This is really just a thought exercise and playing around with names, so…ahem. A fairly familiar acquaintance /good friend of a good friend, who’s a few years older than me, moved back to [name]England[/name] with her boyfriend earlier this year, after living in Japan after she graduated, teaching English and such. They’ve both got pretty common names and aren’t name geeks, so what the hey - the mother-to-be is [name]Caitriona[/name], but she’s always gone by [name]Catrina[/name] to the point of writing it like that for an easy life, or her nn [name]Cat[/name]. Her boyfriend is called [name]Kazuo[/name] and has a pretty common Japanese surname. They have a young daughter, Shiori (詩織), no mn, no nn.
They’ve just found out that they’re expecting a second child, and have been testing the water for Japanese names in [name]England[/name] and such. Their top choices are as follows:
Girl:
Narumi (鳴海 - means “the roaring of the sea”) (na-ru-mi. Stress is even and r is pronounced like r/l. In reality, this will probably be pronounced like a straight ‘r’ in [name]Brit[/name] society and “properly” in Japan/at home)
[name]Azami[/name] (薊) (“thistle”) (a-za-mi)
Kaede (楓) (their favourite, means “maple”) (kai-day?)
Manami (愛海) (ma-na-mi)
Sumire (” or 紫花) (second favourite, means “violet” or “purple flower”) (su-mi-rey)
Nozomi (希) (“hope”) (no-zo-mi. I have a friend named this, and you say it really quickly, so it’s a blur between noz-mi and a little bit no-zo-mi. It’s not -pretty- but it’s cool)
Kozue (梢) (“twig”, “treetop”) (ko-zu-ey?)
Boys:
[name]Kiyoshi[/name] (亮 - “pure”) (ki-yo-shi)
[name]Akira[/name] (昭 - “bright”)
Sho / Shou (翔 - “soar, fly”)
These are all left over from when Shiori was just a bump and they were working out names for either gender. [name]Both[/name] sets of grandparents are okay with them and can say them, and they’re one-kanji names, which [name]Kazuo[/name] likes. [name]Cat[/name] also likes Shūji, Shinji and Mitsu- names, but [name]Kazuo[/name] doesn’t.
They’ve decided to go with a middle-name this time. It will be Scottish or English, maybe something a bit more out there, and they’re not too worried about it working in Japanese, as, well, middle names aren’t really a thing in Japanese culture. They want something fun but not completely insane compared with the Japanese first name - boys might be [name]Bartholomew[/name], which they both find fun and quirky, but also a name with substance and history. Personally, I’m not sure whether [name]Akira[/name] [name]Bartholomew[/name] is awesome, surreal or an abomination. They’re both pretty flamboyant, and I think they want -exotic- or -unusual- or just fun and funky more than [name]Thomas[/name] or [name]Anne[/name]. Then again, [name]Cat[/name] does love [name]Violet[/name] and [name]Ava[/name].
As a name nerd, I have to say - thank you god or godlike-deity for Facebook and indecisive parents-to-be!
So, not that I have any influence, nor would I want any, this got me thinking…
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What do you think of their Japanese fn choices? [name]Do[/name] they go with Shiori? Are they too weird for English speakers? I know they didn’t want ‘tame’ compromises like [name]Naomi[/name] / [name]Emi[/name] / [name]Hana[/name] etc… but is it too much? The surname is Japanese, so it’s not like it would look ‘odd’ - not like [name]Hanako[/name] [name]Smith[/name] or something. [name]Do[/name] you have a favourite?
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If you had to, what names (British/Scottish/Mythological/Your culture/whatever) would you put with these names? They can be used as fn or mn, and you can have two middle names if you want.
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Would you ever give one kid no middle name, and another kid one or two middle names? Why?
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Would you ever give a kid one name from the father’s culture, and the other a name from the mother’s? E.G - [name]Shiori[/name] and [name]Ailsa[/name]?
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If you had to, or wanted to, what combos would you make with one Japanese name and one non-Japanese name? You can go as wild as you like, make huge lists or not, all cultures and types of names are acceptable, either gender, it just to have one Japanese name, as a first name or middle name. [name]Inspiration[/name] for Japanese names, if you want it - stc.cx . User Comments for the name Kaede - Behind the Name . Category:Japanese given names - Wikipedia . Or google. Or whatever. This is the main question because I’m nosy as to what combos everyone’d come up with! No limits. I’ll make some later myself.
Sooooo… whatdya think?
PS: Sorry if this is better suited to the game forum.