when i was pregnant, my husband was totally against some of my favorites at first too, but by the time we were finding out the sex, he had agreed to both my top boy namesā hoping the same happens for you with paloma! 
so glad you enjoyed some of the suggestions. overjoyed that i get to give a little back to you as youāve been so helpful in so many of my posts 
Aww [name_f]Mollie[/name_f], you are so sweet!
[name_f][/name_f]I especially love [name_f]Isannah[/name_f] (although, the unknown meaning has always given me slight pause. I do love this name though!), [name_m]Augustine[/name_m], [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] (Unfortunately, my husband vetoed this one for a boy. What a spectacular boys name though!), [name_f]Idella[/name_f] (Totally new to me!), [name_m]Ivah[/name_m], [name_m]Alcott[/name_m] (LOVE), [name_f]Lunette[/name_f], [name_f]Prairie[/name_f], [name_m]Oakes[/name_m], [name_m]Sorrel[/name_m], [name_f]Sparrow[/name_f], [name_f]Althaea[/name_f], [name_f]Beloved[/name_f] (This is the meaning of my motherās first name, so it could be a sweet honor too 
), [name_m]Abner[/name_m], [name_f]Edelweiss[/name_f] (Youāre the one who made me love this name!), [name_f]Zipporah[/name_f], [name_f]Idalia[/name_f], [name_f]Wildflower[/name_f], [name_f]Kindred[/name_f], [name_f]Maeblythe[/name_f], & [name_f]Valley[/name_f]! [name_m]Augustine[/name_m] [name_f]Sequoia[/name_f] & [name_f]Lunette[/name_f] [name_f]Wildflower[/name_f] are gorgeous by the way!
Thank you for taking the time to come up with all of these wonderful suggestions [name_f][/name_f] @readingreverie
[name_m]Oh[/name_m] my word, thatās so funny! Mine was similar in that he didnāt feel strongly about any of our names & it took him a while to love our sonās name after he was born. Now heās like āS o l o m o n 's[name_f][/name_f] name is the only good boyās name in the whole world. Nothing else compares.ā lol I think heās just the type of person who has to associate it with our child before he loves it (at least with boys names anyway).
[name_f][/name_f]I appreciate you so much dear friend & I look forward to brainstorming ideas for for your future babes
āSpirit of a mountain hymnā is such a poetic (and perfect!) description of your set!
[name_f][/name_f]Combos using ONLY your list:
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Marigold[/name_f] [name_f]Hosanna[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Fern[/name_f] [name_f]Chavalah[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Paloma[/name_f] [name_f]Lavender[/name_f] āPlumā
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Paloma[/name_f] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f] āPlumā
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Fern[/name_f] [name_f]Odelia[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Marigold[/name_f] [name_f]Alethea[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Hadassah[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Hadassah[/name_f] [name_f]Lilac[/name_f]
[name_m]Shepherd[/name_m] [name_m]Amias[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] [name_m]Hawthorn[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Earnest[/name_m] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Shepherd[/name_m] Ozark
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] [name_f]Harvest[/name_f]
Combos including new suggestions:
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Evangeline[/name_f] [name_f]Gaia[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Veda[/name_f] [name_f]Lavender[/name_f] / [name_f]Veda[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Rowena[/name_f] [name_f]Meadow[/name_f] / [name_f]Rowena[/name_f] [name_f]Prairie[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Odessa[/name_f] [name_f]Leonor[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Thalia[/name_f] [name_f]Harvest[/name_f] / [name_f]Thalia[/name_f] [name_f]Evening[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Romilly[/name_f] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Heidi[/name_f] [name_m]Sorrel[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Juniper[/name_f] [name_f]Alethea[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Alma[/name_f] [name_f]Saffron[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Winona[/name_f] [name_f]Harvest[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Elspeth[/name_f] [name_f]Nightingale[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Valley[/name_f] [name_f]Minerva[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Anouk[/name_f] [name_f]Paloma[/name_f] / [name_f]Anouk[/name_f] [name_f]Pollyanna[/name_f]
[name_m]Oren[/name_m] [name_m]Huckleberry[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m] [name_m]Ephraim[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Abner[/name_m] [name_m]Hawthorn[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Noam[/name_m] [name_f]Harvest[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Kestrel[/name_m] [name_m]Barnaby[/name_m] āKitā
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] [name_m]Yarrow[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Hamish[/name_m] [name_m]Alder[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Augustine[/name_m] [name_m]Elm[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Emmett[/name_m] [name_m]Jude[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f]Miach [name_m]Lazarus[/name_m]
[name_m]You[/name_m] have some absolutely gorgeous names here!
