Middle Name Dilemma

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] Everyone!
I am a trans boy currently asking for help to settle on a set of middle names as I like having opinions of those outside of my family and friends for an outsider’s perspective :slight_smile:
Thanks to so many people’s suggestions and help, I have decided to choose the name [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] to pair with my chosen first name, [name_m]Brendan[/name_m].
However, I am looking into acquiring another middle name as my birth name has two. I would love to receive opinions on the following names and would love to hear some of your suggestions as well! :grin:

  1. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Adam[/name_m]
  2. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Gavin[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
  3. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]John[/name_m]
  4. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Azriel[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
  5. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Abel[/name_m]
  6. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Anthony[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]

It may be worth mentioning that I’m from [name_f]England[/name_f], so names that I tend to prefer often reflect that :sweat_smile:
Thanks for all your help! :heart:

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How exciting! [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] is a very cool name. Out of your options I really like [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Azriel[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] and [name_m]Brandan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Abel[/name_m]!

I don’t live in [name_f]England[/name_f], so hopefully these names still suit your style.
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Felix[/name_m]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Gus[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Hayes[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Russel[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Dale[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Gatsby[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Atlas[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Dexter[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Rory[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Leon[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Winston[/name_m]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Lennox[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Norman[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Adrian[/name_m]

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This is so exciting :partying_face: [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite is…
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Adam[/name_m]- This sounds lovely. I like that each name ends in a different sound. [name_f]My[/name_f] only advice would be to add an “s” to the end of [name_m]Adam[/name_m] to make the name sound a little more fluid and unique (ex. [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] Adams).

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[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Abel[/name_m] and [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Abel[/name_m] are lovely!! Fresh and cool

[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]George[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Nathan[/name_m]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Joel[/name_m]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]

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I really like [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Gavin[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]! It seems very elegant and sophisticated. Best of luck!

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[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Abel[/name_m] is so cool! [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Adam[/name_m] is dashing as well.

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[name_m]Ah[/name_m] congrats on finding two names perfect for you! Honestly finding a name right for you must be so exciting and I hope you find the right second middle name.

I live in [name_f]England[/name_f] (yay [name_f]English[/name_f] people together whoop whoop) so hopefully my Englishness will also be reflected in my favourites for you. But honestly probably not :joy::woman_facepalming:t3:

Anyways I really love [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]John[/name_m] I’ve always had a soft spot for [name_m]John[/name_m] it’s a family name however I do prefer [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]John[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] I just think [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] feels more unexpected and interesting after [name_m]John[/name_m]. I also really like [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Azriel[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] & [name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Abel[/name_m].

You’ve had a few suggestions so count any repeats as me being in agreement with the berries

[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Ezra[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Rudy[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Scott[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Timothy[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Oliver[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Riley[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]Joshua[/name_m]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]Callum[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Constantine[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Jamie[/name_u] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] [name_u]York[/name_u]
[name_m]Brendan[/name_m] [name_m]Isaiah[/name_m] [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]

Good luck

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