omg how did i miss these i am so silly
@sierrajade [name_u]Laurel[/name_u] [name_u]Vesper[/name_u], [name_u]Arden[/name_u] [name_f]Celeste[/name_f], and [name_f]Agatha[/name_f] [name_f]Boheme[/name_f] are lovely!!!
@almostactually [name_f]Cleo[/name_f] [name_u]Antonia[/name_u] is !! also love [name_f]Agatha[/name_f] [name_f]Fern[/name_f]
thank you both so much!!