Antonia[/name] - unpopular like your taste, feels Western because of My [name]Antonia[/name], vowel name and elaborate like [name]Penelope[/name].
[name]Celia[/name] - similar feel to [name]Ophelia[/name], but the nn [name]Celie[/name] is very cowgirl to me.
[name]Hazel[/name] - to me has a similar vibe to [name]Ingrid[/name], has ‘el’ in it and feels like a cowgirl.
[name]Iris[/name] - a vowel name like 3 of them, and it’s old-lady-turned chic like [name]Penelope[/name].
I realize btw that the cowboy thing wasn’t clearly stated for girls (i.e. it’s not clear he likes cowgirl/western girls names. But [name]Penny[/name] and [name]Ellie[/name] fit that mold to me).
Also working across genders [name]Ingrid[/name] makes me think of [name]Ingram[/name], which is a surname that feels cowboyish to me. The nn [name]Ingo[/name] is wonderful [name]IMO[/name]. [name]Ingram[/name] makes me think of [name]Bingham[/name]. [name]Bing[/name] is old man because of [name]Bing[/name] [name]Crosby[/name], and yet zippy and young.
[name]Ingrid[/name] and cowgirl/Western makes me [name]Indigo[/name] and [name]India[/name].
Good luck!