[name]Hi[/name] ladies,
I have been a big nameberry reader and follower for ages but i am yet to have posted anything!!
I knew that I would be one day posting a thread though - and relying on all your wonderful opinions to help me out !!!
And so here it is - my dilemma…
I have a 4 year old son named [name]Jackson[/name] [name]Phoenix[/name], and i [name]LOVE[/name] [name]LOVE[/name] [name]LOVE[/name] his name, always have. He is known always as [name]Jackson[/name] (not [name]Jack[/name]) or jackson [name]Phoenix[/name] or JP.
I am now divorced from his father though and am blessed enough to have found a beautiful new partner who i am now having a baby to. (5 weeks to go!!) This is such happy news as i thought after separating from JP’s dad that I would never be able to give him a brother or sister…
But here we are. First dilemma…
We are pretty certain that new bubs name will be [name]Chase[/name].
But I am at a roadblock when it comes to the rest of his name. [name]Jackson[/name] has his fathers surname whilst I have reverted back to my maiden name… and i think i want [name]Chase[/name] to have HIS fathers surname - which is obviously different to Jacksons and then also different to mine… Aughhh - it all sounds so messy.
And yet i want [name]Jackson[/name] and [name]Chase[/name] to be connected as brothers in mane also…
What to do???
The few thoughts that have rushed thru my head are these…
[name]Do[/name] i give [name]Chase[/name] the same middle name as [name]Jackson[/name]?
[name]Do[/name] i give [name]Chase[/name] MY surname as his middle name? Sometimes jackson says his name is [name]Jackson[/name] [name]Phoenix[/name] (my name) his Surname.
[name]Do[/name] i give [name]Chase[/name] his own middle name with a similar vibe to [name]Phoenix[/name] and then put my maiden name as both boys second middle name??
Or do i just give [name]Chase[/name] a middle name of his own and his dads surname?
If so - what middle name do u suggest???
Oh i am soooooo sorry for so many confusing questions… I have needed to get this off my chest for a while and i have felt too embarrassed…
By the way, i am from Australia… (in case that makes a difference to any of your answers…?!)
Thanking u all sooooooo much in advance…
P.S. My maiden name is [name]Kennedy[/name] - thought it may help to know…
[name]Love[/name] [name]Rebecca[/name] x