I really like the [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] combos.
My favourite is [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m].
I think the [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] combos sound like they give you the most positives and the least negatives in your situation. Of them, I prefer the flow of [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_m]Hugo[/name_m].
I would go with [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] as well. I love [name_m]Jasper[/name_m] and [name_m]Hugo[/name_m], but together they sound so close to [name_m]Victor[/name_m] [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] to me. (Which is not a bad association or deal breaker, but peronally it bugs me when a name combo so closely mirrors a famous/historical person’s full name). [name_m]Elijah[/name_m] breaks it up, and appeases your DH.