Making My List: The First Step

As we are approaching a new year, I would like to bring about a few changes to my life, although unrealistic, to get my shit together. And yes, that even includes names.

I have finally decided to make a proper list of names and keep it organised. Time to get a bit serious. You may choose names that you feel should continue staying on the list and names that I should take out. If you want to, you can also add suggestions.

Note: Athena remains on the list with the top-most spot.


  • Adelaide / Ada - “nobility”

I like this name, it’s sweet and charming. Reminds me of marmalade. I kind of prefer Ada to this. I’m not sure because I don’t have any connection to Adelaide, but Ada is the name of a character I like. It works across all three of my ancestries, unlike Adelaide.

  • Anemone - “daughter of the wind”

My nickname is Anna, and I like any name that begins with An-. Anemone just reminds me of a cool breeze, flowery lands and the onset of spring. Just good vibes. In the Victorian Flower Language, Anemone has a lot of meanings. My favourites would have to ‘anticipation’ or ‘forgotten love’.

  • Aphrodite - “goddess of love”

I know what I must expect with naming a daughter this. It gives way for immense teasing, but I don’t get it. Why would someone be teased? Regardless, I love this name.

  • Astraea - *“starry maiden”

During the pandemic, I studied astronomy as a way to spend time (I had too much on hand). I felt good, mostly because now I had something to do and knew something more about the world. I have also written numerous poems on stars, so Astraea feels like a good homage to that. Added to that, Astraea was the Greek goddess of justice & innocence and became the constellation of Virgo. A few people in my life have that zodiac sign so it feels like I’m honouring them too.

  • Avalon - “island of apples”

I was kinda obsessed with this name a few months ago. In Arthurian Legends, King Arthur was taken to Avalon so he could recover from his wounds. I love the story behind this name, with nicknames ‘Ava’ or ‘Val’. Apples, in themselves, symbolise knowledge, feminine beauty, fertility and love.

  • Cleo - “glory”

I was first introduced to Cleo in my neverending quest of finding Athena the perfect sibling name. I prefer this to Cleopatra, but I like both. I have always liked this spelling, never Clio, the muse of history & heroic poetry. To me, Cleo is apricot in colour.

  • Clover - “meadow flower”

Clover’s association would be undoubtedly known. The shamrock, a type of clover, is a national symbol of Ireland. Clovers symbolise faith, hope, love and luck. Clover also makes an appearance in the Taylor Swift song ivy.

  • Daphne - “laurel”

I have had a love-hate relationship with Daphne. Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don’t. For now, I’m loving it. Possibly due to Bridgerton. In mythology, Daphne was a Naiad who was romantically pursued by Apollo, and when she got exhausted, she cried out to Gaia for help. Gaia turned her into a laurel tree. Laurel trees, from then on, became the sacred plant of Apollo. Using this name would mean not being able to use Apollo. Not the best homage, but Laurel Gates was a character on Wednesday. I love the show and I know that isn’t the best association to have.

  • Emerald - “green gemstone”

I have a few associations with emeralds and they’re my absolute favourite gemstone! I won’t be listing all of them, but there are a few. Ireland is also known as the Emerald Isle. The Emerald City is the capital city of the Land of Oz, giving it’s literary association. It is also the birthstone of May. Emeralds symbolise royalty, wealth, truth and true love. The Greeks offered emeralds to Aphrodite, and it was Cleopatra’s favourite jewel.

  • Marigold - “golden flower”

Marigolds have a vast history. In Spain, the flowers were the favorites to be placed on the altar of the Virgin Mary. Eventually they became known as Mary’s Gold and hence, marigold. In Mexico and Central America, marigolds are used to honour the dead, and are known as flor de muertos or cempaxochitl. They are also considered an important flower in India. Marigolds represent the sun and symbolise power, happiness, strength and inner light.

  • Miraya - “Lord Krishna’s devotee”

Miraya reminds me of the darkest night, lit up by a thousand stars and blue sparks flickering across the sky. It subtly honours my grandmother as well. Now, while I do have Indian ancestry, I am not religious by any means. Would it be considered as disrespect if I used this name?

  • Nyx - “night”

I love this name more than anything. I have a profound connection with the night. The night gives me a sense of calmness, one like nothing else (except true love lol) can give me. Nyx was depicted as a either a winged goddess or charioteer, sometimes crowned with an aureole of dark mists. It is said that even Zeus feared her. My issue with the name: is it too associated with the makeup brand?

  • Persephone - “noble maiden, bringer of death”

One of the first names I loved, that I still do. She was the Goddess of Spring and the Queen of the Underworld. I don’t really have a connection with the name. I just find the name cool enough to take a spot on my list.

  • Rose - “red flower”

I love this name for how classic and versatile it is. It is said that a rose bush sprang up when Aphrodite’s tears and her lover Adonis’s blood touched the ground. The roses then became a symbol of Aphrodite’s. They also represent romance, love and beauty. Juliet famously said, “What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” Roses also feature in many of Taylor Swift’s songs.