[name_f][/name_f]I think with their siblingsā¦
[name_f][/name_f]I have to put in a biased word for [name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] here 
[name_f][/name_f] We love ours so much! [name_m]The[/name_m] only unexpected con weāve encountered is that when we introduced him as an infant, sometimes people didnāt know whether he was girl or boy. He had lots of hair, haha, and [name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] is unfamiliar but sounds enough like some popular female or unisex names (Stephanie, [name_f]Melody[/name_f], [name_f]Cassidy[/name_f], etcāwe had someone think we said Tiffany) that apparently it was confusing. It seems better now that heās a toddler and more male-appearing.
[name_f]Shiloh[/name_f] [name_f][/name_f] is the name we chose for our baby in [name_f]Heaven[/name_f]. 4th pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 7 weeks. [name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] is our rainbow baby. [name_f]So[/name_f] itās really sweet to me to see them together. [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f] is the rare name I really love for either sex.
Of your girl names, I love [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] best! Though I do like them all, and I hope you get to use [name_f]Paloma[/name_f] if itās your fave. [name_f]Plum[/name_f] is so cute. It was the ābump nameā for one of my little sisters, and Iāve played around with it as a middle on my lists. We also have [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] on our list. I find it lovely and sereneāmaybe too serene for a real life daughter 
Some other names from my lists that you may like (sorry for any repeats):
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Ruby[/name_f], [name_f]Linnea[/name_f], [name_f]Fiona[/name_f], [name_f]Zipporah[/name_f], [name_f]Polly[/name_f], [name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f], [name_f]Eve[/name_f], [name_f]Loveday[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m], [name_m]Tobias[/name_m], [name_m]Nehemiah[/name_m], [name_m]Lazarus[/name_m], [name_m]Brannoc[/name_m], [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m], [name_m]Rory[/name_m], [name_m]Jubal[/name_m], Bran/Bram, [name_m]Jehu[/name_m], Malachy/Malachi
[name_m]Oh[/name_m] thank you! [name_m]You[/name_m] paired up our names beautifully 
[name_f][/name_f] & I just had to add [name_f]Paloma[/name_f] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f] to our list. I hadnāt thought of that one before & I love the meaning of ādove (symbolizing peace) & tranquilityā!
I especially love your suggestions of [name_f]Rowena[/name_f] [name_f]Meadow[/name_f] / [name_f]Rowena[/name_f] [name_f]Prairie[/name_f], [name_f]Heidi[/name_f] [name_m]Sorrel[/name_m], [name_f]Juniper[/name_f] [name_f]Alethea[/name_f], [name_f]Alma[/name_f] [name_f]Saffron[/name_f], [name_f]Winona[/name_f] [name_f]Harvest[/name_f], [name_f]Elspeth[/name_f] [name_f]Nightingale[/name_f] (You hit the mark perfectly with this one! [name_f]Nightingale[/name_f] is my sonās middle name ), [name_f]Thalia[/name_f] [name_f]Harvest[/name_f] / [name_f]Thalia[/name_f] [name_f]Evening[/name_f], [name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m] [name_m]Ephraim[/name_m], [name_m]Abner[/name_m] [name_m]Hawthorn[/name_m], [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] [name_m]Yarrow[/name_m], [name_m]Augustine[/name_m] [name_m]Elm[/name_m], & Miach [name_m]Lazarus[/name_m]! Thank you for taking the time to share such beautiful suggestions! @daisydarcy
Thank you dear [name_f][/name_f] It makes me happy to see anyone give preference to [name_m]Earnest[/name_m] 
[name_f][/name_f] That was my great-grandfatherās middle name[name_f][/name_f] & he feels so sweet & grounded to me! [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] [name_f]Ruth[/name_f] / [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] are such lovely pairings as well! @blackberryway
First off, I love all your kiddosā names & was so excited when you chose [name_m]Zebedee[/name_m]! [name_m]The[/name_m] same thing happened with my daughter except that it was because I dressed her in neutral colors & she had a curly blond fro until she was about 3 lol. Honestly, once people get past the newness of a name, they generally seem to be kind about it (at least, thatās been my personal experience).
[name_f][/name_f]Iām so sorry for your loss [name_f][/name_f] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f] is such a beautiful name 
[name_f]Marigold[/name_f] is our middle ground name (& [name_f]Fern[/name_f] is our wildcard), as we have different favorites [name_f][/name_f] Ultimately, weāll choose whatever feels right when we meet our little one. Thatās why itās so up in the air right now as to what weāll go with. I would let him nickname [name_f]Paloma[/name_f] almost anything if I got to use her! He feels the same way about [name_f]Hadassah[/name_f] lol. [name_f]Plum[/name_f] is such a cute bump name!
