Middle name help

We always use a family name for a middle name, but I feel stumped this time. We have basically decided on [name_f]Havilah[/name_f] for a first name. Which would you use for a middle name?

[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Mary[/name_f]
[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_u]Joyce[/name_u]
[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Elaine[/name_f]
[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Esther[/name_f]
[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f]

If we forgo family names my husband likes

[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Noelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f]

We almost lost her due to a subchorionic hemorrhage…wish we could just call her miracle!

The combo I like best from your list is [name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Miriam[/name_f], with [name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Noelle[/name_f] and [name_f]Havilah[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] as runners up.