I like [name_f]Lilla[/name_f]!
[name_f]My[/name_f] fave combos of yours are [name_f]Lilla[/name_f] [name_u]Ruby[/name_u] and [name_f]Lilla[/name_f] RaeLeen.
[name_f]My[/name_f] full name is [name_f]Tamara[/name_f] and my dad agreed to it under the stipulation that I would never be called “[name_f]Tammy[/name_f]” as a nn- and I never really was. I either go by my full name or by “T”. I think you can definitely avoid nicknames you don’t like unless your daughter really likes it- people will follow yours and your kid’s lead.
[name_f]Lilla[/name_f] is lovely, unusual but still familiar and intuitive.
Of your combos, I like [name_f]Lilla[/name_f] [name_u]Brooke[/name_u], [name_f]Lilla[/name_f] [name_u]Ruby[/name_u] and [name_f]Lilla[/name_f] [name_u]Vivian[/name_u] best.