  • Victoria - “victory”

Victoria encompasses everything I look for in a name. It’s regal, has mythological ties, is timeless and has a good meaning. Although I severely dislike Vicky or Tori as nicknames, I think Vi, Vivi or Plum would make good alternatives. I think it stands a place right next to Athena. The only downside: I don’t feel personally connected with this name.

  • Wednesday - “woden’s day”

I have loved this name before the show hit Netflix screens, but I’m loving it even more now! I was born on a Wednesday. I like how dark and playful it is.

  • Wisteria - “wister’s flower”

I love flowers, something that is pretty evident throughout the list. It was named by Thomas Nutall after Casper Wistar, an American physician. Wisteria’s symbolise immortality, new beginnings, love and elegance. Wisterias make an appearance in Bridgerton as well as are mentioned in the the lakes by Taylor Swift.


Berries, enlighten me with your opinions on these names and the one I should keep. Thank you! :heart:

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[name_f]Ada[/name_f], [name_u]Cleo[/name_u], & [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] are just amazing and should stay on the list! :bouquet:

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I think [name_f]Ada[/name_f], [name_f]Anemone[/name_f], [name_f]Astraea[/name_f], [name_f]Avalon[/name_f], [name_f]Clover[/name_f], [name_f]Emerald[/name_f], [name_f]Marigold[/name_f], [name_f]Rose[/name_f], [name_u]Nyx[/name_u] (personally, I don’t think of the brand at all when I hear Nyx) [name_f]Persephone[/name_f], [name_f]Victoria[/name_f], and [name_f]Wisteria[/name_f] should stay on your list!

Based on the opinions you gave on these, I’d maybe drop: [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], [name_u]Cleo[/name_u], [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f], and [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]. I don’t really have an opinion on [name_f]Wednesday[/name_f] and [name_f]Miraya[/name_f].

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps!

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Based On [name_f]My[/name_f] Opinion:
Anemone-Cute and nice name of a flower but it reminds me of anemia (toss)
Aphrodite-I don’t see why she would be teased (keep)
Astraea-I feel like its cuter on paper than when said out loud (toss)
Avalon-Prefer [name_f]Ava[/name_f] (toss)
Cleo-prefer it to the long version suggestion and as a sibling to [name_f]Athena[/name_f] (keep)
Clover-Not sure about this one like it but not sure about the sibling possibilities (toss)
Daphne-I’m in my love phase with this one at the moment (keep)
Emerald-In my love phase with gemstone names (keep)
Marigold-Goldie as a nn is so cute (keep)
Miraya-Don’t think it would be disrespectful if someone used a name from my culture but it all depends (keep)
Nyx-Hard to pronounce and spell (toss)
Persephone-Like it (keep)
Rose-Out of most floral names this one attracts me the least for some reason (keep)
Victoria-more popular than the rest but a classic (keep)
Wednesday-I don’t like using week names and month names on kids (toss)
[name_f]Wisteria[/name_f]- cute,unique and something different (keep)

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Oh my goodness what a beautiful list, honestly it’s hard to find fault with any of them :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

If I had to lose any, I’d suggest [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] (since you seem on the fence anyway), [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] (same again - although this is in my top 3 girl names, but you don’t seem sure), and Anenome (even though your reasons are gorgeous, I feel like many people would struggle with the pronunciation).

I don’t associate [name_u]Nyx[/name_u] with the brand myself! And I agree, I don’t personally see why an [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f] would be teased - I knew one at university and nobody ever said anything but positive things about her name. It’s lovely.

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  • [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] / [name_f]Ada[/name_f] - [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] is a beautiful name - elegant, sweet and charming. [name_f]Ada[/name_f] has vintage spark, strength and sweetness. I think it sounds like [name_f]Ada[/name_f] is more the one for you.

  • [name_f]Anemone[/name_f] - it is intriguing and distinctive, but I admit I’d lose this one. I trip no matter how many times I saw it and I think of sea anemones (which are cool, but give me different imagery)

  • [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f] - it is cool but it does feel like a very heavy name to wear

  • [name_f]Astraea[/name_f] - gorgeous, meaningful and lovely

  • [name_f]Avalon[/name_f] - the sound and vibes are great - strong and mystical

  • [name_u]Cleo[/name_u] - a long time fave - sparky, stylish and cheerful

  • [name_f]Clover[/name_f] - not my fave on your list, but it is quite nice, fresh and cosy

  • [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] - I like the clunky cute vibe of [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], but it doesn’t seem right for your list when you talk about it

  • [name_f]Emerald[/name_f] - a wonderful, gentle yet bright name!

  • [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] - charming, elegant and sweet.

  • [name_f]Miraya[/name_f] - a very beautiful name, but I can’t personally comment on the religious associations

  • [name_u]Nyx[/name_u] - *" such a bright, cool name, but I do associate it with the make up brand

  • [name_f]Persephone[/name_f] - elegant and beautiful

  • [name_f]Rose[/name_f] - it’s nice enough but a bit - I don’t know - lacklustre - amongst your other names

  • [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] - it’s okay, but I do find it a bit harsh and cold?

