Middle name to honor deceased friend

So about a month ago, I asked for help in selecting middle names for a baby girl. [name_f]My[/name_f] top names were [name_u]Brooklyn[/name_u], [name_f]Siena[/name_f] and [name_f]Isla[/name_f]. Now, I need some input on using [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] as a middle name.

Yesterday I learned that my best friend, [name_f]Melissa[/name_f], died very suddenly last week in a freak accident. She was a fun, positive, outgoing, and loving person who would give you the clothes off her back. She was spunky, and had a zest for life.

Id like to name my future daughter with [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] as a middle name to honor my friend. I’m not sure what names will go good. All ideas are welcome! :heart:

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I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. Using [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] in tribute to her is a lovely idea. [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] means “honeybee” so you could also use [name_f]Bee[/name_f] as a middle name if you find that easier to work with.

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Melinda and [name_f]Missy[/name_f] come to mind as alternatives to [name_f]Melissa[/name_f], if you’d rather not use the exact name.

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Its cute!

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So sorry to hear about your friend. No time is a good time to lose someone but it’s especially hard to grieve for someone right now when most of us are feeling isolated already. I think [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] will make a great middle name.

Suggestions:
I think your original top names will work…
[name_u]Brooklyn[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Siena[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] - I like this combo!
[name_f]Livia[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Amber[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Harper[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Vivian[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]

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So sorry for your loss. Must be a terrible shock for you. [name_f]Hope[/name_f] you are keeping well and looking after yourself.

I think Isla, Siena or Brooklyn works well if you want to use Melissa as a middle name.

Some other ideas I’ve had…

Names with nice meanings:

[name_f]Renee[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] (means reborn)
[name_f]Eva[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] (means life)
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]/Beatrix [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] (means “she who brings happiness,” which I thought of when you were describing your friend)
[name_f]Bonnie[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] (means beautiful and cheerful)

Names similar to ones you’ve listed:

[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Piper[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]

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Thank you everyone for recommending all these beautiful names. I feel like talking about her keeps her alive. She was only 30, and while she was alive, she taught me so much.

Sorry for your loss :heart:

Brooklyn [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] works

Ivy [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosie[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]June[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Brooke[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Harlow[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]

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I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] :broken_heart:

Names like [name_u]Brooklyn[/name_u], [name_f]Siena[/name_f] and [name_f]Isla[/name_f] that fit with [name_f]Melissa[/name_f] in the middle (please consider repeats seconded)…

Ruby [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Evie[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Bonnie[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Seren[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Piper[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Hadley[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Frankie[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Everly[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Neve[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Meadow[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Esme[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]

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I’m so sorry for your loss.

I actually like all three names you mentioned with [name_f]Melissa[/name_f], but there might be names with better flow.

Ruby [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Chloe[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgia[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Sierra[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Opal[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]June[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Lena[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_u]Berkeley[/name_u] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Lily[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Sybil[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] [name_f]Melissa[/name_f]

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