Love both names- time running out!

We don’t know gender but have been contemplating the same 2 boy names for months now and are no closer to a decision. We have an [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] ([name_m]Eli[/name_m]), a [name_f]Cadence[/name_f], and.a [name_f]Noelle[/name_f]. The mn would be [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] after big brother (b/c he’s 10 years older and also they’d technically be half bros). The names we have in mind are:

[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] - have liked this name for a long time and it’s what we always joked we’d name a son, way before we decided to expand our family. I like that it’s a versatile name that ages well and sounds strong and kind. I just worry that it’s not as interesting as the other kids’ names?

[name_m]Griffin[/name_m]: another I’ve liked for a long time, and like that it is a little more off- beat. One of the meanings I’ve seen, based on the name it was derived from, is red, which has been my fav color since I was like 5. The mythological creature has great traits, too. I also like the association with Gryffindor as we’re all huge, huge fans.

When I think about not using one I feel sad,
So, I love both. My mom said she pictures [name_m]Ben[/name_m] as stronger, like more rugged, and [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] as more slender, not quite as strong. Idk. Please help!

What about [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_m]Ben[/name_m]? That way it’s a win win.

I personally prefer [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] to [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]
If you think [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] is too popular you could use a less common nickname like [name_f]Jin[/name_f], [name_u]Min[/name_u], [name_m]Benjie[/name_m] etc
Would you consider similar [name_m]Benedict[/name_m]?

Both names are really nice and I personally prefer [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] but just a personal choice so I would suggest that you take both names to the hospital and it may become clear when you meet him. [name_f]Do[/name_f] both names sound equally well with his last name?

Last name is Dahlgren, so I’m not sure…to me they both sound ok? I was trying to avoid 2 middles cuz the other kids don’t have 2, everyone just has a family mn. I don’t like [name_m]Benedict[/name_m] as much as [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] although I can see its appeal. For a nn I thought of [name_m]Benji[/name_m] but not sure I’d actually use it [name_m]IRL[/name_m]. I’m gonna post again with a poll. Thanks to you all for your help!

I really love [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]. I’m actually considering it for our boy name but we already have a [name_m]Ben[/name_m] in the family. I think [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] Dahlgren sounds very nice both as a child’s name and as an adult’s name. Also I feel like [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] is a classic name whereas I feel like [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] has a trendy vibe to it.

I personally prefer [name_m]Griffin[/name_m], but I think [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] is perfect with [name_m]Elijah[/name_m].

I absolutely love [name_m]Griffin[/name_m]! To me, [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] is more wild and rugged and [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] sweet, warm and homely. Both really lovely choices.

I prefer griffin.i like how all your names have a winter theme, and although griffin isn’t wintry per se, I like how there’s almost literal ‘fire’ within the name. Or fir at any rate, which [name_u]Douglas[/name_u] fir, Xmas trees,etc…what I’m trying to say is that the imagery that accompanies griffin is more wintery to me than [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]. Plus I think benjamin’s more common. So I vote for [name_m]Griffin[/name_m]. [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_u]Winter[/name_u] would be cool. Or [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] Argyll. [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_u]Frost[/name_u]. [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_u]Douglas[/name_u]. [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_m]Emmanuel[/name_m], etc…good luck!

I honestly like [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] better because it’s a little bit different :slight_smile:

[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] definitely. [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] feels a little harsh to me

Definitely [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]!

I much prefer [name_m]Benjamin[/name_m]!

[name_m]Benjamin[/name_m] is my favourite

I love [name_m]Griffin[/name_m]!

I like [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] best.

I like [name_m]Griffin[/name_m] best with your last name.