I think flow depends on how many syllables are in your last name. If your last name is 2 syllables, for example, I prefer [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] as opposed to 2-2-2, which rarely flows well, [name_f]IMO[/name_f] [name_m]Wesley[/name_m], [name_u]Elliott[/name_u], & [name_m]Phillip[/name_m] are all handsome names, though! Best wishes.
I prefer [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] [name_m]Phillip[/name_m]. [name_m]Wesley[/name_m] [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] is nice but I dislike the -ee sounds being so close together.