Middle name after surrogate?

[name_m]Long[/name_m] story short: I had a miscarriage and an emergency hysterectomy following uterine rupture. We had planned for years on using [name_f]Calista[/name_f] [name_f]Roisin[/name_f] for a girl. We are now using a gestational surrogate (our bun, her oven) to help us complete our family. If baby is a girl I’m wondering if we should consider adding a second middle to honor our surrogate. Her name is [name_f]Laura[/name_f] and I have been thinking about [name_f]Calista[/name_f] [name_f]Roisin[/name_f] [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f].

Thoughts on this? How does [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] sound with the rest of the name? Would you honor a surrogate in this way? Would you recommend another combination?

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Awe I think this is a sweet idea! Congratulations!

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There’s a Facebook Watch series called 9 Months with [name_f]Courteney[/name_f] Cox and one of their families with a surrogate did this!! They had a girl so the baby’s middle name was her surrogate’s first name. Although they used the exact name, rather than a variation.

I think either [name_f]Laura[/name_f] or [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] is fine! But I personally prefer the variation [name_u]Laurel[/name_u].

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That’s a lovely idea! And it’s a gorgeous name :slight_smile:

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Wow, what a gorgeous name, and such an incredibly lovely way to honor your surrogate. I think [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] is perfect, and flows so wonderfully in that combo. :orange_heart:

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I think it’s a lovely idea to honor her. I prefer the more classic [name_f]Laura[/name_f] though - [name_f]Calista[/name_f] [name_f]Laura[/name_f] [name_f]Roisin[/name_f] works well.

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Such a lovely idea and a lovely name.

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I think it’s a really sweet idea and the whole name sounds lovely together :blush:

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This is a lovely idea, and [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] fits beautifully with the first and middle name you have picked. [name_f]Calista[/name_f] [name_f]Roisin[/name_f] [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] is a beautiful name!

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I think it’s a great name and wonderful you want to honour such a special person to your family

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Absolutely! It’s a beautiful way to honour the surrogate who helped you get to your family :two_hearts:

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I prefer the flow of [name_f]Calista[/name_f] [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] [name_f]Roisin[/name_f], but both are beautiful and it depends on what sounds better with your surname. It’s really sweet to include her in your baby’s name. Maybe if you have a boy you could work [name_u]Laurence[/name_u] into it somehow.

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I like the idea!

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Callista [name_f]Roisin[/name_f] [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] is gorgeous

I think that’s very sweet!

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Its absolutely gorgeous, perfect for your family, I love it!

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I think it’s a lovely idea!

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What a sweet and lovely idea! I love [name_f]Calista[/name_f] btw!

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You are a very kind person. I would not choose a name to honor a surrogate, but if you are completely good with it, that’s fine.

When your child asks though, “Why and how did you choose my names?”, if you are OK with acknowledging that, then it’s fine.

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What a wonderful idea! I think it flows beautifully!

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