Matthew? Murray? M name -help!

Hello Nameberries! I posted a couple of months ago – expecting baby #2 in mid-[name]May[/name] (brother to [name]Sally[/name] [name]Rose[/name]) – we are going with an “M” name in memory of my mom, [name]Marilyn[/name]. When I posted back in [name]December[/name], I was stuck between [name]Max[/name] and [name]Matthew[/name]… you were all so helpful! I was rooting for [name]Max[/name] (or [name]Mack[/name]/[name]Mac[/name]), but my husband is not on board… for a while we were going to go with [name]Matthew[/name], but I’m still not feeling 100%. The problem is, I do like [name]Matthew[/name]: it’s strong, classic, sensible -but so very ordinary… should we go for it anyway? I don’t want to choose an inferior name just because it’s NOT [name]Matthew[/name]. Right now we like [name]Murray[/name]… in fact, it grows on me more and more everyday. I like it because it’s sweet and not very popular, but I’m also wondering if [name]Matthew[/name] is a better name in the long-run (even though it’s ordinary)… thoughts? suggestions? What are some of your favorite M names??

Hmmm… well. I’m not big on surname names, and [name]Murray[/name] seems to remind me of [name]Meg[/name] [name]Murry[/name] from “A Wrinkle in Time.” I’m sorry I prefer [name]Matthew[/name]. However, if you are worried about ordinariness, what about [name]Matthias[/name] or [name]Matteo[/name]? I love those names. Other M names I adore…

[name]Maxwell[/name]
[name]Miles[/name]
[name]Malcolm[/name] you could use nn [name]Mac[/name] :slight_smile:
[name]Marco[/name]
[name]Micah[/name]
[name]Mason[/name]

Good luck! I hope I helped.

[name]Matthew[/name] has never been a favourite name of mine and I’m not sure why. There’s nothing wrong with this Biblical classic but I find it overused and ordinary. Sorry but I don’t really care for [name]Murray[/name]. [name]Sally[/name] [name]Rose[/name] has a vintage feel so here are some other suggestions for “M” names.

[name]Maurice[/name]
[name]Marcus[/name]
[name]Marshall[/name]
[name]Mitchell[/name]
[name]Martin[/name]
[name]Marius[/name]
[name]Merlin[/name]
[name]Miles[/name]/[name]Milo[/name]
[name]Montgomery[/name]
[name]Moses[/name]
[name]Murphy[/name]
[name]Miller[/name]
[name]Myron[/name]
Morse
[name]Monroe[/name]
[name]Montague[/name]
Maitland
Mabon
[name]Magnus[/name]/[name]Manus[/name]
[name]Mannix[/name]
Manton
[name]Marcel[/name]
Marriner
[name]Marlin[/name]/[name]Marlon[/name]
[name]Marlowe[/name]
[name]Maynard[/name]
[name]Merrill[/name]
Merit/[name]Merritt[/name]
Milborough
[name]Milburn[/name]
[name]Mortimer[/name]
Murtagh

[name]Matthias[/name] was my first thought for you!

My favorite m names are [name]Matthias[/name], [name]Micah[/name] (nn [name]Mick[/name]), [name]Malachi[/name] (nn [name]Mal[/name] or [name]Chi[/name]), and [name]Malcolm[/name] (nn [name]Mal[/name]). [name]Matthew[/name] is still a great choice though. Good luck!

[name]Matthias[/name] is the obvious choice! I also love [name]Miles[/name].

I love “M” names including [name]Matthew[/name] but since I have a [name]Mark[/name] already they are off limits for me. Have you considered [name]Mark[/name] or [name]Marcus[/name]? There aren’t very many little Marks anymore. Mine is 6 and we haven’t met any. [name]Mark[/name] is also very close to [name]Marilyn[/name].

I love [name]Matthew[/name] and [name]Murray[/name]! I would probably just use [name]Matthew[/name] [name]Murray[/name] or [name]Murray[/name] [name]Matthew[/name], lol. I love the alliteration and I wouldn’t want to give either name up! I love the classic [name]Matthew[/name] with the more classic [name]Sally[/name] [name]Rose[/name]… I think [name]Murray[/name] has a more modern feeling that doesn’t flow as well with [name]Sally[/name]. I really love [name]Max[/name]/[name]Maxwell[/name], too bad that didn’t work out!

What about:
[name]Micah[/name]
[name]Morgan[/name]
[name]Marcus[/name]
[name]Miller[/name]
[name]Mercer[/name]
[name]Magnus[/name]
[name]Mackenzie[/name] (largely gone to the girls, I’m afraid, but I’ve only ever met boy Mackenzies and I think [name]Mac[/name], [name]Max[/name], or even [name]Ken[/name] are such cool nicknames for this!)
[name]Marius[/name]
[name]Marley[/name]
[name]Merritt[/name]
[name]McKinley[/name] (love the nns [name]Mac[/name]/[name]Max[/name] or even [name]Lee[/name]/[name]Leo[/name]!)
[name]Milo[/name]/[name]Milos[/name]/[name]Miles[/name]
[name]Moses[/name]/[name]Moshe[/name] (while I think [name]Moses[/name] would work better with [name]Sally[/name], I’ve always had a soft spot for the very-Hebrew [name]Moshe[/name]! I think it’s adorable)

Good luck!

I like [name]Murray[/name] better than [name]Matthew[/name] by a long run! (:
Some of my favorite M names are, [name]Milo[/name], [name]Mattias[/name], [name]Murphy[/name], [name]Marshall[/name], [name]Maverick[/name] (:

I would consider [name]Marcel[/name] over [name]Murray[/name], it’s french but easily prn in English, it’s not too stylish in [name]France[/name] right now but since [name]Marion[/name] Cotillard just used it for her baby maybe it will become hip in the US?

I tend to agree that while [name]Matthew[/name] is a sensible solid name, there’s nothing very exciting about it. As others have suggested, my first thought was [name]Matthias[/name]. I’m not taken with [name]Murray[/name] but would probably prefer it over [name]Matthew[/name].

Other M names that spring to mind are [name]Marcus[/name], [name]Mitchell[/name], [name]Milton[/name] and [name]Murphy[/name]. Good luck with it!

Thanks, everyone for all your advice -much appreciated!!! It’s going to be a tough call… I may try to return to [name]Max[/name] -I like the suggestion of [name]Maxwell[/name]! As for the [name]Matthew[/name] variations ([name]Matthias[/name], etc.) -while they are great, I think there are more nn options with [name]Matthew[/name] ([name]Matt[/name], [name]Matty[/name]…) Ashthedreamer -I also love [name]Moses[/name]/[name]Moshe[/name] -but they have already been nixed! And [name]Milo[/name] is great, but it’s already taken by my 1 year-old nephew. Hmmm… [name]Milton[/name]… [name]Martin[/name]… [name]Marcel[/name]… [name]Maurice[/name]… I do like these! I’ll keep y’all posted -thanks again!!! :slight_smile:

I vote [name]Martin[/name] or [name]Miller[/name].