Your daughter’s name is beautiful, and I really love [name_f]May[/name_f] [name_f]Louise[/name_f] and [name_f]Hope[/name_f] [name_f]Elaine[/name_f] together! Some ideas of other names that might bridge the gap between your styles, more old-fashioned twists on some of his favorites:
A bit like [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]: [name_f]Ruby[/name_f], [name_f]Maude[/name_f], [name_f]Ada[/name_f], [name_f]Adele[/name_f], [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], [name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
A bit like [name_f]Laura[/name_f]: [name_f]Clara[/name_f], [name_f]Flora[/name_f], [name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_f]Lenora[/name_f], [name_f]Dorothea[/name_f]
A bit like [name_f]Holly[/name_f]: [name_f]Ivy[/name_f], [name_f]Polly[/name_f], [name_f]Heidi[/name_f], [name_f]Rosie[/name_f]
A bit like [name_f]Ellie[/name_f]: [name_f]Elise[/name_f], [name_f]Anneliese[/name_f], [name_f]Elinor[/name_f], [name_f]Mabel[/name_f], [name_f]Evie[/name_f]
A bit like [name_f]Olivia[/name_f]: [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f], [name_f]Viola[/name_f], [name_f]Cecilia[/name_f], [name_f]Celia[/name_f], [name_f]Bianca[/name_f]
It seems like you have a bit more agreement on your boy names, and I especially like [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] [name_f]Hale[/name_f], [name_m]Bennet[/name_m], [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m], and [name_m]Wright[/name_m] from your list.
(By the way, I notice you seem to find most agreement with names where a one-syllable first is paired with a two-syllable middle, or vice versa, and your husband in particular seems to favour a lot of two-syllable girls’ names. Maybe he would respond well to some suggestions along those lines? I know my husband cared a lot about syllable patterns – especially that our daughters’ multisyllabic first names were paired with one-syllable middles.)
Anyway, a few names to throw out there for your boys’ list:
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Bernard[/name_m]
[name_m]Bertram[/name_m]
[name_m]Cedric[/name_m]
[name_m]Charles[/name_m]
[name_m]Everett[/name_m] / [name_m]Rhett[/name_m]
[name_m]Edmund[/name_m]
[name_m]Fraser[/name_m]
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m]
[name_m]John[/name_m]
[name_m]Nicholas[/name_m]
[name_m]Reid[/name_m]
[name_m]Rupert[/name_m]
[name_m]Worth[/name_m]