  • [name_f]Wednesday[/name_f] - a bold choice but also dark, mystical and fun

  • [name_f]Wisteria[/name_f] - very charming and whimsical

[name_u]Cleo[/name_u], [name_f]Astraea[/name_f], [name_f]Emerald[/name_f], and [name_f]Persephone[/name_f] are the ones I’d root for, [name_f]Rose[/name_f], [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] less so.

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Best of luck in the new year, [name_f]Scarlet[/name_f]! :two_hearts:

In my personal opinion, I think (based on your comments) you should keep –

[name_f]Ada[/name_f]
[name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f]
[name_f]Astraea[/name_f] (my favorite of this list!)
[name_f]Avalon[/name_f]
[name_u]Cleo[/name_u]
[name_f]Emerald[/name_f]
[name_u]Nyx[/name_u]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Wednesday[/name_f]
[name_f]Wisteria[/name_f]

I’m indifferent on –

[name_f]Anemone[/name_f] — definitely belongs on your list, I just think of sea anemones
[name_f]Clover[/name_f] — different from your overall style
[name_f]Miraya[/name_f] — ultimately, you would only be able to decide the religious part of it
[name_f]Persephone[/name_f] – I personally wouldn’t want the second meaning, but it is a lovely name

I think these are lovely, but…

[name_f]Daphne[/name_f] — if you have a love-hate relationship with it, I would keep it just below the list but always open to it
[name_f]Marigold[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]

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After reading your explanations I think [name_f]Astraea[/name_f], [name_f]Emerald[/name_f], and [name_f]Persephone[/name_f] are the top three that I think should definitely stay on the list.

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I would keep [name_f]Athena[/name_f], [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], [name_f]Emerald[/name_f], [name_f]Wednesday[/name_f], and [name_f]Wisteria[/name_f].

Of these, I’d most likely use [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] (nn [name_f]Ada[/name_f], not [name_f]Addie[/name_f] hopefully) and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]. I like them all though.

Of the others, some seem hard to say like [name_f]Anemone[/name_f], [name_f]Astraea[/name_f].

[name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f] is the sexy goddess, but even more than that the dite part sounds wild.

[name_f]Persephone[/name_f] is to me a victim.

[name_u]Nyx[/name_u] is a name of an anti-lice medicine I know about b/c my grandkids kept getting lice.

[name_f]Clover[/name_f], [name_f]Marigold[/name_f], and [name_f]Rose[/name_f] are too sweet for my taste.

I love [name_f]Mireya[/name_f], but would spell it that way.

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I like [name_f]Clover[/name_f], [name_f]Persephone[/name_f], [name_f]Rose[/name_f], [name_f]Wednesday[/name_f], and [name_f]Avalon[/name_f]. ( [name_f]Athena[/name_f] is lovely too :heart_eyes:)

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I would keep: [name_f]Ada[/name_f], [name_f]Astraea[/name_f], [name_f]Avalon[/name_f], [name_f]Clover[/name_f], [name_f]Marigold[/name_f], [name_f]Rose[/name_f], [name_f]Victoria[/name_f], and [name_f]Wisteria[/name_f] :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Thank you for all your responses!


@somemelodioussonnet [name_u]Cleo[/name_u] feels like the perfect sister name to [name_f]Athena[/name_f], and [name_f]Ada[/name_f] is pretty nice too.

@Tealocean It is assuring that people’s first association isn’t the makeup brand. I’m glad you like many of the names.

@arlamarie101 That was really helpful. I have always worried about [name_f]Astraea[/name_f]. I love everything about the name, but I can’t seem to make up my mind about the spelling.

@persephonescrown I feel like [name_f]Anemone[/name_f] should stay off the list for a while, and then I might bring it back into circulation. I think non-name nerds would agree with you on that: a friend thought it was a misspelling of [name_f]Antigone[/name_f] and another suggested the nickname “Money” for her :sweat_smile: I might have to reconsider [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f] for middles.

@Greyblue Your thoughts were very helpful. There’s kind of a distinction between the names I have. On one hand I have names like [name_f]Rose[/name_f] & [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] and on the other I have names like [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f] & [name_f]Persephone[/name_f]. Some names just stand out more.

@clair.de.lune Best of luck to you too! I agree about [name_f]Clover[/name_f]. It’s always difficult finding a suitable sibling name for her.

@sammaegre I think so too! Those names have definitely secured top spots.

@Harvest-Endellion I think, with [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f], I’m more in love with the idea of the name than the name itself.

@bemiranda & @may.rose Thank you for your replies! :heart:

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[name_u]Love[/name_u] [name_f]Rose[/name_f], [name_u]Cleo[/name_u] and [name_f]Emerald[/name_f]. [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] / [name_f]Ada[/name_f] is also nice if a little more pedestrian.

I’d get rid of [name_f]Anemone[/name_f], [name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f], [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and [name_f]Victoria[/name_f], among others.

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