What would you do in our predicament:
All of our nieces & nephews, plus our own daughter have family middle names. If this next baby is a girl, we are struggling to find a family name that hasn’t already been used/that we actually like.
My mom is [name_f]Nancy[/name_f]. Mother in law is [name_f]Cynthia[/name_f]. Husbands grandma is [name_f]Alicia[/name_f]. We aren’t crazy over any of these. For our first daughter, we used [name_f]Joy[/name_f] to honor my grandma [name_u]Joyce[/name_u].
Our ideas so far:
[name_u]June[/name_u] - my moms birth month.
[name_f]Rose[/name_f] - my moms birth month flower & we have great grandma Roses’ in both of our families.
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]- my [name_f]MIL[/name_f]’s birth month flower & my great great grandmas name.
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]- my birth month flower.
[name_f]Do[/name_f] you think using an “honor name” like this would take away from the family name tradition all her cousins & sister would have?
First names were considering are [name_f]Nola[/name_f], [name_u]Scout[/name_u] & [name_f]Isla[/name_f].
Any suggestions are welcome!