I honestly love all of your suggestions! [name_f]My[/name_f] favorites are probably [name_f]Ruby[/name_f], [name_f]Linnea[/name_f], [name_f]Zipporah[/name_f], [name_f]Eve[/name_f], [name_f]Loveday[/name_f], [name_m]Thaddeus[/name_m], [name_m]Nehemiah[/name_m], [name_m]Lazarus[/name_m], & [name_m]Malachi[/name_m]! Thank you for all of your thoughts & suggestions [name_f][/name_f] @auroradawn
Congratulations on sweet babe #3[name_f][/name_f]! [name_f][/name_f] [name_f]So[/name_f] happy for you!
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Love[/name_f] your list, especially [name_f]Marigold[/name_f], [name_f]Hadassah[/name_f], and [name_m]Zebedee[/name_m]!
[name_f][/name_f]I would love to meet a wee one named [name_f]Hadassah[/name_f] [name_f]Lavender[/name_f], [name_m]Zebedee[/name_m] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f], or [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] [name_f]Odelia[/name_f] [name_f]Ruth[/name_f]! [name_f][/name_f] I also adore [name_m]Amias[/name_m], [name_f]Lilac[/name_f], [name_f]Wisteria[/name_f], [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f], and [name_m]Nazareth[/name_m]!
[name_f][/name_f]Names in this vein:
[name_f][/name_f]Boys:
[name_f][/name_f]Girls:
[name_f][/name_f]Good luck!
Thank you so much! I actually know sisters named L.ave.nder & Ha.dassa.h[name_f][/name_f]! Iāve always loved their names [name_f][/name_f] Thank you for your amazing suggestions [name_f][/name_f] Iām especially loving [name_m]Judah[/name_m], [name_m]Jonas[/name_m] (canāt use unfortunately because out last name is extremely similar), [name_m]Boaz[/name_m], [name_m]Emmaus[/name_m], [name_m]Cedar[/name_m], [name_m]Bartholomew[/name_m], [name_m]Amos[/name_m], [name_m]Zebulun[/name_m], [name_m]Abram[/name_m], [name_f]Zipporah[/name_f], [name_f]Esther[/name_f], [name_f]Guinevere[/name_f], [name_f]Zeruiah[/name_f], [name_f]Pearl[/name_f], & [name_f]Colette[/name_f]! Thanks again, [name_m]Ash[/name_m]! @ashthedreamer
[name_m]Just[/name_m] popping in to say that [name]Paloma[/name_f] is probably my favorite for you! It has the same softness as your other two and I especially love the shared letter Oās throughout the sibset! And [name]Plum[/name_f] is such a darling nickname! I know the feeling of trying to sell my husband on a name, so I hope yours comes around!
[name_f][/name_f]I second the suggestions [name]Lilac[/name_f], [name]Ruth[/name_f], [name]Shiloh[/name_f], and [name]Sarai[/name_f] as middles for [name]Paloma[/name_f]! [name]Lilac[/name_f] is on our middle list as well (as a nod to babyās grandma who is obsessed with purple). I saw [name]Sonnet[/name_f] as a suggestion for you and think [name]Paloma[/name_f] [name]Sonnet[/name_f] would also be lovely. I donāt have a ton of new ideas, but I love your names and am so excited to see what you choose!
[name_m]Oh[/name_m] thank you dear [name_f][/name_f] I honestly appreciate everyoneās thoughts! I tend to overthink when it comes to choosing names lol. I immediately added [name_f]Paloma[/name_f] [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f] to our list when I saw it ā¦ only for it to get shot down by my husband. [name_m]Bless[/name_m] him lol. I havenāt lost all hope though. If I canāt convince him this go around, perhaps if weāre blessed with another little babe I can bring him around in the future [name_f][/name_f] Iām so excited to see what you all end up choosing for your little one by the way! @elizanerd
Seconding that I.ndigo, S.olomon, and [name_f]Paloma[/name_f] are absolutely dreamy[name_f][/name_f] together [name_f][/name_f] (if only your husband could come around hahaā¦) I also love I.ndigo, S.olomon, and [name_f]Marigold[/name_f]!
All of your choices are gorgeous and I canāt wait to see what you choose!!
[name_m]Oh[/name_m] you are so kind [name_f][/name_f] Thank you, [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] @zoedandelion
Thank you! [name_f]So[/name_f] excited to name our first [name_f][/name_f]- we have a completely blank canvas.
[name_f][/name_f]This thread reminded me of [name]Sonnet[/name_f] and it might get added to my possible middle names list. Of course it is the name of my fatherās high school sweetheart but I donāt know if that makes it unusable or notā¦ Regardless, so happy the Berries brought that name back into mind. I hope your combos grow on your husband!