I pondered attaching this to my old thread, so sorry to be a board clutterer, but I decided I had a different question I wanted advice on
More about the third slot middle name.
I polled, Maryweld won. [name]Pam[/name] doesn’t like Maryweld and points out the obvious that [name]Lark[/name] is naturey enough Plus, DH isn’t sold. Since he picked [name]Lark[/name], I get free choice at mns, but still, if there’s one he’s happy with, that’s a good thing, too.
So I’m pondering. First criteria, I want to use a [name]Mary[/name] name. A tradition I would like my daughter to be part of. Second, I had decided on [name]Lark[/name] [name]Juliet[/name] someMaryname, but I’m flexible. Have ruled out [name]Aster[/name] in favor of family traditions/honor- decided that was more important.
Let me add some more history. My father had a twin sister who died at birth; [name]Beth[/name]-[name]Elise[/name] [name]Louise[/name] (a cutesy way of cutting up [name]ELizabeth[/name]). I’ve always wanted to use [name]Beth[/name] to honor her, but DH doesn’t like [name]Beth[/name]. I thought [name]Marybeth[/name] was an okay solution (DH is fine with [name]Beth[/name] in the middle), but I don’t love [name]Marybeth[/name] and something about the flow is off.
Tonight, I realized I had never considered using [name]Elise[/name] or [name]Louise[/name]. I’m not sure why. So, now I am.
In my family, [name]Elise[/name] and [name]Elizabeth[/name] have already been used. [name]Elizabeth[/name] has been used three times. [name]Elise[/name] once and also [name]Elysa[/name]. That’s not to say I couldn’t use them, but maybe there’s something with [name]Louise[/name]? [name]Louise[/name] hasn’t been touched at all.
First- Can [name]Marylouise[/name] be a singular name?
Second- is [name]Lark[/name] [name]Juliet[/name] [name]Marylouise[/name] [name]Jackson[/name] too much? I kind of like the way it rolls of my tongue.
Third, she’s already sort of [name]Lark[/name] [name]Juliet[/name] in my heart, but I could consider dropping [name]Juliet[/name] for [name]Lark[/name] [name]Mary[/name] [name]Louise[/name] if the overwhelming opinion is that’s a better choice.
Would also consider moving [name]Lark[/name] to a middle spot formally, but that’s what we’re calling her, so I’m thinking that’s more headache than it might be worth (that said, we’re also calling her [name]Jules[/name] sometimes)
I realize I might be overthinking all of this (I kinda come here to post when I’m overthinking! :-P). I’m a bit sad she was named [name]Lark[/name] instead of [name]Juliet[/name], because it is hard to consider I might have to give up either the name I love ([name]Juliet[/name]), a tradition I want her to be part of ([name]Mary[/name]) or a family member I REALLY want to honor ([name]Beth[/name] [name]Elise[/name] [name]Louise[/name]). I feel like there’s got to be a way to make it all work…
BUT- I’m not really sad, because she IS [name]Lark[/name], I’m just trying to see if you namegeniuses can find a way for me to fit in everything I want.
Is it possible?
If not, I’m going to go back to the other thread and the great lists of [name]Mary[/name] names you all made for me and pick one of those.